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#1
  • みさき
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  • 2022/12/07 18:45

I wonder if anyone else has the same problem... I thought I would start a topic.

I have been coming to the US for about 20 years.
I did not come here because I wanted to, but because of my partner's situation.
Everyone has different reasons for coming to the U.S., and they may have different reasons, such as study, work, pursuing a dream, etc.
I think it is more like a dream. I didn't come to the U.S. with a positive attitude, and I still suffer from stress and anxiety and think about Japan.
Since I have spent every day in such a negative way, my English has not improved because I keep running away from it, and I continue to have a strange feeling of discomfort, as if I have missed the opportunity to get used to a very normal daily life.

Is there anyone else in my situation?

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#22
  • 昭和の母
  • 2022/12/08 (Thu) 14:40
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> Those of you who have been here a long time and are still adjusting to life, it's not so uncommon.

If it's not so uncommon, then it seems like you should have such a post. how about you, 21 ？?

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#24
  • アメリカ生活30年
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  • 2022/12/08 (Thu) 16:19
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It's not uncommon. I think so myself.
I see a lot of people with Japanese people, but I wonder if they are used to America ？

Maybe everyone has their own problems, and there is no need to deny their problems ？
I am not used to it. I'm not used to it, and I don't like Japanese people's way of thinking and customs, so to speak..."
Well, I came here with a lot of preparation, and I don't regret living here. If you regret too much, I recommend you to change something.

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#25
  • 気にしない気にしない
  • 2022/12/08 (Thu) 17:52
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Showa mother

I think there are many people who don't want to respond even if they are in a similar situation because of all the aggravating responses. Because there seem to be a lot of people who want to further hurt those who are vulnerable. I don't think I need to tell you anything about me in particular, but I am able to live a normal life.
So how about you, Showa Mom ？?

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#26
  • まぁこ
  • 2022/12/08 (Thu) 18:09
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I don't like it here either.
I don't like English, and if you can live in an environment where you can live in Japanese, why not take advantage of that?
You should be excited to go back to Japan in your old age ！

#10 is a typical loser, LA is NY only ～ and waitresses for Japanese food ～, lol. The jealousy from the comments is overflowing and scary>_<

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#29
  • 昭和の母
  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 05:28
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I have no difficulty living in the U.S. and I have citizenship. You say you are agitated, but I too think it would be a shame to live a life of negativity every day for decades and look forward to returning to Japan in old age.

I hope Topi can find someone in a similar situation to help her improve her self-esteem.

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