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• 子供
• 2023/06/11 (Sun) 17:45
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If you take care of Tobi, your mother will have to leave you enough assets to get you on welfare.

• 自己判断
• 2023/06/11 (Sun) 18:21
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yokko
is just giving advice based on her own experience and thoughts. Everyone is different.
the way of family, finances, values
what you do for free is a kindness repayment that children do to their parents.
Regardless of whether you get paid or not, but as a practical matter, if taking care of your parents makes your own future life difficult, it would be impossible.

It's not about getting or paying because of this situation.

• Darksouls
• 2023/06/13 (Tue) 13:18
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I'm sure there are many cases of suicide due to caregiver exhaustion. "I'm here because I'm looking for some good advice from someone " who is taking care of my parents, but sometimes I get annoyed by useless people who are not involved in my parents' care at all.
My parents are also elderly, and moreover, my father recently found out that he has terminal cancer and temporarily returned home, leaving my mother alone after applying for long-term care insurance while my father was in the hospital. My father has moved to home care
and is still doing well, but I am worried about him and plan to return to Japan temporarily in November to help with his care. So, I am not yet a caregiver, but I will be in the future. Please reply to me as I am very curious to know how you are doing at the moment.

• ルーシールーシー
• 2023/06/17 (Sat) 03:45
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I know I'm late to the party, but I think Topy's point is obvious.
However, I think it is difficult to get your mother's consent.

I am in the same situation as you, my mother lives alone in Japan and has been occasionally taken care of by a nearby relative （ my cousin ）, but due to the progress of her dementia, she started having auditory hallucinations and my relative encouraged her to move in with him, retire from her job and move in with her family. I retired from my job, left my family in the U.S., and started living with my mother by myself. My mother not only does not want to move into a facility for the elderly, she also does not want to go to day care, and recently she does not want to go to the hospital and is a stay-at-home mom. I am in a financially sound situation, but my mother's dementia is gradually progressing, so the emotional burden of living with her is very heavy.
We have been living together for a little over five years, and I am considering separating from my mother in another five years, whether she moves into a facility or not. I think it would be good for you to think about your own life first and then do what you can for your mother.

• happy_LA
• 2023/06/21 (Wed) 20:15
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Thank you very much for your time. It seems that you have everything you need to live while your mother is alive, but if she should die, her assets will be inherited by her daughter, and with her pension, will it be difficult for her to live on her own?

• ゲゲゲ
• 2023/06/17 (Sat) 00:29
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I've emailed Topi and she's ignoring me.

• Blueberry Hill
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• 2023/06/17 (Sat) 11:19
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#4 I agree with Blue Hill as far as I am concerned.


https://youtu.be/bQQCPrwKzdo

• 梅
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• 2023/06/17 (Sat) 12:08
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If Mr. Cherry is healthy and you have a lawn front yard, why don't you buy a lawn mower and trimmer and mow it yourself?

When I bought my current house, I had a front yard of about 130 sq. yards of lawn.
I continued to use the same gardener I had used in my previous house, but
I bought the above machine and started mowing it myself, thinking it would improve my stamina.
It depends on the type of lawn, but I think once every two weeks is fine.

• 💩
• 2023/06/18 (Sun) 10:51
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Advice to mow it yourself when you're asking someone else to do it for you
admirable.

• 桜
• 2023/06/20 (Tue) 19:38
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I would like to thank those who wrote in ！

I will refer to them.

Thank you very much.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/06/19 (Mon) 08:42
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If you purchase and finish using the product, you can return it ？.

• ゲゲゲ
• 2023/06/19 (Mon) 10:09
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#5
It's a very cruel way to return a tagged item. There are Japanese who do this ？.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/06/19 (Mon) 13:16
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I can't believe that returns have to be returned with the tags still on.
Eventually, if you open the box and return it, it will be refused for return.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/06/19 (Mon) 15:17
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Search the internet for wedding dresses
and if you find one, go and buy it for nothing
if you ask if they offer dress rentals ・ here.

• ククレカレー
• 2023/06/19 (Mon) 17:00
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I don't know what area you are looking for, but
there is one in Del Amo.

• そもそも②
• 2023/05/24 (Wed) 20:37
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My parents are in favor of me studying abroad ？.

• 断捨離
• 2023/05/25 (Thu) 14:25
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I think it's wonderful that you are a junior high school student and are trying to do all this research on your own.

I think you can find out most of the information on the Internet, so if you want to know more, you should contact the U.S. Embassy in Japan or the Japanese Consulate in the U.S. and visit them.

Also, there are various groups on Facebook, etc. If you join a study abroad group, you may be able to get more realistic advice from people of similar ages or seniors who are close to your age.

Japanese living in the US
https://www.facebook.com/groups/637768156431069

There are several Japanese people in this group who are local teachers. You may be able to get their opinions on the position as a local school and the rules ・ and mechanisms. Why don't you write once?

• はいい？
• 2023/05/25 (Thu) 16:40
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#31
I don't know this guy, so I can say this: he started the exact same topic almost 10 times, got deleted, and kept starting new topics without thanking the person who gave him long-winded and polite advice in the beginning. After being warned several times, I finally got to the point where I could say thank you. It can't be great. Not knowing is scary.

