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It's so sad that he doesn't have any friends ？.

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#1
  • ぼっち
  • mail
  • 2023/11/14 22:52

What is a friend ？ I'm here ？.

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#91
  • 友人
  • 2023/11/26 (Sun) 00:08
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When he calls me, he asks me for favors. When I call him, he asks me for a lot of money
When I go on vacation, he is selfish and I am selfish
When I go on vacation, he breaks his promise.
Drinking party, splitting the bill even though I didn't drink
Dinner party, splitting the bill even though I ate cheap food
This is not my friend
People are selfish, they always end up with a profit/loss account.

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#93
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2023/11/26 (Sun) 07:05
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＃ Which of L, G, B, or T is the Showa Otto ？
L, G, B, or T all.
But what do they want to hear about a stranger?

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#94
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2023/11/26 (Sun) 07:54
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89

Isn't it best to enrich your own life rather than worrying about others?

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#95
  • すご
  • 2023/11/26 (Sun) 09:31
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>91 This is one person ？ then you have a strong person 😂.

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#96
  • やっぱりね。
  • 2023/11/26 (Sun) 10:31
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Ignore the posts of those who call themselves strong.

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#97
  • 説明
  • 2023/11/26 (Sun) 20:43
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96, I don't understand. Who calls himself a strong man ？?

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#99
  • すご
  • 2023/11/26 (Sun) 22:09
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What ？ how can that be ？ if one person is doing all of the above then he is not a strong person ？ where did you get the self-proclaimed ？ lol

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#100
  • 昭和50
  • 2023/11/26 (Sun) 22:55
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There's something flimsy about 27's writing
zero solutions.

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#101

Number 91
I just laid out what's wrong with people.

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#103
  • 渋谷の101
  • 2023/11/27 (Mon) 09:00
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Having no friends is not necessarily a cause for pity. People have different personalities, interests, and values, so some people have many friends, while others have few. Some studies have shown that the number and quality of your friends can affect your happiness and satisfaction, but that is just a general trend and varies from person to person. If you are struggling with a lack of friends, you may want to look for new opportunities to meet and socialize. But if you are enjoying your life without friends, that's fine.

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#104
  • 一人ぽっちの部屋
  • 2024/01/05 (Fri) 07:55
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When you "decide by likes and dislikes," you start connecting with people who share the same values as you.

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#106
  • 引退
  • 2024/01/14 (Sun) 14:53
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I don't have many friends, but I am happy separately. People seem noisy these days.

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#107
  • MI
  • 2024/01/16 (Tue) 14:06
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If you don't want it, you don't have to worry about what others think

However, people who avoid socializing tend to think and act selfishly

My mother is exactly the same type, and she is now old and lives alone.
If your children are close to you, they can talk to you in their own way, but
there is no guarantee that this will happen in the future, so it might be better to be prepared for that
.

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#109
  • アラフォー
  • 2024/01/17 (Wed) 18:39
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I don't know if I've ever had no friends at all, but I would probably be boring. Talking about stupid things is only possible if you don't like each other. I think it's enough to have about 5 people you can talk to who you can trust and who trust you, including your family.
Too many is tiring. Once you have children, you can't make time for them, so they become distant, but you will naturally get back in touch with those who are a good fit. As we get older, we don't make new friends, so we want to treasure our old friends, and above all, our children are our treasures.

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#110
  • 人災
  • 2024/01/18 (Thu) 00:34
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How refreshing to be free from that annoying person.
He gave me advice and advice from above even though I didn't ask him, was extremely stingy, decided everything for himself, talked behind my back if I didn't follow his advice, trusted me and told me everything I told him, hit my car in a hurry because of his short temper, lied to me and brought me to personal injury and I couldn't even get insurance for my car. It was very expensive. I have a lot of bad luck when I deal with people. I lost a lot of money by trusting in stocks.
The more I associate with people, the more I feel bad, pushed around, hurt by their words and actions, and the lonelier I am when I'm alone, the fewer disasters I have.
It's good to have friends you can trust. 、、、、、

Besides, Japanese and people from Japan take advantage of this. They don't have a car and think they deserve a ride.

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#111
  • LOL
  • 2024/01/18 (Thu) 03:27
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↑ There was a man who blamed others for all his misfortunes. lol, that's because I prefer to be alone.

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#113
  • アラフォー
  • 2024/01/18 (Thu) 07:21
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110

I think the reason strange people come to you is because you can't say no
I used to get tired of putting on a good face to people I didn't like, but
If I don't like this person when I first meet them, I usually end up not liking them afterwards
I try to focus on people I feel good with. I try to focus on people I feel comfortable with and let go of people I don't like immediately
If I don't leave early, it's a hassle to get involved with my friends and acquaintances

If I buy stocks, it's at my own risk.

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#114
  • 人災
  • 2024/01/18 (Thu) 14:57
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Yes, that's right. It would be better if they did not start dating in the first place. It is true that such people do come close.

I try to focus on people I feel comfortable with and let go of people I don't like immediately
If I don't get away from them early, it will be troublesome after they get involved with my acquaintances and friends
You're right. You can bring a friend without a car from the beginning and they say it's close,

stock self-responsibility. But I trust people right away. Whether it's an acquaintance or a brokerage firm.
You're not sure of yourself, but I'll be careful.
I will cut ties with people like #111 as fast as I can. I will not even enter into a light relationship here.

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#115
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2024/01/18 (Thu) 15:46
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"Like-minded and like-minded people naturally come together and make friends."

"Those with similarities in common are more likely to become close friends." "Those with similarities in common are more likely to become close friends.

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#121
  • 都合がいい思考
  • 2024/01/28 (Sun) 10:24
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People leave not only because they believe in you or not
there are many reasons

I have been finding it troublesome to hang out with people lately
it's not that I have any bad reasons
I honestly feel that I have no reason to hang out with them
I have left people I have been hanging out with due to inertia
I only spend time with people I enjoy

I don't enjoy casual conversations with people I enjoy
I think it's time to reset

I think it's time to reset.

I was able to spend my holidays slowly
I started to think about starting something new
I started to learn a lot
I got to know people who share the same values

I only share things I can share

At my age, no one fits everything
We only share the parts that fit each other

I feel very comfortable

So I have only a few friends that I can call friends
but I like them this much I've come to realize that I like it this way.

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