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  • 2022/11/02 11:06

I have an acquaintance who is a stay-at-home mom and hates her husband.
If she would work and be independent, she would have more possibilities for divorce.

Almost all wives married to American men are working around me.
Do Japanese men want their wives to stay home ??

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#54

You have a lot of misconceptions that you don't understand
You think women work because their families are struggling for money ?
You think they work because their husbands don't make enough to get by ? You think women work because they want to go out and do things 、 even if their husbands are rich. If they don't have that, they can stay home and be a housewife. If they don't have that, they can stay at home and be a housewife. In America, women are strong 、 so even if they are divorced, they can make a living by themselves even if they don't give their all to men.   Many Japanese women can't make it if their husbands get divorced, so they do well by trying to get into their husbands' good moods. I have an acquaintance. The husband wants to leave her, but the wife can't work on her own anymore, so she will never divorce him.
They put up with each other and live with each other.

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#55
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  • 2022/11/08 (Tue) 01:29
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Japanese Husband X Japanese Wife Wife is also a careerist and works
Japanese Husband X Japanese Wife Wife also works because the family finances are on fire
Japanese Husband X Japanese Wife Husband is a full-time housewife because he makes good money
Japanese Husband X Japanese Wife wants to work but cannot speak English

American Husband X Japanese Wife Wife also works as a career woman
American Husband X Japanese Wife Wife also works because the family budget is on fire
American Husband X Japanese Wife Wife is a full-time housewife because her husband makes good money

American Husband X American Wife Wife also works in a career group
American Husband X American Wife Wife also works because the family finances are on fire
American Husband X American Wife Husband makes a lot of money so she is a housewife

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#56
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  • 2022/11/08 (Tue) 02:09
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# 45

> If your family is on fire, you can't be a housewife !
I agree with this sentence !

> I don't think happy people care, but people are people and I am me ?
You are right !

There are people who work and housewives in various situations, so I can't say it this way. But I think it can't be helped that the situation you are in changes what you say.
If I may express a wish, it would be easier if you are in a relationship with people who are in the same situation as much as possible, because their values are not so different. ? People who work because their families are on fire and people who are full-time housewives because their husbands make a lot of money can see differences in each other in everyday conversations ( I think it is important for both sides to ) And you may feel that 。。。。
But you know, there is no such thing as a group of people in the same situation, so I think we should just think of people as people and ourselves as ourselves. I mean, that's all you can do.

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#57
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  • 2022/11/08 (Tue) 05:09
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It's more unusual to be an elementary school teacher with a high school education.

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#59
  • 2022/11/08 (Tue) 21:06
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Topi's question: 、、、、 no one has answered the men's question: 、、、、

> Do Japanese men want their wives to stay at home ?

Anyone brave enough to answer ~ ~ ~ www

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