Vivinavi : Los Angeles : (United States) Los Angeles

• さよ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 00:10
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You don't have to go out of your way to say that …
I think you should have a place to vent your stress. We have a lot going on in my family, but we have to settle our relationship through trial and error and mutual compromise. I think the stress that occurs there is necessary for housewives who don't have time alone. It's mean to go out of your way to stir things up, husband of a wonderful wife.

• あつこ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 08:02
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Tomoko-san

revenge ❗ ️
I understand
I realized that I really hate her
I've been married for 15 years
even if I divorce her, half of the property is mine
thanks to inflation, the house price went up a lot.
I thought I could survive on my own
I asked her to divorce me
because I agreed to half the property and custody of the kids
At first she was upset and said she didn't want me to do it
but she changed her attitude and became a different person.
At first he thought that divorce was just talk
After that he harassed me again several times
but I told him to divorce me
I don't feel anything for you, not even anger
. I'm still ready to divorce her anytime
I'm completely cold and I don't expect anything from her
I'm not even expecting anything from her
I've been making separate meals for her I'm not even expecting anything from her. <2266> we cook separate meals and have separate bedrooms
he has agreed to travel with friends
if not, I will divorce him
I have decided to live my life
I don't think I would do anything for him
I honestly don't see the point in staying with him
if he doesn't attack me, I'm tired of divorcing him
so for now I think I'll stay with him
I talk to a lot of people I know and work with widely
there are many husbands who are aggressive towards their wives I've heard they've gone to counseling but it doesn't seem to cure them completely
Some of them are very serious malaise husbands who would divorce if they go to counseling
I'm sick of having an engaged relationship with someone and I don't want a girlfriend
I don't think so far.
I'm not divorced, but I don't have feelings completely, so it's practically like I'm divorced
Until I need care, I'll use that man's property to hire someone
I've heard that in the US if you go into a home, you don't have long
I think that's fine
I think you deserve it
he even told me your life is worthless
as he said it is worthless to you, why don't you get a divorce
I don't even care about that

• ともこ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 09:44
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Atsuko
Thank you. Living with Mora husband, I don't have the freedom or the right to make decisions, so it satisfies my need for approval to have someone who can empathize with me in these matters. You may think I am living with a monster when I say it like this, but on the surface, Mora Husband pretends to be a sensible person, and he is kind in a way. He is also considerate.
So it is hard to tell from the outside.
I think it's a matter of "God is the only one who doesn't touch me," and if I don't get deeply involved and just go about my life without any problems, there will be no problems. However, if I have difficulty going out or if there is something I don't like, I become grumpy and uncooperative. When I come home a little late, all the lights in the house are off or locked.
But I do go out and have fun with women.
Basically, I'm good, but you're not.
When I ask why, it's just a flirtation.
Because he is a childish person who cannot control his intense jealousy, suspicion, and constraint.
He doesn't even give me money.
But I don't mind at all. I earn money. I know that a "mora husband" is actually a mentally weak and childish person. It was hard before, but now I'm fine. I'm fighting back bravely. Or rather, I use them as tools.
Now that I have no more love for her, I feel very peaceful.
When a woman's patience reaches its limit, she cools off at once, doesn't she?
I'm not interested in them at all when I'm cold.
I think you should be free to play with women as you wish. That woman will just become the next target of your mora. I can give it to you if you want. I'm a bald old man and have no money.
A divorced man in California is strapped for cash.

• ともこ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 10:14
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Of course there are those who have wonderful wives, and
I understand that there are couples who are happy together. I just want to complain. If you are offended, don't come to this topic. I can't tell my friends and acquaintances, so I'm venting here.
I know that telling my acquaintances won't do me any good. I just end up talking about it. I can't let my friends spend their valuable time complaining. Surprisingly, it's the wives who are doing the right thing who may be venting here.
In front of my husband, I am just a normal wife.
I cook and work. I just have a tiger in my heart.
Who do you think you are ？
If you attack me any more, I will double back ！
and I am resentful. A woman's anger is hard to see from the outside. They are enduring.

• ともこ
• 2024/07/27 (Sat) 10:20
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Atsuko
Thanks for the empathy. Women are fulfilled just by being sympathized with and listened to.
Here in the U.S., the times are in order and I make a lot of money, but
when I think that it is my husband's fault that I am suffocating
I stop and think about what I should do about my second life. I feel that it is time to ask
what has been done to us, rather than
how we are now as a mature couple.
Can we live with trust and respect?