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• 非常識はどっち
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• 2024/06/11 (Tue) 21:49
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In the first place, to give a topic title such as
[Question]
itself is, well, likely to be a misaligned person.
It is common sense these days to give a clear and short title that makes the content of the topic predictable.

The other person told me it was insane to ask for such a thing when it's so big."
If they say that, you just have to avoid making the same mistake.

• パルコ109
• 2024/06/13 (Thu) 17:44
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Personally, if I am going to stay at someone's house, I would ask the size of the towels first before replying.
Especially towels are bulky, so I would ask if they would like one set ？ or if they would like a lot of gifts
from Japan on the way back.

• 昭和のおとっつあん　　　　　　.　　　.
• 2024/06/13 (Thu) 22:38
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逆に、持ってきてと言われたら,
喜んで！　と返事するんだろうか？

• 昭和のおとっさん　　　　　　　　　　.
• 2024/06/14 (Fri) 09:45
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I wonder what the person in #1 would do if his friend asked him to do the opposite
He'd say no because his luggage wouldn't fit, but in his gut he'd probably think his friend was insane.

• ワクチン義務化
• 2024/06/14 (Fri) 14:26
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I'm going to visit a friend and she asked me ～ if I could bring her a towel.
It's more insane to call me insane. I'm going to take care of her now, and
you are suddenly starting a fight with her. If I were you, I would refuse to have them come.

• donburi
• 2024/06/14 (Fri) 19:13
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I have asked them to bring me heavier bulky items.
When I return to Japan and meet with them, I give them many souvenirs and treat them to lunch and dinner
in Japan, so it is easy for them to accept.

I think it depends on the relationship between you two.

• 友人寄り
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 07:46
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I can't handle people who ask me to buy them luggage or souvenirs
I would feel sorry and couldn't ask them
By the way, even if they ask me for luggage
I decline because I travel with minimal luggage
I would accept an envelope-sized item
but towels are out
I don't feel it's urgent and I think I can bring it back when I go back to Japan

> I think the person should have said sorry, I can't fit it in my luggage, but what do you think?
I like honest friends

if you say that ？
if it's annoying, it's ok

but if you ask, I'll change my ways
I'll change my ways when you ask.

• 友人寄り
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 08:15
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You were asking from America to Japan
Order online
Do your own thing

• ふざけた弁護士
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 09:05
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It's the Netzte age, so as the person above says, order online.

• 価値観の違い
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 10:36
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> My friend is coming to Japan from the U.S. and I asked him if he could buy two sets of towels ？
He said it was insane to ask for such things when they are so big.

I became a little uncomfortable.


hmm
I think it's insane, me too.
I think we're both uncomfortable. I think if we had a relationship where we could ask each other for favors like this, we would, but I guess that means we didn't.

• 価値観の違い
• 2024/06/24 (Mon) 16:04
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In Japan, some of my friends always bring souvenirs to gatherings, but basically we make a reservation at a restaurant, get together, have a good time, and then split the bill and go our separate ways.
I think they like to do that
I don't return it, but I bring it every time
When I visit my relatives' house, I bring something I can buy over there
Sweets and sake are better in Japan
There are so many kinds of things to choose from.

Everyone is so busy, but I think it's enough to meet old acquaintances on time ？
I think it's fine to bring souvenirs if you want

I think it's fine if you want to bring souvenirs
but I don't think you should bring anything in return I think it's fine if you want to bring souvenirs in return. I don't think it's right to ask for something in return
I know we have different sensibilities, but I don't want to be in a relationship
where I'm forced to do so.

• 読解力の違い
• 2024/06/25 (Tue) 07:48
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1 didn't talk about souvenirs
not a souvenir topical.

• 価値観の違い
• 2024/06/25 (Tue) 20:43
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35

32 between 31 and 33 is missing
I was just answering your question about not bringing souvenirs.

• 発達障害の・・・
• 2024/06/25 (Tue) 23:59
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> I was just answering a question

That wasn't a question. It is just an accusation that makes no sense. There is no reply to prove it. You don't have the intelligence to reply. The administrators know better and it's being erased immediately.

• ふざけた弁護士
• 2024/06/26 (Wed) 08:14
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Yes, yes, yes, every time I jump from one topic to another, I get off-topic. There is too much self-centeredness.
It is strange to ask someone else's opinion when you ask your friend for a towel.

• 価値観の違い
• 2024/06/26 (Wed) 10:06
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People won't come to you, this
in the real world or on the internet
because you're not worth dealing with
maybe.

• bakudan
• 2024/07/14 (Sun) 19:51
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1 ． To begin with, each person has a different definition of a towel.
2 ． It's a bit like saying that what you think, they should think too.
3 ． Maybe the timing and premise of the question was wrong.

• はい?
• 2024/07/14 (Sun) 20:49
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Timing is...
How is it timing to respond now?

• 司会者
• 2024/07/14 (Sun) 22:18
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Very good ！ Yes? instead of a cushion, give two sets of towels to Mr. ！.

• はい?
• 2024/07/14 (Sun) 22:24
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Hi!!!
I'll take two sets of towels.