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- #1
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- PineTree見る子
- 2006/08/17 21:33
離れて生活していますが、身内と同じ位に大切な人がいます。
具体的なことは書けませんが、現在その人はある問題に直面して、その気持ちを察すると、自分としてもとても心が痛く・・・でも、これを乗り越えなくてはいけないのはその人自身だから、自分にはどうすることも出来ない・・。
こういう時はやはり黙って見守ることが、その人にとって一番なのでしょうか。なんだか自分もわからなくなってきたのです。手を差し伸べる優しさではなく、黙って見守る優しさこそ本当の無償の愛なのかな。出来るものなら自分が変わってあげたいです・・。
- #2
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- コバルト
- 2006/08/21 (Mon) 03:54
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大切な人の抱く、傷み、苦しみ、悲しみ、悩み...。それを代わってあげられない、自分には何もできないって思うことはつらいですね。
具体的な内容がわからないのですが、僕ならとにかく祈ります。その問題が解決するように。その人が心身共に元気でありますようにと。
そして、その人が、その悩みや苦しみを溜め込んでいるなら、聞いてあげる、吐き出させてあげる努力をします。それは直接的な解決策にはならないけど、思いきり愚痴を言ってみたり、泣いたりすることでスッキリすることもあります。
何もできない、代わってあげられない。でも、できることはきっとありますよ。ただ思ってあげることだけでも、それは意味がありますから。
ごめんなさい。状況がつかめないので、うまく噛み合っていないかもしれません。
でも、その問題、早く解決するといいですね。^_^
- #3
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その方には冷たいようですが 自分で解決するしかないと思います。 私がそうでした。 #1さんは その方のそばで見守ってあげるのが一番だと思います。(物理的に無理なら気持ちだけでも)私の場合は愚痴を聞いてもらうだけでも気持ちが楽になりました。
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