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親の生活を支える為に学業をあきらめる?
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- 厄女
- 2012/07/21 05:04
十代の頃、不景気のために大学進学を諦めて働きました。しかし、大学進学を諦めきれず、30歳になってアメリカでの進学を決意し渡米しました。現在コミカレに通っており、今年の冬で卒業というところです。今は4年制大学へのアプリケーションを用意しています。
ですが、現在、日本に残してきた両親の状況が経済状況が良くなく、遠回しに帰国を迫られています。日本に帰国したとしてもオンラインでクラスを取りつづけAAを取得することもできはします。しかし、両親の経済状況のひっ迫は一時的なものではないので、帰国し、両親の生活を支え始めれば、そう簡単には学業に復帰できないのは確かです。そうなれば、もうすぐそこに見えている4年制大学進学がまた遠のいてしまいます。
わたしの現時点でのプランは、帰国し、オンラインでクラスを取りつつAA取得を目指す。4年制大学進学はとりあえず保留とし、日本で就職し両親を支える。です。
これが娘として両親にできる精一杯だと思います。しかし、正直なところ、これで本当に良いのか?とも思います。自身が30歳すぎであることを考えると、両親の介護と援助の為に自分の人生を作るチャンスを失うかもしれないという不安ががあります。また、両親を支える為に自分の夢と、生活を犠牲にすることに疑問も感じます。
しかし、何が正しいのか、なにが最善なのかわかりません。
みなさんだったらどうしますか?
- #49
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>30歳になってアメリカでの進学を決意し渡米しました。
進学がアメリカでとありますが何ででしょうか?
日本の大学は考えなかったのでしょうか。
またその留学費用はどうやって作ったんでしょうか。
親が年金も貰えない上に介護が必要なのに不思議です。
- #51
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30過ぎて日本の大学に行ったらキャンパスで目立ってしょうがないよ。日本の大学なんて24歳までに卒業しないと「何で?」って目で見られるからね。
- #53
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誰かも書いていたけど、
親が貧乏だからこそ、ちゃんと大学出たほうが仕事が安定すると思います。
年齢を考慮すると、アメリカの大学を出たほうが日本での再就職のチャンスも高いと思うし、うまくやれば出世もできるのでは?
大学卒業を「夢」っていうけど、トピ主さんにとっては夢というより必修に近いことですよね。
親が子どもに犠牲と貧乏を強いる権利ないです。
- #52
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>30過ぎて日本の大学に行ったらキャンパスで目立ってしょうがないよ。日本の大学なんて24歳までに卒業しないと「何で?」って目で見られるからね。
女30越すとおばさんになっちゃうんだ。
でもおばさんたくましいから日本の大学でも大丈夫だー。
そうか日本では肩身がせまいからアメリカで夜を楽しんでんだ。
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