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Economic DV ？

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#1
  • Yumi
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  • 2022/05/01 10:55

I am raising a child.
I am supposed to have joint marital property including my husband's salary, but he won't let me touch his accounts and asks me questions about every single credit card statement.
Is this considered domestic violence? ？
I can give him the money he needs to live, but I mean that he cannot manage our common property together.

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#2
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 12:16
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If you can pay for the necessities of life, then there is no problem. What kind of common property are you talking about?

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#3
  • 令和のおかん
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 12:20
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At this stage, it's hard to say.　It seems to me that the problem lies in the fact that we are not able to have a conversation despite our discontent.

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#4
  • 無知
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 13:38
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I can understand if they don't pay for your living expenses, but....
Many husbands are like that in the U.S. It's a custom, so you have to follow it
They ask for your credit card statements ？ Of course they do, don't you check what you spent on your own card ？ What a monkey!
I think he's going to ask for a divorce

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#5
  • 働かないの？
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 17:38
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I think you have to work for yourself.
I worked and saved before I had the baby.
save enough to stay home until they are 3 years old without having to work.

Once they are 3 1/2 and going to preschool, I work part time just while they are in preschool
and full time from the time they are in elementary school.
All to have free money for myself.

The couple's income is shared property, but I manage it.
First, we put aside our living expenses and the amount of savings we are aiming for, and then
other than that, we buy each other things if we need them. Unless it is very expensive,
we don't have to ask for the other person's approval. If the amount is left over, it will be saved as well.

There's nothing more constricting than not having freedom of money.
But if I'm not working myself, I guess I have to put up with it even if it's tight ～ ～ ～.

I don't know if it's DV or not, but if it's serious, ask a lawyer ？
there are lots of places that offer free initial consultations.

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