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Unhappy children who inherited only the shortcomings of their parents.
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- カレー
- 2023/08/06 02:18
I wanted to post this because I wanted to ask you all to listen to the hard feelings I have been having for many years.
I would be happy to hear from anyone who has suffered through a similar situation as I have, and how they are trying to overcome it.
I am now in my 40's and worked for many years on both marriage and job hunting to move to LA, but ultimately my wish was not granted and I recently returned home.
I believe that the main reason why my life is not going well despite my best efforts is because
I inherited my mother's bad looks, which is rare in history, and my father's temperamental personality.
Being a woman and having poor looks is a fatal disadvantage.Her mother, who is in her 70s, is not good-looking, but she graduated from a top school and a first-class national university, is very intelligent, intellectually curious, and has a good way of doing everything, and has many friends with a likable personality. After giving birth, she became a housewife, but during her working years, she earned more money than her father. Because of this, she married her father, who is relatively wealthy, well-educated, and relatively good-looking. On the other hand, my father was smart and chose women based on the wavelength of conversation and their personalities, so he did not particularly care about their looks, but he is selfish, short-tempered, and quick-tempered. I am not as well-educated as my mother, and I don't feel the same yearning for a full-time housewife like my mother, and I don't like children either, so I longed for a single life in LA where I could be carefree. Since I was not good enough to get permanent residency on my own and did not have the good looks to get a man to marry me and support my permanent residency, I had to return home.
After returning home, I have found a full-time job, but it is almost a black company and does not seem to last.
I regret that I should have studied for more qualifications when I was young so that I could get a solid job.I am currently working on my studies, which I was not able to do when I was younger, and I am angry at my parents for not communicating the importance of getting a solid job when I was younger. Part of it is that my parents' generation did not place as much importance on women's financial independence, but all of their wishful thinking about me is off.
My appearance is not at a level that can be managed with petite plastic surgery.
Those who are not in my situation will not understand my situation.
I apologize for the length of this article, but I would be happy to hear from anyone who has overcome similar circumstances.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #88
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2023/08/15 (Tue) 09:44
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There will be no problem to obtain permanent residence through marriage.
If the partner comes to Japan, he/she will go through the procedures to be able to live in Japan without any problems
The partner will also think carefully about how to enable a Japanese person to marry and live in a foreign country.
It is also a problem to make decisions about a person's life by the book.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #91
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- ロム専
- 2023/08/15 (Tue) 11:40
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How many roles does one person play, and when called upon, they come out in a hurry. There are so many naive people, so many suspicious responses. I often see people who are mentally weak, but they go out in front of many people, and they should think about what they are doing. The same goes for these forums. That is what it means to appear in front of an unspecified number of people. It is natural that there are different opinions, and there is a possibility of being slandered. It is your own ignorance that you do not understand this. And it is strange for those around them to support them. These are the type of people who are told by non-professionals around them, "No, no, no, no, no, no, that's not true! Instead of doing so, they go for proper counseling. You should save up money and get plastic surgery, or take some other action.
This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #92
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- 日本
- 2023/08/15 (Tue) 11:50
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I moved to the US even though I don't want to live there. \I am so envious of those who can live in Japan as a matter of course and sigh everyday.
This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #93
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2023/08/15 (Tue) 12:56
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I don't even want to live there, but if you want to emigrate to the U.S., have him move to Japan by himself.
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- #94
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- Youは
- 2023/08/15 (Tue) 13:06
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You're breaking up a couple.
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