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I want to get back together with my ex-girlfriend who dumped me because she was attracted to other women.

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#1
  • 復縁レンジャー
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  • 2022/03/10 13:34

A few years ago, I was dating my ex-girlfriend for about 2 years. During our relationship, a woman of my type confessed her feelings for me, and I dumped my ex-girlfriend and started dating that woman.

It has been a year and a half since I started dating that woman. At first I forgave her everything because she looked like an actress, but now I regret it. If we went out to dinner, she wouldn't give me her purse and she was courting me because of my status. Education, income, occupation, etc.

While I was feeling depressed, I bumped into my ex-girlfriend by chance and she had become beautiful beyond recognition. My ex-girlfriend is a great cook, kind, and a great woman to have as a wife. Do you think there is still a chance for me to get back together with my ex-girlfriend?

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#2
  • 無理
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 13:52
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Women don't have any regrets about a relationship that's over

If you're making money, at least give her dinner
You don't make much money, don't be so dramatic
You must have been really unattractive to change your mind so easily based on face
Beautiful women can be found anywhere

I'd pretend to like her if she was my ex-girlfriend. If I were an ex-girlfriend, I'd pretend to have feelings for her, get her to fall in love with me
and then, when I've built up my expectations to the highest level
I'd push her down


but there's no way a beautiful woman would bother to start over with someone who's betrayed her even once.

you're too lame and unattractive
your ex-girlfriend would have noticed after you broke up with her, so no chance

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#4
  • 無理
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 15:58
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If you've cooled off, break up with her anyway.
It would be rude to your current girlfriend.
After that, you should tell your ex-girlfriend that you want to get back together ?

If she is as beautiful as an actress, she will find her next one soon.

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#5
  • ちなみに
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 16:12
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How do you know it's for status ?
I mean green card ?.

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#6
  • 運命
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 16:29
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A man who betrays you once will do it again and again.
Even if he gets back together with his ex-girlfriend, will he move on again?

Why don't you try confessing to your ex-girlfriend?

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#7
  • 不思議
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 16:37
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What did you tell your ex-girlfriend to break up with you ?
What if your ex-girlfriend had a boyfriend ??

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#8
  • 不思議
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 16:39
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Once you betray her, you should find another woman unless you're willing to carry that guilt for the rest of your life. If it's a quick ex-girlfriend, don't do it because you'll only hurt her again. Find a new partner.

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#9
  • え?
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 16:42
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> Why don't you confess to your ex-girlfriend just to try it out?

break up first ?

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#10
  • #2に同意
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 17:04
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I agree with #2 200% vehemently. From the point of view of my beautiful ex-girlfriend, he is a man I wish away from me.

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#11
  • 既婚者
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 17:06
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I don't know how old Topi is, but

If he re-attacks his ex-girlfriend on the premise of marriage, I think there is a good chance. Moreover, if she chose you even after breaking up with such a beautiful woman, I think it would be a strong bond to the contrary. Even if a beautiful woman appears in the future, she has already learned her lesson once, so the same thing will not be repeated. It's up to your ex-girlfriend to decide, but if she can see your sincerity, it might work. It is not easy to get forgiveness, and even if you could start over, it takes a certain amount of trust and love before you can forgive her completely.

No matter how long you have built up trust, it only takes a moment to break it. And it is even harder to regain trust once it is broken.

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#13
  • 無理
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 17:17
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is ?

no no no

I dumped a beautiful woman because she confessed to me, and when I got cold feet about her attitude of not even giving me her purse and taking it for granted that she would buy me a drink, I want to start over because the kind ex girlfriend I met by chance who could cook was beautiful ? ?

A woman who confesses to someone who has a girlfriend and plunders her, how can she not be thick

I think my ex-girlfriend is too good for this kind of man

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#14
  • 🎣
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 17:19
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>You guys are really a bunch of bored people

I know you made it up and I'm just trying to keep up with you bored people
you perverted jerk!

