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#1
  • myu
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  • 2023/01/19 09:21

家族でホテルを予約する事になり悩んで悩んでいます
家族は私と夫、そこまでは問題ないのですが今回諸事情でコートに出廷するための滞在で私の義妹(夫の妹)も同じく遠方からやって来ることに。彼女は法理事務所で長く働いている(パラリーゴー)ので法律に多少詳しい人です。
そして今回のコートはverdict の為でジューリーが最初に加わりverdict (最終決定)迄少なくとも1週間、そして状況によってはよっては、それ以上になると言われてホテル滞在を10日に予約しました。
今の私の悩みは、義理の妹と10日も同じ部屋、並んだベッドで寝るのが嫌なんです。勿論ベッドは2つで彼女と同じベッドで寝るわけでないのですが。私は彼女が若い時から稀にみるデブちゃんで、そのせいか６０で未婚、性格もちょっと、今は手術して体型も普通の中年デブ程度になったんですけど。久しぶりにzoom で見た彼女の顔は「なんとアグリー！」という印象。見てるだけでうつになってしまいそうです。そんな彼女と10日も同じ部屋で過ごす(日中はコートですが)今から気が滅入ります。
皆さんはコンフェランス等で同じホテルルームに相部屋で他人と泊まった経験おありでしょうか？
どうでしたか？1日なら耐えても2日以上という経験をした方感想を伺いたいです。
今回の滞在は個人的に私の家族の事で義姉は私達家族の為に親戚の情で来てくれるという状況で彼女にホテル代を出させたくなく。もう予約してます(1king&1queenbed)
＄１６９per day,でも今、いっそセパレート　ルームをと検討してます。そうすると2部屋で多分トータル＄250はするので金額が大変ですが、10日の滞在で私の気持ちがうつになりよりはいいか？と思案中です。明日　金曜日迄ホテル予約キャンセル可能です。長々とすみません。
皆さんのご意見頂けたらと思います。

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#48
  • ゲゲゲ
  • 2023/01/22 (Sun) 00:20
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Stupy
Suit
lol

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#51
  • 最低
  • 2023/01/22 (Sun) 07:57
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There is also a problem with the character of the person who is so nettlesome about the use of words that don't matter.
Do you know what a knife of words is ？ In fact, you were probably hurt by what your sister-in-law said to you.
You are childish, irresponsible, why don't you learn a little more than fighting ？ then you won't be called an idiot. I think the majority of people would have a negative opinion of you. Selfish, self-centered, no independence. You also argue with all the opinions of others.
For the sake of your family, you can refuse your sister in law.

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#54
  • Myu
  • 2023/01/22 (Sun) 09:14
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A series of posts from #36 to #47
Scary 😳
My opinion Don't go crazy with your rebuttals ！

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#61
  • 傍聴席
  • 2023/01/22 (Sun) 18:58
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There hasn't been a single opinion on the part of Topix so far.
What about the cost of the room, the king bed, etc.
Those are things that you and your husband can resolve by talking to each other, and you don't need to talk to others about it.
You ask for help in court, but speak ill of your looks and personality in public.
This is so selfish. You still linger on
badmouthing your relatives who have come a long way to help you, and that is just ungrateful and shameless.
You still don't seem to realize
that you are the type of person people hate the most. Your words boomerang back at you.
"First of all, I want you to review your own shortcomings."

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#62
  • 不快な人
  • 2023/01/22 (Sun) 21:46
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You don't want to associate with someone who bad-mouths other people who have different personalities, looks, and values. They don't realize that bad-mouthing is not about the person who said it, but about the person who is saying it.

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