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ちょっとしたこと
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- くよくよ人
- 2014/12/31 10:11
私はちょっとしたことですぐくよくよ考えてしまうのですが
どうしたらいいのか?おしえてもらえませんか?
また、旦那はアメリカ人だし男なのではなしてもあまり理解できないようです。。。
所詮金○が付いてる人とは分かり合えないのでしょうか?
仕事先で何かあったら旦那様に相談とかされていますか?
- #9
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- ステファニー
- 2015/01/02 (Fri) 09:21
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愚痴を家庭に持ち込んでるの? 男だから分かり合えないとか関係ないじゃん。。。
くよくよする性格を直しましょう。。。
- #10
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危険が迫っている、あるいは金銭的なことの悩み、病気とかは、
夫に聞いて貰うべきです。そういう話しなら真剣に聞いてくれるでしょう。
男は自分の家族に対して「俺が守ってやるんだ」という意識が強い生き物です。
だから、妻の相談事に対して即Actionを起こせない様な事ですといらっとしてくるのでしょう。「じゃあ、どうすればいいんだ!」と。
だから人間関係、子供のこと、会社の事でのちょっとした悩みは、
他人に聞いて貰うのがお勧めです。
聞いて貰うだけでいいという場合もあるし。
でも男は夫に限らず、親しくなっている人には話さない方がいいです。彼らは、あなたのことを思って何かActionを起こし、大ごとになってしまうことも。いい聞き役を探すのは難しいです。
確かに、他人には言いたくない様な問題もあり、だから夫にしか言えないという事は多いですよね。
でもスポーツ系、機械いじり系の男の頭には、女の悩みを聞く容量はないのかもしれません。
お酒飲んで「チキショー」と叫んでガバッと寝て忘れる人種ですから。
世の中には嫌な事や人がいて、お酒飲んで忘れるなんていう次元ではない、些細なジワジワくる悩みってありますよね。
そういう時は「可哀想な人だね、人に嫌な奴と思われてるのも知らないで」と自分に言い聞かせ、その日で忘れる事!
- #11
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2015/01/02 (Fri) 16:35
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男ってのは女房に頼られると力を発揮する。
- #12
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- ビーフジャンキー
- 2015/01/08 (Thu) 16:15
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職場での悩みごとなんか聞きたいダンナ、いないわよ。居心地が悪くなって、浮気や家出しちゃうわよ。
彼らは所詮、金○なんだから、搾ってあげればあなたのストレス解消にもなるでしょ。
- #13
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- 595959
- 2015/01/10 (Sat) 10:00
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>すぐくよくよ考えてしまうのですが
>どうしたらいいのか?おしえてもらえませんか?
相手に自分の思うとおりのアドバイス求めてるんでしょ。金○付いてても付いてなくてもこの手のはウザいんじゃないですかね?だから相手してくんないんでしょ。 いつまでも駄々こねてないで大人になりましょうよ。
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