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#16
  • 復縁レンジャー
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 17:21
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Thanks for the advice

I'll try again

I'll try and crush it

but I'll keep my current girlfriend for now

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#19
  • 男と女
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 17:39
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They say men live in the past and women live in the present

There is nothing but hate for a man who has been rejected

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#20
  • 勘違い
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 17:47
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> It's strange. I feel like only the selfish people I've dumped in my eyes come back 90% of the time.

I think the person who dumped you will always accept you back because their memories are stuck in the way you were depressed when you dumped them. I called a kind ex-boyfriend I dumped a long time ago just to talk to him for the first time in a long time, and he responded with annoyance, and a few years later he reported his marriage. No, you don't want that. I responded with annoyance.

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#23
  • え?
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 19:39
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↑ Some women are beautiful but good wives

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#24
  • アホトピ
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 21:08
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Ask your ex-girlfriend.

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#25
  • さー
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 22:15
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Just confess to her and if it doesn't work
she'll give up
and we'll hang out with her like an actress
until we get tired of her
and that'll be the end of it, simple as that.

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#26
  • 馬鹿な男
  • 2022/03/10 (Thu) 22:56
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That actress-like woman confessed her love for you because she knew you were in love with her ? and you became a purse man. You got what you deserved.

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#28
  • 最初が肝心
  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 08:01
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Perhaps Topi was paying all the bills at first because she wanted to date someone as beautiful as an actress and keep her around, but the longer they were together, the more they took it for granted that she was there. Maybe it was Topi who changed.

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#30
  • ぐじぐじしてる男
  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 09:53
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Women have brains that can already upload and think about the next thing when they break up with you,
they're not thinking about you anymore.

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#31
  • モテなそう
  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 14:48
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Why don't you just ask her directly? What a pussy man.

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#32
  • ってか
  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 14:50
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Don't spoil her at first because she's a beautiful woman.

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#34
  • ってか
  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 16:25
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That's a sticky way to go 🤣
Even if she has a pretty face, that will cool her off.

If you intend to break up, wait until she comes home from the bathroom and ask if you can split the bill ?.

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#37
  • エクスキューズミー
  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 20:13
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You know ? what manliness is ?
the opposite.

If you want your husband to be masculine and you want to be feminine,
you are too mushy to know what that is.

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#39
  • エクスキューズミー
  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 20:29
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I'm looking for it, every woman is.
If one day you stop being a man, you will definitely say something. You just don't notice it because you are naturally fulfilling the role of a man.

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#41
  • BBA
  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 21:08
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I'm sorry to interrupt, but we both work and my husband waits for dinner when he comes home late at night. He doesn't like it when I make him a healthy meal because it's late and he starts eating a cup of noodles right in front of me.

It's not good if you eat without waiting ?
It's annoying.

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#43
  • 違います
  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 22:00
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I'm not waiting for your wife, I'm waiting for her to come home and cook something.

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#44
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  • 2022/03/11 (Fri) 22:01
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I'm tired, but I'm even more tired.

I want to make it easy. At first, I still cooked for my husband, but recently I've decided to cook for both of us if I want to eat what I want to eat. Laughs

That said, I do cook on my days off.

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#48
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  • 2022/03/12 (Sat) 05:26
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Are you swearing ? It's annoying that a grown man waits until his wife gets home. Why don't you cook something and eat it by yourself? Your wife works too.

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#49
  • BBA
  • 2022/03/12 (Sat) 07:09
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Before that, there are people with dignity in this square ?
Well, it depends on what kind of goods you want

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Yes. I have several kinds of frozen foods and leftover side dishes in the fridge, but I don't put them on a plate and eat them with a ding-dong. It is not uncommon for them to come home tired and want to eat something for which there are no ingredients. I am tired of repeating the same conversation every time without understanding it at all because I don't cook at all. Meals are more work than you can imagine, from deciding on the menu to shopping to cleaning up. I don't want to eat leftovers. She only wants to eat what she wants to eat. So even if I make a meal for two with what I have, she won't complain, but she will eat the cup noodles instead. This is quite annoying. When I ask her what she can make before cooking, she says she doesn't want it, so when I make it for her, she often asks me to make one for her because it looks so good. I used to make it at first, but I don't make it now.

