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アメリカに来てから・・・
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- *monica*
- 2008/02/02 21:02
アメリカに来てから4ヵ月になりますが、こっちに来てから、ほとんど何をするにも一人で行動することが多いです。学校に通ってますが、この4ヵ月で友達もできたんだかできてないんだか。。。友達とは学校でしかほとんど話しません。週末会ったりすることはあまりなく、なんだか毎日寂しいです><最近、充実してるのかしてないのかわからなくなりました。
ただ、日本のような生活とは違うので、理解しなくてはやっていけないのはわかっているのですが・・・
こんな気持ちになっている方いますか?
- #3
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一人で行動するのは英語を学びたい動機なんですか?そうであれば、がんばって突き進もう!同じ目標を持っている人が必ずいますからそんな人と友達になればいいのでは?4ヶ月ならガツガツしてるぐらいが丁度いいと思います。それと行動半径を語学学校だけじゃなくて教会(別に入信どうのこうのではなく文化を学ぶ意味で)に行ってみたり、地域のサークルなんかに参加したりしてたらよいのではないでしょうか?こっちの人は初顔でも気さくに話してくれるし、君の勉強にもなると思うよ。
がんばれ!
- #5
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一人で行動する事が多い・・・って・・・汗
もしかして高校生なのかな。18過ぎれば一人で過ごすのが当たり前です。よっぽど日本でグルーピングしてたか、チヤホヤ周りに踊らされてたのでしょうか。
アメリカは個人主義の国です、一人で行動が基本なんですが。そこを頭で解っているようでいないから寂しさを感じるのではないでしょうか。日本と比べては駄目ですよ〜。まったく別なのだから。
- #6
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私も来た当初は寂しく感じた事は多々ありましたよ。アメリカ人って広く、浅い交友関係を好むようで、クラスは一緒だけど終わったらはいさよなら、みたいなかんじで基本は単独行動です。なんで私も友達ができたらたまにショッピングとかは行ってましたが学校でもプライベートでもほぼ単独行動でしたよ。もし辛いなと感じたら、自分はここに何をしにきたのかということをもう一度思い出してみるといいでしょう。目的がはっきりすればがんばれます。あと、アメリカではけっこう自分から積極的にいかないと友達はなかなかできませんよ。
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基本的によっぽどのお金持ちじゃない限り大学は学生ローン組んで勉強してます。だから授業が終ればすぐバイトへ。夏休みもバイト。日本人みたいに暇で親任せで誰かと一緒じゃないと楽しめないような幼稚ではないのですよ。
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