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• ひとりよがり
• 2022/05/16 (Mon) 23:25
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No, no, Yukina's the problem child ？ lol

• 品がない
• 2022/05/16 (Mon) 23:36
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> You are not rolling them well as a spouse.

A spouse is not something you can roll over
Demon wife, still a morally harassing type.

• 品がない
• 2022/05/16 (Mon) 23:38
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> In a way, I feel sorry for him. Tears. Ganbare Lord.

You are more pitiful
and more painful w

• 本名は…君の名は
• 2022/05/16 (Mon) 23:40
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I know someone named Yukina who writes just like her, but is her real name Yu--o? ？ She says she is married with a child and working, but isn't she a housewife ？ Her black-heartedness is just like her, and it scares me ….
I think she is a black-hearted woman who may have a good relationship with her husband, but in the past she was forced to resign from her job because she couldn't get along with her company.

Also, the opinion that "if you work ？" is also legitimate, but can't you do something about the housewives who are looking down on you … If you think about the child-rearing and time to interact with your children that you won't have by working, there are people who are not working right now but are working and raising their children. There are too many people who think they are better than me, and I hate the idea of being a housewife. We have our own ideas and we don't work …

• 過去の精算
• 2022/05/16 (Mon) 23:50
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Kind comments … Parenting is a wonderful time, isn't it?

• 張り付きBBAの正体
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 01:47
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Yukina is very good at searing the true nature of the topix lol. Yeah, the defense is one-note. You're too dark, poor housewife.

• ゆみお
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 02:53
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#112 is not Yukina either ？.

• マジ
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 07:00
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Yukina scary

too much stress

• マジ
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 07:10
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But

111 defends himself ？ lol

women distorting each other is ugly

• あらま
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 07:35
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I take it as a supercilious thing to tell me to work.
I took it that everyone was giving advice to improve the situation of the Lord, who cannot spend money freely.

I don't know how old you are now, but why don't you work when your children don't need it?
If your relationship with your husband is not improving.

Also, I know that in many cases you have to re-qualify for a job in the U.S., but of course you can do that ？, right?

• あらま
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 07:39
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I mean, 110 is also topical.
And a few minutes later, a comment of his own.

In summary, defend the husband is wrong! I don't need advice to work! I guess that's what I'm saying.

You started a topic, but you don't seem to need other people's opinions.

• 落ち着いて
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 07:46
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Whether you are a housewife, a dual income housewife, single or divorced
If you don't respect your partner, you will eventually become one

If you criticize, you will be criticized

These people want to make things black and white like one is right and they are subjective.

you have to leave

• バーイ〜
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 08:02
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＞ It's a real waste of time to spend time on people like this who want to make things black and white like one is right or the other and can only think subjectively

If you think it's a waste, just go away on your own.

• 本名は…君の名は
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 08:25
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110 is me. I'm not a topical person.

I think saying ？ if you work is almost always over the top. It's just annoying to say that to someone who isn't working because they don't want to work.

I don't know about your place, but I think it's short-sighted to say that if you work, everything will be fine. ？ I overlap with the type of people who work with small children and complain when they leave early because their child is sick. If you choose not to work because you don't want to be bothered with that kind of thing, there are many people who think they are better than you because they work, raise children, and are housewives. Of course, not all of them are like that, but if they do something that requires a lot of work, they just say "I don't have time for that because I have to work" and they are not popular ？.

• ゆみお
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 08:52
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This is certainly true.
In the end, some people just want to complain no matter what you do

I don't want to be someone like Yukina who thinks it's okay to say anything if you are working.
Oh, so you are a housewife now ？?

• ん?
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 09:11
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＞ I think it's almost always supercilious to say ？ if you work. It's just annoying to say that to someone who isn't working because they don't want to work.

You got this kind of advice because your post sounded like Topix was in financial trouble, right?
What, are we talking about you?

• 働く女
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 10:40
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We were almost 50/50 until we had kids
so neither of us complained about how we spent our money

But after we had kids, we decided to split the housework and childcare 50/50
He said he would rather work and pay for it, and I started doing all the housework and childcare
.

so I am almost free to do what I earn while taking care of the kids and housework

it's great

by all means!

• 沙良
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 10:50
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＞ I don't know about Topi's place, but I think it's short-sighted to say that if you work, it's like everything is solved ？

I don't think anyone wrote this with the intention of solving everything.

So, what would you suggest as advice to the topixer?

• 働く女
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 11:47
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？

I find it much easier to work.

However, I think women are more likely to enjoy raising children.
I guess it's called motherhood.

I hear that husbands are very difficult, but I think you have to try to make them understand. If he only tells you, you can listen to him, but if he doesn't let you use it, that might be economic DV, so I'll leave evidence, in case you want to divorce him. If he can't follow the rules, even as a married couple, then we should attack him legally ！.

• あらら？
• 2022/05/17 (Tue) 11:58
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？
I didn't know you.

Such a big, ugly, and ugly