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• ここほれわんわん
• 2022/05/04 (Wed) 13:28
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There was a woman on TV once who got pregnant when she was in high school, and when she told her boyfriend, she couldn't get in touch with him, so she went to his house and his parents told her it was your body, and she was turned away at the door.
So I confessed to my parents in tears and they told me to get an abortion right now ！ so I went to the hospital as fast as I could. The doctor showed me an ultrasound and said, "I can't kill this child. I told my parents, "I won't have an abortion. When I told my parents that I would not have an abortion, they abused me and kicked me out of their house, so I had no choice but to go to my best friend's house, where my best friend and her parents told me that we would support you and your child, so I decided to work part-time and raise my child while balancing school.　Her other best friend also started working part-time at the same place with her and started supporting her financially.
You may think that abortion is an easy solution because it is the solution right then and there, but should we have a law that kills a little human life （ instead ） and ？
In case you are wondering, abortion by rape or other reasons is less than 1% of all abortions. abortions due to rape and the like are less than 1% of the total number of abortions.

The child was born safe and sound and is now 5 years old, but when I see him playing in the park or whatever, I feel horrible that I even thought about killing him, even if only for a second." I remember being moved when I saw him say that.

If you see a woman like that around you, please help her. For the sake of her and her little life. It may be hard at the time, but years later, you will always be glad you did it.
But still, that boyfriend, pathetic 。。。。

• そうだね
• 2022/05/04 (Wed) 14:45
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You may be feeling very overwhelmed on your own, so it's a good idea to ask experts and various people's opinions to make the best choice.

• 考えすぎ
• 2022/05/04 (Wed) 20:34
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Early pregnancy is still just a part of a cell

a life that would not have been born if contraception had been used in the first place ？

abortion is a choice

• うんこ
• 2022/05/04 (Wed) 23:24
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You, too, are a completely new cell, formed from A and B.
I mean, after all, a body is just a collection of cells.

• 花咲かない爺
• 2022/05/05 (Thu) 00:04
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> Early pregnancy is still just a part of a cell
> It's a life that wouldn't have been born if you had contraception in the first place ？

What ？ is it just a cell when you know 100% that in a year it will be human ？ ？ .

I don't understand that "just a cell,,," perception of yours as a human being and a parent.
Even if it is a cell at that time, it will become a great human being in the future, but only now it is an irresistible little life that can do nothing.
The only people who can protect it are adults like you.

I wonder what I can say to people like this.

• 節約生活は楽しいよ
• 2022/03/28 (Mon) 16:06
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I know -
I may have already done this, but carrot French fries are so addicting. It's delicious like sweet potato.
https://masonfit.com/garlic-parmesan-air-fryer-carrot-fries/

By the way, if you use truffle oil, the flavor improves and it tastes even better ！ I highly recommend it.

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Really.
I feel like I'm being told I have common sense by an insane person who suddenly calls me a liar and doesn't even apologize.

• Angus
• 2022/03/28 (Mon) 17:41
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I saw the recipe ！ It looks so delicious, I will try it tomorrow ^ ^

You know truffle oil very well ？
I used to work in a rather expensive restaurant and a drizzle of truffle oil at the finish makes the food taste so much better.

I'm going to buy some for the first time in a while ♬
I want to know more about air fryer recipes ！

• 笑笑
• 2022/03/28 (Mon) 17:54
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？ I just read that the air fryer is good ！ but

I got an air fryer, but I haven't opened it yet because it looks too difficult to use
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I've tried Youtube, but the only English ones I could find were from noisy old ladies, and the Japanese ones were hard to understand.

I wish someone would give me a demo!

• 節約生活は楽しいよ
• 2022/03/28 (Mon) 19:56
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Truffle oil is versatile and can be used for salad dressing or mixed with grated garlic and baked on bread. I try to use as little salt as possible, so I have started to utilize truffle oil and spices. It is good for beauty and health, and it tastes great, so please try it ！.

• 節約生活は楽しいよ
• 2022/03/28 (Mon) 20:14
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I would love to hear Angus' recommendation for air fryer recipes, having worked in a restaurant ！.

• 昭和のじいさん
• 2021/12/21 (Tue) 13:13
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I'm in divorce proceedings and you're living with him
I wonder if he's planning on taking that house.

• 考えすぎ
• 2021/12/21 (Tue) 13:18
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You're only living with them because it costs money.

• Kokusaikekkon
• 2021/12/21 (Tue) 20:54
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Thank you all for your advice. The reason we are living together is because our children are also living with us. We are not U.S. citizens and are in the U.S. on work visas. The children are soon to be adults, so there is no custody dispute. The issue is the division of property. Lawyers are still going to be protracted and expensive. Since there is no problem with custody and child support, I think it is possible to consult a paralegal or an accountant only for advice on negotiating the division of property, and consult a lawyer on a case-by-case basis when the husband side hires a lawyer (he may not really want to hire a lawyer because he knows the cost, but he may be saying it out of strength). The property is real estate and a mortgage. I would like to sell the property and settle and divide it, but since the property is in high demand for rent, he does not want to sell it for the future and wants to give me only the remortgage portion and keep the ownership solo, which I do not agree with. The only point of contention is the division of property. He also does not want to pay the 50/50 split for the pension. If it is only property division, I hope we can fight it with only paralegals.

• Chappy
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• 2021/12/22 (Wed) 13:23
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I am sorry to hear that you are in divorce proceedings and living together, and I can imagine the awkwardness. We have had the same feelings.　We live in California and just got divorced after 36 years of marriage. My husband is a US citizen. No children. I plan to return to Japan permanently.　Our divorce is only for our house and property division, so we prepared the documents ourselves through a paralegal and filed them with the court. At the same time as the filing, we both signed and agreed to a written document that we would not touch any property in our joint names. Therefore, we sold the house because we needed free living expenses for each other to live on until the decree was issued. We also moved in together and organized the house, but spent each day feeling the awkwardness and the spikes in the other's language. He would stare at me when I packed my stuff （ to see what I would take ）, and I packed carefully to leave him what he needed for his middle age and older life alone after the divorce, but I remember feeling suffocated every day.　Because of Covid19, it took a long time to get the Divorce Decree （ I had to wait about 7 months after the initial filing ） .　After we received cash from the sale of the house, we split it 50 ・ 50 and we both lived in an apartment with it as our living expenses and waited for the divorce decree to be issued. Even though alimony is not included in the divorce, the wife can legally claim alimony at a later date for 10 （ or 15 ） years after the divorce is finalized, and it is the husband's obligation to his wife who has been married for more than 10 years.　Even if the divorce is finalized, I still need to keep in touch with him （ because I will be living in Japan and I will have to ask him for some things ） so I endured it patiently. Now we are spending our time as good friends, keeping in touch day by day. Looking back, I wish I had been a little more relaxed.

• 経験者
• 2021/12/22 (Wed) 15:06
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Whether your husband likes it or not, if you divorce in California, a 50/50 split of the property, including pensions, is a certainty if you go to court. If you do not want to sell the house, the person who owns the house is obligated to pay half the value of the house. However, most people don't have that kind of money, so the house is usually sold.

The reason why you think there will be a dispute is because your husband does not agree, and if you go to court, it is obvious that his claim will not be accepted. I think you should be more forceful. I know you are under a lot of stress and often feel bad, but please don't be discouraged.