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女30歳、男23歳!
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- 年上女
- 2008/04/07 18:00
23歳の年下の男の子が好きです。正直なところ・・・・彼といるととっても心地よいんです。しかし彼は大学を卒業したばかりで就職活動中です。私は三十路を迎えたばかりで、正直今が楽しければ・・・みたいな付き合いはできないと思います。
今、というわけではありませんが、彼は結婚を考えているようです。うれしいですが、実際7つの年の差ってどうなんでしょうか・・・?世間の目、家族はどう思うのか、世代の違いを感じてしまうものなのか・・・など心配ばかりが大きくなってしまいます。彼が就職して、仕事が軌道に乗って、私も転職して・・などしていたらおそらく私は35歳くらいになるので実際のところ結婚して子供を・・・と考えるとなんだか焦りもあり、焦ってはいけない・・・などと思い始めると混乱してきました。
実は友達が年下反対!系が多くて誰にも言ってないんです。いずれは分かることなんですが・・・・なんとなくこの年の差は認められないのか・・・?と思ったらどうも前に進めません。
姉が結婚して口癖になっているのが“結婚は愛だけじゃやっていけないから”なんですが・・・
世間一般として、意見を聞かせてください。お願いします。
- #12
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参考にはならないと思うけど、こんな人もいるんだね。
長いので時間ある方どうぞ!トピ主がすごすぎる。
komachi.yomiuri.co.jp/t/2008/0401/176605.htm?o=0&p=1
(http://)の後にコピペで。
- #13
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- 仕事中
- 2008/04/15 (Tue) 12:52
- Report
男女関係の悩みはつきないです。年齢、人種、格差、いろいろあるけど、だから恋愛はおもしろいんでしょうね。年上女さんがしたいようにする、それしかないと思いますがね。
それにしても#12で書かれてる大手小町のトピ主は興味深いです。
仕事中なのに読破してしまった。
- #15
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本人が周りを気にせずに突き進めるタイプなのか、否かで決まると思います。
で、トぴ主さんが周りを気にするタイプみたいなので、無理かな?って思います。
- #16
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私も同じケースでした。結局3年で破局。理由は23歳では世間を知らなかったようで、頭で考えていたほど仕事も簡単じゃなく、収入も多くなく、社会に出てみたらやりたいことも増えて、結婚に興味がなくなっていった。。。私は日々焦るばかり。いい経験でしたが、どっぷりはまって後悔しました。
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