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アラフォーはおばさんですか?
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- アラアラ
- 2009/08/17 11:55
正確に言うと、先日40歳になってしまった、子無しのバツイチ女です。
現在は好きな人もいませんが、この先を考えるとやはり一人は寂しいなぁ。なんて考えてしまいます。最近は芸能界でもこの年齢で結婚される方もいるし、ちょっとは昔と変わってきてるようにも思いますが、やはり世間一般的に同世代の男性からすると、40女というのは「おばさん」なのでしょうか?恋をしてもいのかなぁ。。
- #66
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好きな者同士がお互い甘えたりするのは年齢に
関係なくごく普通の事だと思うのですが、そう
いう事以前に「ゴロニャンしたい」とか言って
いるのを見ているのが一番キツイです。
「イヤなら見ずにスルーしろ」という意見も
ごもっともなのですが、しかし年上の女性が
甘えてくれるのは大歓迎でも相手によっては
熟女が「ゴロニャンしたいにゃん♪」なんて
言ったらドン引きで一気に青ざめの可能性も
高いのでこの辺りは気をつけた方がいいかと。
- #68
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- ねぎ星人.
- 2009/08/24 (Mon) 19:38
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「日本の男の人って年が上がれば上がるほど、#24さんが言うようにロリっぽくなってきて、同年代やちょっと年下って位置にある女性には興味ないって感じなんですよねー」
それは恋愛体質氏自身がロリ戦術を捨てきれていないからそう見えるのではないか。
「おねがぁ~い!」作戦は若い娘の得意技である。敵と同じ戦術で勝ち目のない戦いを挑むのは、もはや刀折れ矢尽き、己の名誉のために、折れた刀で正面から敵陣へ最期の突進するもののふのようなもので、もののあはれを感じる。ミニスカと肌見せで武装する怖さ知らずの敵に紫外線を恐れなければならない折れた刀では勝ち目はない。打ちてしやまん。玉砕は何も生み出さないのである。
ちなみに「おねがぁ~い」などの甘え声は、散々泣かされた自分ほどの歳になるとどうも防御姿勢をとってしまう。そんな戦術にひっかかる男はまだまだ修羅場の経験が浅い。青いのである。対等な立場であればお互い無理をする必要もないのだ。どちらが甘えても問題はないのだ。ただ同世代だと相手が既婚者である場合が多いゆえ、つい・・・
- #69
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- 栗甘神 鯛介
- 2009/08/25 (Tue) 00:11
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トドメをさすつもりはないんだけど、今付き合っている相手とならともかく、合コンとかで「私は甘えん坊でーす」「ゴロニャンしたーい!」って言って「カッワイー!」とか言ってもらえるのはどう考えても21歳ぐらいまで。アラフォーどころかアラサーでもドン引きしまっせ。作戦立て直したほうがいいと思うよ。年上好きって一部で言われているほど少なくないから、ねぎさんの言うように素敵なおばさま、おねえさまになればアラフォー女性が二十歳の男とつきあうのもそんなに難しくないんじゃないかな。最近のおばさまは綺麗な人が多いし。どうしても甘えたければやっぱ年上男性に行くっきゃないっしょ。
- #71
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ねぎ星人さん
不倫は文化だとおっしゃいますが、僕としては、既婚者との恋はいただけないな~、というのが、率直な感想です。すみません、生意気いって・・・。でも、やっぱり受け入れられないもので・・・。
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