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I hate my in-laws too much.

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#1
  • -_-
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  • 2022/04/30 22:08

It's exhausting to deal with people who can't talk to me and I have no choice but to tell them. I don't want to divorce my husband, but I hate my in-laws so much that I want to take my kids and leave.

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#2
  • 期待しない
  • 2022/04/30 (Sat) 22:13
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Let's just split up, be sociable, and leave in a short time.

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#3
  • 他勢に無勢さ
  • 2022/04/30 (Sat) 22:30
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Low culture, high egotism values different family is a crazy new religion. Shady bosses always want to live with others in herds.

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#4
  • なな
  • 2022/04/30 (Sat) 22:37
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Do you live with your in-laws? Even if you do not live with them, do you see them often? If neither, I would talk to my husband about not seeing them at all or have a little patience. I am prepared to leave my husband at any time because his family is such a bother that I would divorce him. If I can't get a divorce, then I still have to accept the situation to some extent.

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#5
  • 珍しくはない
  • 2022/04/30 (Sat) 22:51
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I think there are fewer people who get along ？ By the way, what exactly is it that you don't like ？?

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#10
  • 笑
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 00:12
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You must be bad at keeping your distance
The people who say it's impossible have their own problems, but they can only think subjectively, so in the end it's impossible ！

It's useless to ask for advice

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#11
  • お義母さんといっしょ
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 00:30
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You all are so harsh in your comments. I know it can't be helped because I am not a party to this, but.... I hate my in-laws too. We live together, which is a minority in the US. I hate them especially after the birth. It's hard because I can't take the kids back home permanently because of the Hague Convention and all. Let's try to do our best for each other.

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#14
  • バツイチ夫
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 02:04
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As a divorcée myself, I think upbringing and family background are very important. If you don't get along with your in-laws, you will have a hard time for the rest of your life. I am so glad to be alone now.

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#15
  • 笑
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 06:47
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14
That's what happens when you get married without thinking.
It's a marriage that includes the whole family. I feel sorry for those who are married to such a wife.

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#16
  • どこの国の国際結婚だろ
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 08:05
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My coworkers were living in a group with their in-laws and siblings-in-law on a different cultural level, and it was very stressful.

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#17
  • 🤣
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 08:50
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Who are these people who are so uptight ？ They are the ones who have time to blame the board owner, even though not a single word says that they are not at fault and only the other person is at fault. Typical of what happens when you don't have real friends or family.
By the way, it's natural that everyone puts up with each other, whether it's a married couple or a stepfamily. It is impossible for one of them not to be patient with the other. It's just that their patience is not in the right place for each other. It's possible to be disgusted by it, or to be harsh with it, or to dislike it.

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#19
  • 仲裁者が頼りないとダメですわ
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 10:21
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If you have a family in law and their husband and one wife who is a stranger, you end up being outnumbered and taken advantage of. Japanese people are oppressive.

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#20
  • 誘拐だよ
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 13:43
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＞ It's exhausting to deal with people who can't talk to you and you have no choice but to tell them.

That's the in-laws' side of the story
Your husband is probably being told ？ Why did you have a child with someone who doesn't understand your language ！

If you take the child home, you are kidnapping ～ （ LOL ）

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#21
  • 笑
  • 2022/05/01 (Sun) 15:34
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> By the way, it's normal for everyone to put up with each other, whether it's a married couple or a stepfamily

What's normal for me is not normal for everyone else
I'll take the liberty of talking about what's normal for others.

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#23
  • いるわー
  • 2022/05/02 (Mon) 17:22
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There are people like 20 around here ！ I thought it was his comment.
If you take a child home, you kidnap him. ？ That's too stupid. It's not kidnapping if you have consent.

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#24
  • うん
  • 2022/05/02 (Mon) 17:42
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He has so much bad character, it's disgusting.

He must be a poor man who can't live without writing sarcasm.

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