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親が遊びに来るが、ただいま彼氏と同棲中
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- 同棲
- 2003/08/26 10:09
来月親が遊びにきます。本来ならうれしくてといったところなのですが、ちょっと複雑です。というのもここ2年、彼氏と同棲をしています。親は知りません。どうしたら、みんな楽しくうまくいくでしょうか?
- #48
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- 生ぬるい牛乳
- 2003/08/28 (Thu) 09:41
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全然、説明が足りんわな。笑
お父ちゃん、理解してくれるといいね。がんばれー&お幸せにー。
- #49
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- 本家
- 2003/08/28 (Thu) 09:47
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わかる、わかる。
そのお家によっていろいろと事情が違うからね。私の家も古く堅い家で、その上に本家です。父は厳格を通り越した厳しい人で、なかなか何をするにも父を納得させるの大変な家です。
もし私があなたの立場だったら、取り敢えず今住んでいる家の中を見せ、そこに泊まれないということを遠回しに言い、せっかくアメリカまで来てくれたのでゆっくりホテルに泊まるようにすすめます。そして自分も一緒に泊まりに行くとかね。
厳格なお父さんに、話をするときは、タイミングが大切だと思います。いきなり「この人と同棲してます。」では説明も説得も難しいと思うので、今回は見送ったほうがよいと思われます。作戦としては、手紙を何通か出し、徐々に確信にせまるというのはどうでしょう。そして最後に紹介する。私はこれで成功しました。
同じような家、父を持つものとして応援します。頑張って!!!
- #50
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- にぎにぎ
- 2003/08/28 (Thu) 16:04
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親の目を気にせずに人生送るべきだよ。子供にそういう指図するのは親のわがままで、あなたは自分のわがままを最優先する権利を持っている。
厳格な家庭で育ったのだったら、その自分に対する厳格さやモラルは受け継いでいるはず。それを認めようとしない(認めるのが怖い)親はよわみそだ。
もうひとつ、彼氏に対する親の気持ちは少しずつ少しずつ変わってくるもんだよ。その時間を十分にあげること。俺の妹が外国人と結婚するといったときは父親、ショックのあまり1時間も言葉が出なかったらしい。でもしばらく時間がたち、実際にあってみたりするとすべて丸く収まった。
- #52
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確かにそれだったら応援します。仕送りもらってる学生同士のお遊び同棲とは違いますものね。お父さんに認めてもらえたらいいですね。
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