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Nikkei Kindergarten

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#1
  • Cat
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  • 2021/07/23 13:02

We are senior moms and dads and look forward to your kind-hearted comments.

My daughter started summer school at Nikkei this summer.
She is 3 years old and this is her first time in kindergarten and she is very naughty, so on the first day she had to leave the classroom.
She looked very stressed about it and the teacher nailed me and told me to be sure to tell her at home. I know it was hard, but it was said in the same way as the first and second days. \I know she is tired and I know she is bothering my daughter 😞
but I am depressed because I wonder if this teacher will be okay and I am worried about sending my daughter there in the future.
I don't think she is a bad teacher, but when I go to pick her up, all she says is negative things again, that she is bothering my daughter, and that she is trying her best to teach her things at home, but it's not going well.
My father speaks English at home, so I usually do my best to teach her Japanese, but she still seems to have more difficulty communicating with me than with other children who speak only one language.

The teacher seems mature and very kind, but she says, "It was like this, so let's work together to get used to it while getting support at home again!" I am worried because it is not a positive feeling like that.
I felt so much annoyance that I couldn't stop crying after returning home. I'm worried about my daughter, who is just a rambunctious little thing, going to kindergarten, and I'm skeptical about leaving it in the hands of the teachers.
I heard that this kindergarten has had many problems, but my friends' children go there, and it didn't seem so bad when we visited, so it's even worse.
I know this sounds like I'm still a newbie, but have any of you had this experience?

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#3
  • ムーチョロコモコ
  • 2021/07/23 (Fri) 13:28
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This is not a kindergarten problem, but a mother's "negligence" in raising her child.

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#4
  • Cat
  • 2021/07/23 (Fri) 13:56
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Thank you for your heartless reply😊You must be such a perfect mother. You must be the most perfect mother 😊 You must be the most perfect mother. I am not blaming the doctor at all 😇
I am trying my best every day, but I just wanted to hear about the experiences of other people who are raising children in L.A. other than my friends. I am not going to blame the doctor, but I am trying my best to do my best everyday, but I just wanted to hear about the experiences of other people who are raising children in L.A. other than my friends.

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#5
  • 三つ子の魂、、、すでに手遅れ
  • 2021/07/23 (Fri) 14:16
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A rambunctious, monstrous child,
and I don't know of a more exhausting job than taking care of other people's children.

I feel for the kindergarten teacher.

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#6

You are human and so is your teacher.
There will be times when your feelings will come out. If you are anxious and stressed, it would be better to change kindergartens. If you are the cause of the problem, it is likely that the same thing will happen the next time you go there. You should face yourself then.
If there is no problem, the next kindergarten may be fine ？
If the parents force their child to go to a day kindergarten and the child does not like it, it is not good for the child's education. Please make sure that you give your child the best education "for his/her own good".
Please do your best and do not stress too much.

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