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Prejudice keeps people from meeting each other.

People who can easily find a partner smoothly are more likely to enjoy meeting people in a cheerful and lighthearted manner.
The secret of success is to have fun and not take things too seriously.
（ Regardless of age ） People with limited life experience tend to be prejudiced.

（ Example ） Prejudice against the age and occupation of your partner.
I introduced a woman in her 50s, S, to a nice man in his 60s, and before we met, S said, "I don't want to be a caregiver, I want to spend my life with a nice man." And.
I was also amazed at her assumption that she would be a 'caregiver' simply because she was older than me.
There are many healthy people in their 60s and 70s.
There are also people in their 30s, 40s, and 50s who are unhealthy.

Mr. S's assumption and prejudice is
young ＝ healthy.
Older than herself ＝ Nursing care.

Those who can afford it can eat healthy food and spend money on health care
（ They can get beauty treatments, pilates, yoga, personal trainers, etc. ） Not all people in their 60s and 70s are unhealthy. They are not all unhealthy people in their 60's and 70's.
There are still many professions out there that we don't know about.
They are prejudiced against occupations without even trying to know about them.

If you choose your partner with prejudice and assumption like this, or if you go on a date with a serious face and no smile on your face, it is unlikely that any partner will ask you out a second time.

You should start by throwing away your prejudices and assumptions.
Love, Miwako