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アイデアください
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- 針のむしろ
- 2012/01/30 10:46
この度日本に一時帰国予定です。親戚から毎回浴びせらる「子どもは?」「何で作らないの?将来淋しいよ」「子どもがいたらかわいいよ」攻撃に辟易しています。同じような境遇の方、どのようにかわされていますか?カドが立たない上手い交わし方のアイデアを教えてください。本当に気が重いです。「できないからよ!できたらとっくに産んでるよ!人のプライバシーに踏み込んでくるんじゃない!」と叫んだら気持ちいいだろうなあ・・・。
- #15
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- Xanadu
- 2012/01/31 (Tue) 06:57
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お姉さんとおばさんとちゃんと向き合って話しをしてみたらどうですか?トピ主さんの気持ちを正直に言ってみたら?ちょっとした立ち話ではなく、ちゃんとした場を作って。そうすればトピ主さんがどれだけ気を重くしているか分かってもらえるのではないでしょうか。もしかしたら手紙を出すってのもどうでしょうかねえ?とにかくトピ主さんがどれだけ真剣に彼女たちの言葉に傷ついているかを伝えなければならないのではないでしょうか?
- #18
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いいんだよ
「頑張ってるけどなかなか出来ません」
「欲しくないなんて一言も言ってないのに煩く言わないで」
他の方が言ってるように
「不妊治療費だしてくれるなら頑張るけど!」等々
旦那様のご家族やご親戚だと言えないでしょうが
自分の家族なら言ってしまえばいいんですよ
- #16
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ウソをつく、といわれるとツライですが・・・つまり、上手く交わせるようなアイデアをくださいというお願いです。
- #19
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トピ主です。皆さん本当に色々なご意見を寄せていただいてありがとうございます。皆さんのご意見を読み、自分でよく考えてみました。やはり、上手く交わそうと対策を練って身構えるよりも、正直に言った方がいいのかもしれませんね。「言ってしまえば」さんのご意見を参考にして「欲しくないとは思っていない」と、それだけ言っておこうかなと思います。
姉とおばに関しては、とにかく私に子どもがいない状況というのが許せないといった感じです。医学的にできない人もいるということはわかっているのだろうけれど、どう思っているのでしょうね。おばは子宮筋腫で子宮を摘出したため子どもをもてなかった人です。「だからこそ!」という思いがあるのかもしれません。皆さんのおかげで少し気持ちが楽になりました。ほんとうにありがとうございました。
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