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恋愛相談
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- みっつん
- 2010/06/14 03:05
彼氏の相談を聞いてもらっていた年下のカレに振られました。
カレは彼女と別れたばかりで、お互いに傷を舐め合っていただけだったのかもしれませんが、傷ついた私のそばにいてくれるうち、恋愛感情を持つようになってしまいました。
彼氏と別れてどん底だと思っていたときに、カレと出会い、前に進めたところだったのに…
連絡が取れない日が増え、カレの部屋に行くとゴムが減っているような気がしたり、バスルームでタンポンを見つけたり、気づいていました。だから、荷物も引き上げようとしましたが止められ、自分から離れられるまで上手く騙してくれればよかったのに…
「恋人にはなれない」そうはっきり言われた以上、もう会えるはずありません。
そう伝えると「友達だと思ってくれるなら、これからも仲良くしてほしい」都合のいい女で惨めです。それとも、今後、私のことを本当に必要としてくれるようになるのでしょうか?私に努力できることはありますか?
- #2
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- ルーシールーシー
- 2010/06/14 (Mon) 08:42
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>今後、私のことを本当に必要としてくれるようになるのでしょうか?
今のままの関係を続けていれば、ならないと思います。
だいたい二股をかけるような男性は、付き合いを続ける価値ないと思いますよ。
目を覚まして、此処で一度チッチリけじめを付けて出直して下さい。
- #3
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- 首領シスコさん
- 2010/06/14 (Mon) 09:37
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彼女と別れたばかりで、・・・
傷を舐め合っていただけ・・・。
節操無さ過ぎ。
そんなやつが恋愛語るんじゃね~よ、
恥を知れ。
- #4
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- もんきーっこ
- 2010/06/14 (Mon) 10:50
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>彼氏と別れてどん底だと思っていたときに、カレと出会い、前に進めたところだったのに…
こーゆー時に出会った人に抱く感情って、実は恋愛感情じゃないと思うよ。トピ主が自分で自覚している様にただ単に「傷をなめ合っていただけ」。彼と別れてどん底にいる時に他の人に恋愛感情は普通、わかないでしょ?
別れた時って大体がvulnerableになっちゃってるから、そこで優しくしてくれた相手にフラフラ~ってなるのは当たり前でしょ。でも、重ねて言うけどそれは恋愛感情じゃないと思う。
気になる点はトピ主が「荷物も引き上げようとしましたが止められ~」って言ってる部分。
彼氏と別れたばかりですぐに他の男の家に自分の荷物を置いておいたって事?それは余りにも節操がないのでは...。
カレも「恋人にはなれない」って言ってるくせにトピ主が荷物を引き上げようとした時点で止めるって...。
何か、どっちもどっちの様な気もするけどなぁ。
>今後、私のことを本当に必要としてくれるようになるのでしょうか?私に努力できることはありますか?
#2でルーシールーシーさんが言っている事に私も同意。
都合のいい女でトピ主が良いって言うなら、このままの関係続けたらいいけど、きちんと「彼女」として扱って欲しいって言うのであれば無理でしょうね。
そんな男には早く見切りつけて新しい人見つけた方が賢明だよ。
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