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40 ~ Unemployed in his 50s ・ Never married, lives with parents

Daily life
#1
  • かまぼこ
  • mail
  • 2022/11/04 18:00

I am a parent in my 70s.

Fortunately, all three of us are in good health, and we try to be as close to our children as possible so that the atmosphere in our home does not become

awkward.

In the past, I used to give my children a lot of attention about work, etc.

At that time, I had a hard time because my children were upset with me.

If any of you ( unemployed, 40 ~ in your 50s ) living with your parents,

how are you doing,

please write to us! Please write to us.

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#8
  • 疑問
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 09:00
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I really think you are right, you must have a very cute child. But it is also the parents' responsibility to point them to independence. But since Mr. Kamaboko designed the house so that you can live on your parents' inheritance without working, you don't have to worry about it.
You are the one who designed it that way. Your children are probably taking advantage of it.

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#9
  • 疑問
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 09:03
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Kamaboko,
However, we cannot give up on our wish for the child's happiness. I think your child is happy because he is on the rail of hope, a life without working.

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#9
  • 8050問題
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 09:27
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In Japan, it's called the 8050 problem.

The problem of parents in their 80s who need care and children in their 50s who are unemployed, shut-ins, and unmarried.
They often say, "Let the pretty children travel," and I think it is right to let them do so.

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#16
  • だから
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 14:16
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↑ I'm not asking how you spend your time.

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#17
  • 急に
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 15:08
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You can't suddenly become independent because you worked today, step by step, and mom says it's all covered. Parents worry about their children no matter how old they are. They are overprotective, and it looks like they have a lot of money to raise.
All hail !

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