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悩み

Problem / Need advice
#1
  • myu
  • mail
  • 2023/01/19 09:21

家族でホテルを予約する事になり悩んで悩んでいます
家族は私と夫、そこまでは問題ないのですが今回諸事情でコートに出廷するための滞在で私の義妹(夫の妹)も同じく遠方からやって来ることに。彼女は法理事務所で長く働いている(パラリーゴー)ので法律に多少詳しい人です。
そして今回のコートはverdict の為でジューリーが最初に加わりverdict (最終決定)迄少なくとも1週間、そして状況によってはよっては、それ以上になると言われてホテル滞在を10日に予約しました。
今の私の悩みは、義理の妹と10日も同じ部屋、並んだベッドで寝るのが嫌なんです。勿論ベッドは2つで彼女と同じベッドで寝るわけでないのですが。私は彼女が若い時から稀にみるデブちゃんで、そのせいか60で未婚、性格もちょっと、今は手術して体型も普通の中年デブ程度になったんですけど。久しぶりにzoom で見た彼女の顔は「なんとアグリー!」という印象。見てるだけでうつになってしまいそうです。そんな彼女と10日も同じ部屋で過ごす(日中はコートですが)今から気が滅入ります。
皆さんはコンフェランス等で同じホテルルームに相部屋で他人と泊まった経験おありでしょうか?
どうでしたか?1日なら耐えても2日以上という経験をした方感想を伺いたいです。
今回の滞在は個人的に私の家族の事で義姉は私達家族の為に親戚の情で来てくれるという状況で彼女にホテル代を出させたくなく。もう予約してます(1king&1queenbed)
$169per day,でも今、いっそセパレート ルームをと検討してます。そうすると2部屋で多分トータル$250はするので金額が大変ですが、10日の滞在で私の気持ちがうつになりよりはいいか?と思案中です。明日 金曜日迄ホテル予約キャンセル可能です。長々とすみません。
皆さんのご意見頂けたらと思います。

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#26
  • 器量が悪いより性格の悪い方が百万倍もアグリーだ
  • 2023/01/21 (Sat) 13:59
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If you hate your sister-in-law so much, don't be stingy and get another room or refuse to appear in court, you know the answer
from the beginning. I think it is just
harassment ( of your sister-in-law ) to write down her appearance here. I doubt your
nerve to write such a blatantly derogatory comment about her personal qualities when she is here to
help you and your wife.
What is "professional writing"? What do you mean by "professional writing"?
In the first sentence, it seems as if you and your sister-in-law are staying in the same room alone.
At the end of the sentence, you get upset and say, "My husband is staying with me, don't ask me ! the obvious question," and you are all alone with your theories.
"It's pronounced 'paralee-go' over here, but in Japan it's 'paralegal'."
She's good at blurting it out.
You are surely an aggrieved person who is told
"I don't like the way I feel ( about these things ) and then rebutted with sarcasm every single time.

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#27
  • うわー
  • 2023/01/21 (Sat) 14:03
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I don't even want to know Topi, let alone in a hotel room
And only people who say this are actually subtle in appearance.

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#28
  • ん?
  • 2023/01/21 (Sat) 14:29
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She's my sister-in-law ? she's my sister ?

but she's not very good at Japanese, she's not very good at writing, and she's hard to read.

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#31
  • 綺麗
  • 2023/01/21 (Sat) 15:29
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You're the one asking your sister in law to do it. I don't want to get to know these people because they have too bad a personality.

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#32

#26
You're frustrated because people talk back. I get it, but it's because you're the one who negatively pokes fun at people !
and they boomerang back at you. You have a problem with the character of the person who is so nettlesome about the use of words that don't matter.
First of all, please review your own faults. Also, if you read the text, it says I'm going with my husband from the beginning. If it was just me and my sister-in-law, I wouldn't order a king bed room.
Then the same person wrote ? maybe, but there are reasons why people don't like people not only because of their looks, but also because of traumas done to her, so there are reasons to avoid them, there is a history that others don't understand.
As an example, when my kid was a baby, he choked on his food and I may not have handled it calmly, but she quickly turned him upside down and took care of it and he was fine. I appreciate that much.
But then I saw her telling her friends about it, and I lost respect for her personality when I saw her sneering at me for being stupy about it.
And many other things, there is a certain sarcasm and meanness in my in-laws' family, and now that I live away from East Coast, I am at peace, but this time I feel pain or "why are you coming ? don't come" to have her accompany us for 10 days because of our family matters. But I can't say that to my husband, so I have to put up with it and go along with her. So now we have a separate room at the same hotel, and she sleeps on the sofa bed. The price is also a little cheaper than the first hotel.
Other people have recommended that I get her a separate room, but $ 130 to $ 160 per night for 10 days, which would cost her $ more than 1300. I want to spend my money carefully, if I'm rich or not
In any case, I think I'll just continue to exchange negativity, so I'll see how it goes and request deletion of the topic.

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