Vivinavi : Los Angeles : (United States) Los Angeles

• 000
• 2023/11/22 (Wed) 12:49
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People who have no friends also have the following advantages.

Free use of your time and space ： People without friends do not have to worry about or adjust to others. You can immerse yourself in your own likes and interests. You can live at your own pace. You can act according to your own will and judgment. Being able to use your own time and space freely has the effect of reducing stress and promoting personal growth.

• サンデー毎日
• 2023/11/22 (Wed) 15:36
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＞ If you marry a Showa Ototto, will you be said to have married a ballerina? ？
＞ Showa Ototto is LGBT, so it would be impossible.

Was it a hoax that you were married to Yingling with M-shaped legs ？?

• サンデー毎日
• 2023/11/22 (Wed) 18:21
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＞ Who is Yingling with the M-shaped legs?

Perhaps your former wife was Vivian ・ Sue, not Yingling ？
Sorry if my memory is wrong. They were both from Taiwan, so I may have been mistaken
. I envy you being married to such a beautiful woman.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/11/23 (Thu) 07:59
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Even if they give me one unfamiliar name after another ？ ？ ？ I just become

Showa Ototsuan is LGBT, so
I can live in peace even in extreme poverty because strange people with ulterior motives do not come near me.

• 自称ホームレスのおとっつぁん
• 2023/11/23 (Thu) 10:33
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＞ No strange ones with ulterior motives approach

After all, no one approaches him, so does he generously give out iPhones and $ 100 gift certificates to young men?
I wonder if the property that Ototsan is renting is also being occupied by a young male actor first.

• 紅夜叉
• 2023/11/23 (Thu) 11:27
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It's miserable to live your life worrying about other people's pocketbooks.

• ベニスに死す
• 2023/11/23 (Thu) 17:56
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I wondered why Showa-era Otouta-san gave generous and expensive gifts
to young strangers, but now I understand: it's because they're LGBT.
Have a happy Thanksgiving and Christmas with your wonderful friends.

• ぼっち
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 00:31
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I don't know if I'm pitiful for not having friends or if it's just me.
If I act like I don't need friends, inevitably my kids will be less active. It means that I am sorry for thinking that I could have originally had a fun playdate with another child.

I do not limit my children. They are still toddlers, so it's like the adults are getting together on their own and saying let's have a playdate. And I don't participate in that. Maybe I'm just getting by with it for now because the kids are not old enough to make commitments to each other.

> The bottom line is that you unintentionally send a message to your kids not to socialize. It can be your attitude or your genetics.

What do you mean by heredity ？ I'm kind of curious. I thought these things came from the environment.

> What you can do is promote openness in socializing to your children.

I would think it would be difficult to promote it when I don't actively socialize with people 😅 sorry for sulking.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 08:03
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＃ Why do Showa-era fathers generously give expensive gifts to young strangers
That's because, you know, they have to have their computers maintained.
Simple maintenance costs $20, and slightly more elaborate maintenance costs $40.
I always give a gift at the end of the year because I always get maintenance done for less money.

If I go to another maintenance shop, it's $80 plus the maintenance fee just to check
You can easily see which is more profitable.

• グレーターロサンゼルス
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 12:26
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＞ It's easy to see which is more beneficial.

In the Showa period, Ototsuan also gave expensive gifts to botched mechanics. No one could understand Ototsan's explanation why he did that, but it was because he was LGBT. I was convinced. No need to be shy.

• 自身で考えよう
• 2023/11/24 (Fri) 17:21
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> Why should I be ashamed of being LGBT ？

I was walking around naked with pride

> On that basis ？

I got into quite a bit of trouble with customers, and complaints poured in

> Send a year-end gift with all your heart to that person who has been so kind to you.

Since the father is a wealthy man, $ he can buy 100 gift certificates.

• 昭和27
• 2023/11/25 (Sat) 14:38
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＞ Acting like you don't want friends
＞ It's hard to proceed when you don't actively socialize

Children, and especially young children whose language is not yet developed, learn what the world is like by watching the actions, attitudes, reactions and facial expressions of their parents.

So, if you act like you don't want friends and avoid socializing with others, the child will learn about it.

If parents are not conscious of their actions, they unknowingly teach their children what they do not want.

• 昭和27
• 2023/11/25 (Sat) 14:59
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We are talking about heredity to children, but when you look at babies right after birth, some are whiny, some are quiet, some are curious, some are sensitive.

So there are differences in personality right from birth. This itself is caused by the genes received from the father and mother.

This original personality then changes into various expressions depending on the surrounding environment. This environment becomes itself in relation to the parents.

As the child grows older and moves away from the family, other environmental influences come into play. But by that time, the foundation of the personality has been roughly established.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/11/25 (Sat) 15:38
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Children grow up watching their parents' backs

No matter how many admirable words parents may speak to their children,
if their daily life is lax,
there is no persuasion.

• 5時に夢中
• 2023/11/25 (Sat) 17:15
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Children grow up watching their parents' backs ？ Children will learn from imitation.
Children listen to adults while they play, so they learn that auntie mama said bad things about auntie.
I heard that children watch their parents' backs from the back of the house when they are doing business, like the old Japanese grocery store. I myself was scolded a lot in the past for being an adult, and I was told to go outside and play, and I was told that my mother's field was bad, but now I am told that the field is the seed of men and women.

• 渋谷で5時
• 2023/11/25 (Sat) 19:26
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Children are monomaniacal geniuses who watch and absorb. Let's show and tell them what their mothers do
They absorb not only words from their mothers, but also various things they see in their daily lives. It is easy to tell them with words, "Be kind," but for some children it is still difficult to understand what kind behavior is. Showing your mother's behavior is a good way to communicate this to your own child. Children learn how to interact with others by imitating those around them. If they see their mothers being kind to others, they will learn to behave in a kind manner.

• ありのままで
• 2023/11/25 (Sat) 21:00
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Both of my parents were quiet and not very social, but I had a lot of friends and loved lively places and people since I was a student. My father's side of the family loved to throw parties, and my grandparents and relatives were the kind of people who were always in and out of the house.
Now that I am older and have become a parent, I prefer to be alone.
I have a few friends with whom I can talk about anything, but I may or may not see them every few months or once a year, but if something happens, I contact them on LINE.

Eventually the child will lead the child's life. They can be influenced by their parents or even be anti-influenced by them. Don't worry about it so much, and if the child is social, let him play as long as it is not too much for Bocchi.

• ナオミ
• 2023/11/25 (Sat) 22:41
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There was a post about how you were concerned about the disappearance of Baikinman from the exchange square,
how would you feel if the Showa Otottochan disappeared ？
I would miss him. I hope he will stay ～ for a long time.

• 質問です
• 2023/11/25 (Sat) 22:46
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If you don't mind me asking, please let me know.
Which is the Showa era ototsuan, L, G, B, or T ？?

• Spiderman
• 2023/11/25 (Sat) 23:34
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The disappearance of times Jin Man from the exchange square,

He's with us, you know. You can hear him from time to time. Please notice him.

Father, he is getting old, please take good care of him.