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#1
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  • 2022/10/18 02:12

Have you all thought about divorce?
What was the reason?
Have you actually divorced?
Do you want to get married again?

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#43
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  • 2022/11/06 (Sun) 20:35
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would be easy to agree if they are the same. I think it fits ？ When you write incompatible, it sounds like you are the center and everyone around you is crazy. Like a wife who has been unfaithful to her husband, or a wife with children.
Things seem good.
Some people are not vengeful.

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#44
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  • 2022/11/07 (Mon) 09:47
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You center yourself and decide that your values don't match ？ not that there's something wrong with the people around you. It's natural that there are people with different ideas, and you say your values and ideas based on that.

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#45
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  • 2022/11/07 (Mon) 10:56
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It's a hard line to draw
between expressing your opinion and criticizing the other person's opinion.

People who can get along with others even if they have different opinions
and people who cannot get along unless they agree
People who are liked by others and people who make enemies anyway

I guess it's natural to have different values, but people who cannot get along with others are people I think people who don't get along with others are people who don't care about others' feelings and don't know how to feel distance from others.
Before right or wrong, I think it is whether one's words and attitude are favorable or unfavorable. Even if you say the right thing, the way you say it and the timing depends on your position. People who can't communicate lose because they say what they want to say anyway, and I don't want to have a conversation with someone who starts with negativity when I say something.
There is also personality, but it gets worse with age.

Old people usually tend to be one-way traffic, and most of them are unable to feel the other person's feelings. I don't argue with them and don't listen to them because they can't keep up with the times, so I don't know if they have no choice physically. But if there is no need, I don't bother to take my time to hang out with them, so I think they are getting lonelier and lonelier, and they have no one to talk to, so they are venting their frustrations on the Internet.

The best thing to do is not to deal with them.

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#47
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  • 2022/11/07 (Mon) 11:38
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I think you are exactly right.
Everyone has different values and ways of thinking, so the important point is to communicate while grasping the sense of distance to see if you will be accepted, but I think there are few people who can have a good conversation without grasping the sense of distance. When you write your opinion to the majority of people you don't know on the Internet, it doesn't matter what the distance is, because you are expressing your own thoughts.
It is difficult not to completely deny others because opinions are one-sided, but I think it is good if the recipient understands that the opinion is based on a certain premise.

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#50
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  • 2022/11/08 (Tue) 16:46
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This guy.

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