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• 孤独のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/31 (Wed) 07:59
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If you were in the opposite situation, would you refuse to pay for four guests from Japan to stay here?

• 倍菌萬
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• 2024/01/31 (Wed) 12:09
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＞ If you were in the opposite situation, would you refuse to pay for 4 guests from Japan to come and stay ？


Normally, if they come/stay overnight and we allow them, it is because they are immediate family, close friends or their family

and we have no intention of taking their money. If they insist on paying, I say clearly, "No kidding, I have no intention of taking any money. If they insist on paying, I will threaten

them with "I'm going to make peace with our past relationship.


I wonder if the people here who say, "Of course we'll get the money," are the ones who are really in need of it.

Or are they "cheapskates"?

• 通りすがりのガーデナー
• 2024/01/31 (Wed) 13:01
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Individuals ・ I know it varies from family to family, but in my case,

1. When I stay alone at my parents' house where they are spending their old age, I don't pay for my parents' stay
but I do pay for their meals out and things they want, ranging from a few thousand yen to several tens of thousands yen. I pay for or buy things that my parents want, which range from a few thousand yen to a few thousand yen.

2 ， If someone other than me and I stay with my parents, I pay about 3 ～ 5,000 yen ／ a day ／ per person, depending on the length of stay.

3, siblings ・ If they stay with relatives, I do the same 2.

Parents ・ Siblings ・ Sometimes relatives tell me that they don't get any money, but in that case I try to pay something back to parents ・ Siblings ・ Siblings' families by eating out ・ shopping
.

Some people say, "We are family, we don't need money ・ ・ ・," but I just want to express my feelings, so I do this.

Please refer to the above.

• 通りすがりのガーデナー
• 2024/01/31 (Wed) 15:45
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＃ 14

I understand that there are people who have opinions like Showa Ototsan's, everyone is different. I hope that
you will take that into consideration as well.

• Nihao
• 2024/01/31 (Wed) 18:33
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If you stay at the house of an American relative or someone from another state, or vice versa, the person who comes to stay at your house pays for your meals out and such, even if they don't pay you directly.

I don't want to be taken care of unilaterally, so I don't think it has anything to do with being stingy. It doesn't make either of us feel better if we accept the other's goodwill ？.

• ベーシックインカム
• 2024/01/13 (Sat) 17:02
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AI Age

I wonder what jobs will survive.

• 通りすがりのガーデナー
• 2024/01/17 (Wed) 17:05
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Topi, I am wondering what exactly it is that you feel is violating labor laws at your current workplace.

• タコス　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　.
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 09:18
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Mon ～ Fri 5 days a week 9 ～ 17 so I can't do what I want to do I told my boss about it and he said he would fire me

• 通りすがりのガーデナー
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 10:39
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#16

If you were actually fired just for mentioning it to your boss, it would amount to wrongful termination, but I don't know the background and communication between you and your
boss up to that point, so I can't say.

When you were hired at your current job, was there an offer letter or other letter with a work schedule that you signed
or did you sign it ？?

• ままこ
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 14:07
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What's wrong with 9-17 ？ 7 hours work with 1 hour break ？ You usually work 8 hours.
If you get them to switch to part time and give back all the insurance and benefits ？
you'll have more time.

• 一人ぽっちの部屋
• 2024/01/05 (Fri) 07:55
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When you "decide by likes and dislikes," you start connecting with people who share the same values as you.

• 引退
• 2024/01/14 (Sun) 14:53
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I don't have many friends, but I am happy separately. People seem noisy these days.

• MI
• 2024/01/16 (Tue) 14:06
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If you don't want it, you don't have to worry about what others think

However, people who avoid socializing tend to think and act selfishly

My mother is exactly the same type, and she is now old and lives alone.
If your children are close to you, they can talk to you in their own way, but
there is no guarantee that this will happen in the future, so it might be better to be prepared for that
.

• アラフォー
• 2024/01/17 (Wed) 18:39
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I don't know if I've ever had no friends at all, but I would probably be boring. Talking about stupid things is only possible if you don't like each other. I think it's enough to have about 5 people you can talk to who you can trust and who trust you, including your family.
Too many is tiring. Once you have children, you can't make time for them, so they become distant, but you will naturally get back in touch with those who are a good fit. As we get older, we don't make new friends, so we want to treasure our old friends, and above all, our children are our treasures.

