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娘を連れて日本に帰るんですけど!
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- maxfield7
- 2010/11/27 05:12
11歳のハーフの娘を日本(東京、横浜エリア)に連れて帰るんですけど、娘は日本語がほとんど話せません。本来ならインターナショナルスクールに入れるんですけど、調べてみると学費がかなり高額のため他の私立中学か公立に入れることを検討してます。しかしながら、娘は既に日本に行きたくないと言い出し始めて困ってます。どなたか似たような経験のある方、アドバイスをお願いします。
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- maxfield7
- 2010/11/29 (Mon) 15:58
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色々なコメントありがとうございます。参考になります。
何故日本に行きたくないと言っているかという点ですが、一番の理由はこちらには友達が沢山居て、現在の学校などの環境が気に入っているんだと思います。それと言葉が話せないことで、日本の学校に行っても苦労するであろうと自分で容易に想像出来るからと思います。
これから日本語の大特訓をするしかないのかもしれませんね。
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- mopa
- 2010/11/29 (Mon) 17:33
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>一番の理由はこちらには友達が沢山居て、現在の学校などの環境が気に入っているんだと思います。
だから#2で言ったとーり、そりゃ甘えなんだよ。親の都合で子供が転校することなんて世界中で毎日起きてるんだぜ。子供は若いほど適応力あるから心配ねーよ。そーゆーワガママにゃ親として毅然とした態度で接しなきゃダメだ。首に縄ひっかけて連れてけっつーのは、そーゆーこと。
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どこも住めば都だよ。
11歳でよかったじゃん、受け入れ早いと思うよ。それにさ、日本にいる人ってハーフや外国人にめっちゃ甘いじゃん。
トピ主がしっかりしなくっちゃ!
だってさ、転勤族だったらそんなこと言ってられないよ、国内なら2年海外4年で移動なんてざらなんだから
友達と離れたくないからって置いていくわけに行かないでしょ!
がんばれ~!
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- ぶんぶん丸
- 2010/11/29 (Mon) 21:31
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がんばらないといけないのは娘だけじゃなくて親であるトピ主だってこと自覚しなきゃだめだよ。
日本語がまともに話せない11歳の子供の教育とか、学校の先生だけじゃ絶対に無理。だから家に帰ってから親であるトピ主が根気強く学校でわからない日本語の勉強の復習などを手伝ってあげないと子供がパンクすると思う。
まだ11歳だから学校に任せておけば勝手に日本語マスターするでしょ、なんて甘い考えは捨てましょう。親の都合で子供の人生左右することになったんだから、足りない教育などしっかりトピ主がサポートしてあげる覚悟で帰国してください。
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第一言語を習得した後、第二言語の勉強を始めるなら10~12歳が最適とされています。それより前でも後でも、どちらかの言語の発音が完璧ではなくなるそうです。もちろん、本人の能力と家族のサポートで結果は違ってきますが、、、
お母さんの方も心配のストレスで体調を崩さないようがんばってください。
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