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There are many good points. But if you live together, you must have a complaint or two. It is different from a bad word.

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#51
  • 昔は女子、今はBBA
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 11:28
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You knew your husband's personality before you married him. ?
You married him with that understanding. ?
> Meals are more work than you think, from menu planning to shopping to cleaning up.

I cook almost every day and I never thought cooking was labor intensive.
they complain when they don't get their own way, even to others
they give reasons like busy work, raising kids, menopause

having kids and not changing their sense of responsibility is a problem, but
men's personalities can't be changed because they have always been straight and they have always been straight and they have always been straight and they have always been straight
women were just wearing a mask and took it off when they got married
the cause of divorce is a personality mismatch, you just changed
women change so much that you can't keep up with them and your heart leaves
men and women both cheat on each other for the same reason That's why men and women cheat on each other
Think back to the past. Which one of you has changed ??

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#52
  • 可哀想
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 11:36
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I can read from the text that his personality is distorted. It doesn't seem to be only his wife's fault

It depends on each person whether cooking is hard or not
Even if it is called work, the working hours and contents are different for each person
It is cheaper to buy the food when you consider the labor to make it. it's cheaper to buy something if you think about it
you impose your ideas on your wife as a matter of course
this kind of personality must be why your wife hates you

easy to understand

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#53
  • 昔は女子、今はBBA
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 11:51
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> If you think about the effort it takes to make it, it's cheaper to buy it

Women who think of cooking as an effort usually have dirty rooms because cleaning is also an effort, so they don't do it as much as possible ( LOL )
It's all just excuses.

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#56
  • わがまま
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 12:52
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> And if you and your wife are both working, you can afford to live together

Then why don't you just eat out? You have Uber Eats and you can afford to live together ?
Cooking is also a waste of time, right? ? If it's a waste of time, why don't you just cook for yourself too ?
You're complaining because you don't get what you want, right?

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#57
  • 随分具体的な
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 13:11
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> Women who think cooking is a labor of love usually have dirty rooms because cleaning is also a labor of love. Story ?
let her wash your hair, she's dirty

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#58
  • 意味不明
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 13:12
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> After all, you're complaining because you don't get your way

Of course you do
That's what complaining is all about.

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#59
  • なるほど
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 13:20
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Ignorance is so furious because he is not getting along with his wife. That doesn't make adultery any better.

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#60
  • そんな稼ぎのない旦那はNo thank you
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 13:49
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> Women who think cooking is a labor usually have dirty rooms because cleaning is also a labor, so they do not do it as much as possible

What ?
do you make your wife clean ?
wife is not housekeeper.

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#61
  • こういう旦那は嫌
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 14:09
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I cook almost every day and I've never thought of cooking as a labor of love.
that's not a good way to get your wife to cool off

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#62
  • 投資家
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 14:24
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> Then why don't you just go out to eat? You have Uber Eats and you have enough money to live on ?


People with no money have no money because they can only think of ways to spend money like this.

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#64
  • 可哀想
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 14:34
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Good luck not getting rid of it.

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#65
  • 最近
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 14:42
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I order Uber Eats all the time.

It's not that expensive.

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#66
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 15:24
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It's not that Uber Eats isn't expensive, it's that what you're asking for isn't expensive ? w

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#67
  • BBA
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 15:39
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> If it's a waste of time, why don't you just go a hundred steps and just eat frozen food yourself ?

I basically don't eat processed food because it's bad for me.

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#68
  • 可哀想
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 15:58
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> People with no money have no money because this is the only way they can think of to spend money

It's just Uber Eats and how they spend their money. LOL!