• 人災
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 00:34
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How refreshing to be free from that annoying person.
He gave me advice and advice from above even though I didn't ask him, was extremely stingy, decided everything for himself, talked behind my back if I didn't follow his advice, trusted me and told me everything I told him, hit my car in a hurry because of his short temper, lied to me and brought me to personal injury and I couldn't even get insurance for my car. It was very expensive. I have a lot of bad luck when I deal with people. I lost a lot of money by trusting in stocks.
The more I associate with people, the more I feel bad, pushed around, hurt by their words and actions, and the lonelier I am when I'm alone, the fewer disasters I have.
It's good to have friends you can trust. 、、、、、

Besides, Japanese and people from Japan take advantage of this. They don't have a car and think they deserve a ride.

• 洗脳1
• 2024/01/22 (Mon) 20:42
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This is the guy who disrespected people who work ？ and shop ？ at Walmart and treated Walmart like a ghetto. And when he moved to Target and said, "Ha, I can finally breathe," I was really surprised. I mean, he's working hard and paying taxes to get housing, insurance, and food for his family. And just when you think you've started working, you're on welfare, and now you're living a life of luxury.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/23 (Tue) 07:09
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Unorganized rooms,
Unorganized desks at work
Paranoid whining as it reduces concentration and judgment.

• 突然
• 2024/01/23 (Tue) 09:10
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#68

Still, I wonder why there are viewers who admire this youtuber ？ or send him gifts from Japan.
I can understand that viewers who live in Japan may not know much about her life overseas or her international marriage and just admire her, but what is unbelievable is that there are people in the US who admire her and have sent something to her or come to see her. It seems like you've been tving for almost 10 years, but you didn't have that many views, and just recently you were posting videos, but then suddenly, in the last week or so, you turned it off. Something must have happened to him, something that would have made it difficult for people to see his videos of him living in such luxury while receiving welfare. But if something was investigated and then erased like that, it could have been the destruction of evidence.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/23 (Tue) 15:53
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If you start working, your welfare will be terminated because of your income.

• 孤独のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/23 (Tue) 17:19
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There are lots of people who shop at food stamps and drive home in BMWs.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 08:04
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What good is it to live your life worrying about others?

But being able to write in the middle of the night 03 ： 43 is a feat no one living a normal life can do.

• 反面教師
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 09:34
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If you don't work hard, you will have an extremely poor retirement. Free vivinavigation is the only way to live.
We all need to observe well and not be the same.

• 落武者
• 2024/01/15 (Mon) 07:40
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Tako, there are people who say that. It's not just aunts. My boss is an uncle and when I told him I wanted a break if I wasn't getting one, as well as my mood, he seemed to take it personally and BCC'd my coworker and emailed me an email like he was putting his mistake on the shelf and telling me not to make mistakes. He thought my coworker was BCC'd and wouldn't tell me … He laughed at me for doing this with a coworker. I like the job itself, but I can't choose or change my boss, so I need to think about changing my job ….

• あらら
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• 2024/01/17 (Wed) 14:32
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>Midnight 03 ： Being able to write on 43 is a feat that no one living a normal life can do.
The internet is open 24 hours a day.
It is normal to write when you want to and when you can.

So,
> there is no benefit in living your life worrying about others.
This is a contradiction.

Back to
> "Being able to write at 03 ： 43 at midnight is a feat that no one in their normal lives can do."
Please provide a source that it is.
It's your favorite copy and paste time.

• LGBTのおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/17 (Wed) 23:01
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>Midnight 03 ： Being able to write at 43 is a feat that no one living a normal life can do.

Kakuei Tanaka woke up at 2 am every day to study hard while serving as prime minister.
Ototsan, who has lived in the US for 50 years, could have gotten out of "One Get One Free English" if he had gotten up early every day and studied English.

• 聞いた話
• 2024/01/05 (Fri) 07:16
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If you cause a fatal accident with a DUI, you would be charged with murder, in which case you would be dismissed from your position.

• はるばる来たぜロサンゼルスへ
• 2024/01/05 (Fri) 07:49
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You can also inquire about Japanese female police officers who appear in free magazines.

• ガセネタ太郎
• 2024/01/05 (Fri) 07:57
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DUI or not, if you kill someone and you're in jail for more than a year, you're fired, what's the big deal, and that's just what I heard （ lol ）

• ダサい
• 2024/01/05 (Fri) 22:37
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It's so lame when people talk about driving drunk and not getting caught like it's a saga. It's really lame.

• 見栄晴
• 2024/01/06 (Sat) 00:42
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＞ Seriously lame. Hahayasai is really tasty but expensive.
But there are small bottles available, so I'll just have to live with that.
It used to be hard to buy because it was in short supply, but
now even Japanese stores sell it.