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No matter how long it takes...

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#1
  • みさき
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  • 2022/12/07 18:45

I wonder if anyone else has the same problem... I thought I would start a topic.

I have been coming to the US for about 20 years.
I did not come here because I wanted to, but because of my partner's situation.
Everyone has different reasons for coming to the U.S., and they may have different reasons, such as study, work, pursuing a dream, etc.
I think it is more like a dream. I didn't come to the U.S. with a positive attitude, and I still suffer from stress and anxiety and think about Japan.
Since I have spent every day in such a negative way, my English has not improved because I keep running away from it, and I continue to have a strange feeling of discomfort, as if I have missed the opportunity to get used to a very normal daily life.

Is there anyone else in my situation?

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#55
  • 受け取る側のコンプレックス
  • 2022/12/14 (Wed) 08:36
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47

You sound proud because you don't have a green card ?
You sound proud because you don't have money ?
You feel proud because you don't speak English ?

People with a strong need for approval will compete on their own ?
You don't have to compare every single thing ?
Everyone has their own good qualities.

I don't get involved with losers who have a strong need for approval because it's too much trouble

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#56
  • #55
  • 2022/12/14 (Wed) 22:16
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Well said ! Exactly.
I think he was snickering because he didn't say anything.

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#57

On Facebook, there was a guy who got a green card after getting married who took a picture of his green card and bragged about it
If you got a green card because of your skills, you can brag about it, but only people who got married or won a lottery brag about it
For people who are not interested in green cards, it's nothing to be jealous of. ? I don't think people who think they are jealous are jealous because they want a green card ?.

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#59
  • コバ
  • 2022/12/15 (Thu) 22:45
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I have a GC, but I am not proud of it at all.
If you don't have GC, you can go somewhere else, and I don't see the point of messing around with it at all.
I feel sorry for 55 and 56.

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#60
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん,
  • 2022/12/16 (Fri) 07:02
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I prefer to be in a position to become an American citizen and vote in American politics.

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