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• ニュートラル
• 2023/12/25 (Mon) 19:00
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I don't care

I'd rather not be the type of person who is overly affectionate or complains about the way they talk or if they don't make others feel good, and then gets pushed around

People are people
I am who I am

• 同じく
• 2023/12/25 (Mon) 19:12
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I don't care. I ignore it. lol

When I was younger, I was annoyed by every single one of them, but there are people like that, so there's nothing I can do about it. As long as you do your job well and are friendly to customers and always smiling and polite, you'll be fine. 👌🏻

• さち
• mail
• 2023/12/25 (Mon) 23:32
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It would be exhausting to respond to every one of those things.

• sun
• 2023/12/26 (Tue) 08:23
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With the exception of a few rare workplaces, I had come to accept that I had to endure or tolerate relationships for half or more of my salary

. When I smiled at a coworker I didn't like, their attitude softened

strangely enough, and I realized that this was the way it was supposed to be.

• ほぉ
• 2023/12/26 (Tue) 08:38
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#6

I see. Fortunately, I'm blessed with my current workplace, but if I meet someone I don't like, I'll give it a try 😊.

• いや
• 2023/12/26 (Tue) 09:51
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I'm told not to worry about it, but it's hard to do so.
I guess you have to train your mentality. Maybe attending a seminar would be a good idea. I work in an office, and now I have a private room, so it's much easier, but before, I used to have a hard time hearing the noise around me, especially when there was a guy next to me who was a jerk. Well, that guy was a total jerk to everyone and finally got fired, but it was an exhilarating feeling. If you can't take it anymore, I would recommend changing jobs. But if you have the same bad experience in any workplace, you may have a problem with yourself. I'm sorry to sound so high and mighty.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/12/26 (Tue) 16:10
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It's the art of not saying anything that you don't have to
never tell a lie
if you know that it's the little things that are always barking and howling.

• 年紀
• 2023/12/30 (Sat) 17:15
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How many people want to brag, mount up, and be the center of attention at work, at acquaintances, and at whatever association they are at. If you are the boss, you have to be sociable even if you don't want to be because it will get you a raise. I was fed up with the power society everywhere. When I started my own business, I was satisfied with all the good customers who took care of me. Japanese people are nice when they are customers, but they are mean in the company ？.

• 年紀
• 2023/12/30 (Sat) 17:20
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There may be a lot of annoying old ladies, but there are also a lot of young, boastful, and obnoxious men who will argue with you or ostracize you if they don't understand you. Or people who are always bad-mouthing others.

• ちょっとわかります
• 2023/12/30 (Sat) 23:06
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There is a guy who was acting all high and mighty at work but had his parents paying for his car lease, or living in a one-bedroom rental with two kids and no place for himself when his wife's father came, but he didn't seem to realize that people around him thought he was lame, and he was happy. It was weird to see her acting all bossy to Japanese people but being so condescending to white men.

• 泣き子
• mail
• 2023/12/31 (Sun) 23:21
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Relationships...
I've had times when I thought things were very tiring, but my current company is the worst.
I can't write much about it because if I explain in detail, people would know, but I have felt like I was being ostracized by my coworkers twice. I can't go into too much detail because it would be too obvious.
He seems to have mental problems, and I can only deal with him as if I were touching something swollen, which is bothering other people. I am really sick because I am the one who has to deal with him the most in terms of position.

• 泣き子
• mail
• 2024/01/02 (Tue) 09:30
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I would like that person to quit, but it is their decision and that is not possible.
I will quit before I get sick.

• 泣き子
• 2024/01/02 (Tue) 10:53
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It is natural to try to maintain good relationships when you enter society, and I and those around me have already dealt with the person in that way.
Talking to no one in sight, yelling at invisible objects suddenly with a knife in hand, etc... I cannot make any further efforts as I feel my life is in danger.
I don't think it is right to threaten life in order to be called first class.

• たや
• 2024/01/02 (Tue) 11:10
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Ototto, you are writing whatever you want again. I have a colleague who was mentally deranged, and I felt fear myself, so I understand things very well. Such people can be made to quit immediately after changing jobs, and the more such people know that they cannot be made to quit, the more they will stay. It is better to quit before they do something to you. I had a co-worker who went through an anger management program with the company (I thought it was off the mark), but in the end, nothing improved. I know that person must be suffering, but it's not right for those around him to take the risk and make the effort to help him.

• コ ピ ペ
• 2024/01/02 (Tue) 19:21
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＞ #24Showa Ototto
Human beings are equal "in stupidity"
Even if you are put down and complained about, the other person has good points
Through tireless self-improvement, you can let go of bitterness and live cheerfully.
If you accept reality and run away from it, you will not grow.
Some bosses are under the illusion that if they give strict attention and strict guidance, their subordinates will surely follow them. In reality, however, it is often not a matter of obedience and submission.
As a result of growing up in poverty, 50% of people have twisted personalities and
grow up with hostility and hatred toward others.
On the other hand, 50% of people grow up to be adults who care about others and develop very good character.




Human beings are equal "in stupidity"
Even if they are put down and complained about, the other person has good points
Through tireless self-improvement, they let go of bitterness and live cheerfully.
(President Online Buddha preached ｢ First-class smart return phrase ｣ )

If you accept reality and run away, you will not grow.

Some bosses are under the illusion that if they give strict attention and strict guidance, their subordinates will surely follow. In reality, however, it is often not a matter of obedience and hearty submission.
(人の振りを見て我振り直せ IEC 創考喜楽)

As a result of growing up in poverty, 50% of people have twisted personalities and
grow up with hostility and hatred toward others.
On the other hand, 50% of people grow up to adulthood, caring for others and cultivating a very good character.
(The Habits of People Who Have God on Their Side) Diamond ・ Online)

• ヤバッ
• 2024/01/02 (Tue) 19:40
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Otouta, lame.

