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親が遊びに来るが、ただいま彼氏と同棲中
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- 同棲
- 2003/08/26 10:09
来月親が遊びにきます。本来ならうれしくてといったところなのですが、ちょっと複雑です。というのもここ2年、彼氏と同棲をしています。親は知りません。どうしたら、みんな楽しくうまくいくでしょうか?
- #42
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この先も、その彼氏と人生をずっと一緒に歩んでつもりなら、今がケジメの付け所。ある意味、チャンスだと思う。
その彼氏が過去の人にならない限り、同棲の事実は、いつかは親にバレてしまうこと。
#1は、この2年間、裏切ることになる期待を積み重ねてきてしまっていて、告白しない限り、これからもずっとこの負の期待を積み重ねることになる。
ここは、素直に事実を告げて、彼氏には誠意と男気を持って両親に会ってもらうといいと思うな。修羅場を見るかも知れないが、長い目で見ると、現状の後ろめたい関係をプラスの方向へ持っていく大きなチャンスではないかろうか。
ついでに、
彼氏が日本人であろうが無かろうが、誠意を持って両親と会えないと言うのなら、#1を本気で愛していない証拠。そんな奴は、両親に会わせないで、両親が帰国した後に捨ててしまおう。
- #41
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うちの娘が2年も過ごして、紹介できないようなやつだったら、血祭りだな。
まっ、娘の年齢にもよるが、娘が23歳以下なら、間違いなく血祭り、26歳以下なら、どういうつもりか聞き出す。27歳以上なら、そいつに手みやげ持ってもらってくれるようにお願いする。
以上。
- #39
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絶対隠した方がいいって!日本の親は余程寛大じゃない限り、理解不可能な世界じゃない?
留学生って、親には内緒で同棲するパターンが結構多いんだよね。日本人同士、日本人とアメ人、日本人と他の国からの留学生等。残念ながら、卒業して実を結んだカップルって、ほとんどいないのが現状だけど。
だからこそ、伏せといた方がいいんじゃない。同棲ったって、何もかもが半々で払っているんなら、やましいなんて考えるのはどうかなー。たまたまルームメイトが、彼氏または彼女だった、ってだけ。
- #38
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なんでも言えばいいってもんでもないでしょう。#18じゃないけど、親にもよりけりだからね。
勉強してると思って、せっせとお金を送っていたら、男つくってた。ってのは、親にとっては、知りたくないことだし、どう、対処していいかわからないだろうし、子供にも、人生があるけど、溝は、深まる!勘当になったら、本当に涙の感動ものがたり?
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