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#69
  • 可哀想
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 15:59
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Poorly conceived. LOL.

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#70
  • 2022/03/14 (Mon) 16:09
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I'm sorry, I'm poor.

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#72
  • モナ
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 08:18
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What did you do after that?
Did you confess to your ex-girlfriend?

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#73
  • 憶測
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 10:46
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You won't

The chances of getting back together with your ex-girlfriend are pretty slim, so you will be used as a purse boy until you are sucked dry by a woman as good as an actress you will never have another chance with. And when you can't pay her anymore, she will dump you.

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#75
  • 男なら一度は
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 11:49
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If someone as beautiful as an actress told you you'd probably fall in love with her, at first

but in the end, if there's no substance, the love won't last, neither for men nor for women.

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#76
  • こういう人からは離れましょう
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 12:10
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>I couldn't recognize a woman who was looking for money ?

There is always someone who blames you when you fail
There is always someone who pushes you further
If you try, you will always fail
Failure is a given.

You are lucky to have a relationship with such a beautiful person
Some people can't have a relationship even if they pay for it
There are many things you can't see unless you experience them
Failure is the source of success
Besides

If you are dissatisfied, don't keep her, just break up and find a new partner.

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#79
  • こういう人からは離れましょう
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 12:57
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> I couldn't spot a woman who was after money. ?

It's horrible that you are not even self-aware.
First of all, it's your own assumption that the woman is just looking for money. ? This man should have just said that he would be happy to split the cost of the meal or pay for it once in a while, but he kept paying because he thought he might be rejected, or that it would be uncool, or that he might be rejected. But if you tell them, they might reject you, or they might think it's uncool, or they might be rejected, so they keep on paying. It's not acceptable to say, "You don't have to say it, you know what I mean. It's not cool to be posting here. Let's tell him.

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#81
  • こういう人からは離れましょう
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 13:17
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Topi feels that way, but you didn't say that she actually said she was looking for status. In these cases, there is a story from Topi and a story from her side. And since you are not married, I honestly don't even know what you feel she is looking for. If you are just dating, you can just break up with her if you don't like it. It just feels like she regrets breaking up with her ex-girlfriend and blames it on her current girlfriend.

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#83
  • サンベルナンデーノ
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 14:08
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self-centered

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#85
  • こういう人からは離れましょう
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 14:18
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If I knew before we started dating, we wouldn't be dating in the first place, so what's the point? I feel like I'm being accused.

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#86
  • こういう人からは離れましょう
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 14:48
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When you have lived a certain length of life, you start to avoid danger by anticipating it based on your own knowledge and experience. So when you see someone fail, you can understand why you think, "Why didn't I figure it out before I did it ?? I think there is more to learn by doing and failing than by just not doing and not failing. I understand this when I am a parent. Parents who teach you not to fail. Parents who scold their children when they fail. Parents who can support their children well while watching over them. The way you scold, the timing, and the way you say things can make a big difference in the way your child learns. After I became a parent, I realized that words are for communicating to others, not for saying what I want to say. Therefore, when I am around people who say things that make me feel negatively, I leave their company for the sake of my children because it reflects on me.

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#87
  • つまり
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 16:30
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She's got the looks

, she's got the personality

, she's got both, let's find a new one.

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#88
  • 恋愛の取説
  • 2022/03/20 (Sun) 20:58
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> Everyone has their own values and ideas. One's idea is not always right.


Right argument and common sense do not apply to love
There is no reason to love someone
People's hearts cannot be moved by right argument.

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#92
  • ボケ
  • 2022/07/13 (Wed) 22:22
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There was a woman somewhere who was in a long distance relationship and dragged it out after the guy broke up with her ~
You have no experience with women ? ( lol )

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#93
  • ないな
  • 2022/07/13 (Wed) 23:10
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It's not so much men and women, but unattractive people who are unattractive.
It's probably because they can't find anyone to write over.

Don't be so sure.

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