• 911
• 2024/01/02 (Tue) 21:24
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I had a woman who was terrible in her relationships, and she quit a hundred of them in 20 years.
When she finally had to retire at the age of 62 due to some sort of natural disaster, or perhaps a disease of the neck,
I could laugh in my heart at her and laugh at those who had quit.
I personally don't like AB type.

• 舞
• 2024/01/02 (Tue) 23:41
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There are some people who really surprise me. I think you should at least go to counseling or go to a hospital. I'm not sure about your post, Ototsan, but it's not safe to get involved with such people badly, so your advice to try or not to run away is wrong. Especially if they are not family or relatives.

• Sigh
• 2024/01/03 (Wed) 10:34
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I'm just trying to write down what I've read in business books and such that I think will be useful
and hopefully be useful to you.

Please write the citation. It's not a statement you came up with.

• がってん
• 2024/01/03 (Wed) 18:57
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Kiyo Haru was a good thing, wasn't it?

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/06 (Sat) 11:34
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They say that people who are above others should not say, "I'm not listening.
People change as they rise in position and gain authority and power.

They say that a less talented person is quick to speak out, but a talented person has a correct sense of content.

• こぴぺ
• 2024/01/08 (Mon) 10:32
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#47 Showa no otchan
It is said that a person who stands above others should not say, "I didn't hear you.
People change as they rise in position and gain authority and power.




As one's position rises and as one gains authority and power, people change--.
(「A person who stands on top of others should not say "I'm not listening." President Online)

• 911
• 2024/01/08 (Mon) 13:00
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If you want to help us, you can post something from President's Online
that might be useful to people who use the site.

It's not useful to post a half-assed clipping.
It's just self-satisfaction of the person posting the clipping, and it's annoying.

• コピペで満足しちゃいかん
• 2024/01/08 (Mon) 15:02
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52

I don't think you are the one capable of thinking.
If you have the ability to think, you can copy and paste and then write your own opinion.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/08 (Mon) 17:50
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54

My opinion has not been published yet.

We need people in their 40s and older to take on important positions or they will become a liability.

It seems that many people who try to justify themselves are shelving themselves and are totally incapable of doing their job.

• 70半ば
• 2024/01/08 (Mon) 18:37
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56

You got a job ？
Looks like a poor retirement

• あらら
• mail
• 2024/01/08 (Mon) 22:21
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Why are you so competitive and stubborn ？?

• Oh no
• 2024/01/09 (Tue) 07:50
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Because no one in the real world will accept me, and I want to at least be cool here, but I'm getting ripped off.

• 主張
• 2024/01/09 (Tue) 13:19
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#61 Showa Otto
I'm not stubborn or anything. I'm just asserting myself.
If you think you are right, you just write it down proudly.


You assert yourself proudly with copy and paste?

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/09 (Tue) 15:16
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↑

The more you complain, the more money ・ you keep away.

• あらら
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 03:43
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A hawk with talent hides its talons, but a hawk with no talent is desperately trying to show off its talons, at least the ones it has.
Today, too, we are stubborn and assertive, I see.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 08:04
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What good is it to live your life worrying about others?

But being able to write in the middle of the night 03 ： 43 is a feat no one living a normal life can do.

• 反面教師
• 2024/01/10 (Wed) 09:34
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72

If you don't work hard, you will have an extremely poor retirement. Free vivinavigation is the only way to live.
We all need to observe well and not be the same.

• 落武者
• 2024/01/15 (Mon) 07:40
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Tako, there are people who say that. It's not just aunts. My boss is an uncle and when I told him I wanted a break if I wasn't getting one, as well as my mood, he seemed to take it personally and BCC'd my coworker and emailed me an email like he was putting his mistake on the shelf and telling me not to make mistakes. He thought my coworker was BCC'd and wouldn't tell me … He laughed at me for doing this with a coworker. I like the job itself, but I can't choose or change my boss, so I need to think about changing my job ….

• あらら
• mail
• 2024/01/17 (Wed) 14:32
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>Midnight 03 ： Being able to write on 43 is a feat that no one living a normal life can do.
The internet is open 24 hours a day.
It is normal to write when you want to and when you can.

So,
> there is no benefit in living your life worrying about others.
This is a contradiction.

Back to
> "Being able to write at 03 ： 43 at midnight is a feat that no one in their normal lives can do."
Please provide a source that it is.
It's your favorite copy and paste time.

• LGBTのおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/17 (Wed) 23:01
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>Midnight 03 ： Being able to write at 43 is a feat that no one living a normal life can do.

Kakuei Tanaka woke up at 2 am every day to study hard while serving as prime minister.
Ototsan, who has lived in the US for 50 years, could have gotten out of "One Get One Free English" if he had gotten up early every day and studied English.

• Time
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 00:18
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#81
It sucks. Mean, self-protective, self-centered boss, expatriate from Japan is exactly like that. I still remember it.
Well, relatively speaking, Japanese expats are mean to local hires. When I bought something and couldn't fit it in and asked them to put it in like this. They scratched my car. I carefully carried my house so that it would not get scratched.

• Time
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 00:21
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This is when I bought it from Vivinavi. From an expat style. If they are going to help me, I want them to be considerate and put it in properly. Nervous and mean men are the worst.

• 孤独のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 07:52
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#I can get through enough with Englesh now.

You don't have friends because you don't communicate.

• レイラ
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 08:33
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The two above would be interesting to be comic partners.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2024/01/18 (Thu) 09:31
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95

I wonder if I can enter the "M-1 Grand Prix".