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It's so sad that he doesn't have any friends ？.

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#1
  • ぼっち
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  • 2023/11/14 22:52

What is a friend ？ I'm here ？.

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#58
  • 昭和27
  • 2023/11/20 (Mon) 12:56
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Is Bokuchisan concerned about how he looks without friends ？
or does trying to make friends make him question what in the world a friend is?

Do you have to rethink what a friend is, you may arrive at some interesting results.

When a toddler comes into contact with children outside the family, they have made friends. The word friend is then used as a generic term for all kinds of relationships.

As adults, friends are replaced by family relationships, parental relationships, work relationships, play relationships, casual relationships, lover relationships, and so on.

At that time, you will no longer have friends. As an adult, you may assume you have no friends.

This idea is likely to be questioned and rebuffed, but it may be seen as a starting point for an interesting idea.

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#59
  • ボッチ
  • 2023/11/21 (Tue) 19:02
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If you marry a Showa-era father,
will they say that you are a ball-buster ？?

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#60
  • ぼっち
  • 2023/11/21 (Tue) 21:51
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No, no, I don't care about how I look. I don't like people who seem to have a lot of friends, and the feeling of being a bother comes first.

I think that by avoiding or not extending my connections with people in this way, I am also narrowing my child's world.

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#61
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2023/11/22 (Wed) 07:00
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Showa Otto is LGBT, so it would be impossible.

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#62
  • 昭和27
  • 2023/11/22 (Wed) 12:19
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Do you feel sorry for your child for not having friends, not you?

Do you yourself find socializing stressful? There are a lot of people like that. That's all right. For children, that's why they have schools, where they learn about peer relationships, so to speak. That's important and they learn skills to do in society in the future.

The key thing is that you unconsciously send a message to your child not to socialize. It can be your attitude or your genetics.

What you can do is to promote openness in socializing to your children.

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