• 親切な人
• 2023/06/06 (Tue) 07:44
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#18
Mequillan means Mexican. Sorry for the confusing expression.
In short, illegal immigrants can attend compulsory public schools without any problem.

• gurdian
• 2023/06/07 (Wed) 22:59
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If the pattern is that the parents are illegal immigrants and the children are citizens, I don't see a problem, but I don't think the illegal immigrant or the person in question can.

• 元生徒
• 2023/05/31 (Wed) 18:53
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Rosemead is not recommended because they don't necessarily put you in the right class placement for your appropriate level.

• 遠い
• 2023/06/02 (Fri) 22:25
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It says South Bay.

• 元生徒
• 2023/06/03 (Sat) 19:09
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It's in the South Bay - the Torrance school is in the South Bay.

• 将吾
• 2023/05/31 (Wed) 18:54
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#6 Disconnected

Thank you for taking the time to look into this ！
I will take a quick look.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/06/01 (Thu) 06:49
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＃ I don't understand why it is prohibited to go straight. I was ticketed. Straight ahead is prohibited even if you don't know what it means. If you follow it properly, you won't get a ticket.

• 宇佐美
• 2023/06/01 (Thu) 07:43
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Understood. Thank you.

• 悪くない
• 2023/06/02 (Fri) 07:57
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Traffic school isn't bad if you do it right ！ I have a lot to learn. I get tickets because I'm bad. But I know there are a lot of people who don't like it if it takes too long.

I didn't know you could choose a traffic school ！.

• 💩
• 2023/06/02 (Fri) 10:04
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You can try to believe the old story
you'll find out the hard way that it's not so easy
（ most people think you'll finish faster if you attend class ）

• ははは❓
• 2023/05/31 (Wed) 15:50
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He said no one was listening.
Topix's empty ears.

• 💩
• 2023/05/30 (Tue) 21:04
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5 Two was last time, and maybe one box next time would be fine in the hold. no ？
6 you only have one size cardboard （ lol ）

• アロハ
• 2023/05/30 (Tue) 21:30
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I always carry on as much as possible. I bring a Boston bag on top of a smaller suitcase that can be carried in, and put the suitcase in the top compartment and the Boston under the seat in front of me. If I can't fit it in, I put it in a cardboard box and send it by fedex or usps, but
usps is surprisingly expensive. I don't know how much the check-in surcharge is, but it is also expensive to send heavy items.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2023/05/31 (Wed) 06:54
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Where would you like to send a package of about two cardboard boxes from Hawaii to?
You could pack it up and take it to a UPS office and get a quote.

• はわい
• 2023/05/31 (Wed) 07:25
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Thank you very much Aloha. I will try to take full advantage of the carry-on as much as possible. With my sister, who broke her arm last time, we kept our carry-on luggage to a minimum, so that may have been a factor.
The largest box that can be sent by USPS Flat Rate is not very big, and the price seems to vary from Hawaii to Hawaii. I thought the post office was the cheapest, but I will look into FedEx and UPS ！ Thank you very much ！.

• 断捨離
• 2023/05/31 (Wed) 15:24
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We recommend a service called Pirate Ship. Even if you do not have a business account, you can purchase labels at a discounted price for broker accounts that Pirate Ship has. It is not very cheap, but it is about 10% less than the regular price.
https://www.pirateship.com/

• 断捨離
• 2023/05/25 (Thu) 14:16
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Membership Fees: SAM'S CLUB memberships range from about $45 to $100 per year; COSTCO memberships range from about $60 to $120 per year.

Merchandise assortment: Both stores carry a wide range of merchandise, but some products and brands may vary. Product availability and variety may also vary by region. In general, COSTCO focuses on fresh produce and has a larger selection.

Number of stores: COSTCO has many stores worldwide, while SAM'S CLUB has slightly fewer stores than COSTCO.

Services: Both stores offer merchandise at discounted prices, but COSTCO may have an additional advantage in terms of discounted prices, special membership benefits, and exclusive offers.

Which one you prefer depends on your personal preferences and needs.

• ひろ
• 2023/05/25 (Thu) 17:18
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COSTCO is available in Japan even for US members.

I think it is possible to do it when you enter the store
because you have to go through a special procedure at the cashier
when I went there, it took a little time and I felt sorry for the people around me .

SAMS is a lot easier to shop at than costco because it is totally empty.

• Flowers
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• 2023/05/30 (Tue) 14:50
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Special procedures ❓
are not necessary at all when accounting
‼️ I think you have misunderstood something ？.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん　.
• 2023/05/24 (Wed) 10:08
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Information on recommended parking lots but cheap places: 。。。。。　Convenient, safe and secure places are expensive.

• Z
• 2023/05/24 (Wed) 10:16
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The two requirements are
a late night flight so there will be a shuttle service even in the middle of the night or early morning, and a cheaper place to park than in LAX. The two conditions are as follows. That's all.

• こめお
• 2023/05/24 (Wed) 13:49
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2 This place is a supekyo.