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Characteristics of the opposite sex that should and should not be married

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#1
  • 恋愛相談
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  • 2022/02/12 13:22

I am a 30-something girl who wants to get married. I have turned 30 years old with no luck in finding a relationship. I would like to know the characteristics of the opposite sex that would make such a person good. No rough spenders, etc.
Thank you very much!

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#111
  • わざわざ書かんでも
  • 2022/02/20 (Sun) 14:05
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> When I married a single-minded person, I really enjoyed my life

I think it's great that you are happy with just that.
I am happy with anyone because I don't need someone else to make me happy, I can be happy by myself.

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#113
  • 新世代
  • 2022/04/07 (Thu) 22:46
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It's not that there is no attraction other than money. LOL!

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#114
  • いいえ
  • 2022/04/07 (Thu) 22:55
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I don't think he has any money either.

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#115
  • よくある話
  • 2022/04/08 (Fri) 07:48
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Choose someone who hides the fact that he/she has money at first, and whose attitude does not change when he/she finds out that he/she has money. There are quite a few people who take it for granted that you will buy them a drink if they have money.

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#117
  • 嘘はすぐバレる
  • 2022/04/08 (Fri) 08:56
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He makes 90 million a year, but his ideas are stingy.

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#118
  • 最初が肝心
  • 2022/04/08 (Fri) 09:21
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Women who take it for granted that men pay
Women who are willing to split the bill

People's personalities do not change, so it is a matter of whether you can choose your ideal partner rather than demanding your ideal of the partner you like


The first step is to find out.
It is impossible to ask someone with too different standard of living to split the cost, so either you lower your standard of living, or if you want to maintain your standard of living, you look for someone with the same standard of living

You are fundamentally choosing the wrong partner, so you will be dissatisfied later on.
But it is also true that feelings of love are often born with someone you don't understand

So it is difficult.

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#121
  • 知り合いの女性は
  • 2022/04/08 (Fri) 09:53
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They didn't let us have luxuries because it was uneconomical to be fat.

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#122
  • 最初が肝心
  • 2022/04/08 (Fri) 10:01
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If that's the only thing you don't like, just go out to dinner less often and say you want a home-cooked meal. She's your girlfriend.

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#123
  • 情けない
  • 2022/04/08 (Fri) 14:07
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if you fall in love with someone, you lose

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#125
  • 情けない
  • 2022/04/08 (Fri) 15:52
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They say if you're not popular, you don't have a choice.

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#129
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/04/09 (Sat) 08:53
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How to recognize what not to get involved in

Resentment, hatred, envy, backbiting, angry people

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#131
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/04/09 (Sat) 10:17
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Relationships with others are about relationships

Resentment, hatred, envy, backbiting, becoming angry

Don't get involved if you show signs of it

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#133
  • 笑
  • 2022/04/09 (Sat) 20:19
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> How to recognize what not to get involved in
Resentment, hatred, envy, backbiting, angry people

You are the Showa era itself.

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#135

I think there is something wrong with people who always have trouble with love （ including marriage ）.
Especially those who are repeating it even after they are in their mid-forties, they are the only ones who don't realize it, and the people around them can see the cause of it.

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#136
  • 色々話したい
  • 2022/04/10 (Sun) 18:29
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I'm surprised at how many couples over here have divorced and remarried many times.
It's normal that one of the parents is not related to the other ？
Also, there are a lot of people who have disabilities ？ or have a level of intelligence
that is not from developed countries
and they are very assertive about their rights and if you marry such a person, it will be difficult later. I thought it would be hard.
I thought Japanese people are really good when I came here.
Even if you don't get married, you can get by if you have money.
Many people learn from divorce ？.

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#155
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/06/26 (Sun) 07:05
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If you keep being inflexible and insistent, you will also get away with it.

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#156
  • 面倒くさ
  • 2022/06/26 (Sun) 10:41
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You fail because you didn't have the eyes to choose the right person for you

The cause is always you

As long as you blame the other person, you will always be dissatisfied.

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#157
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/06/26 (Sun) 12:55
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He has the soul to be a pimp, and he can get away with it because he is a monster.

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#159
  • ピカッ
  • 2022/06/26 (Sun) 14:54
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You should marry, for example
a guy like me

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#160
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/06/26 (Sun) 16:45
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Yes, a pimp is a man.
The husband is living as a pimp with no income while his wife works.
He goes to the casino every day, and then he can't make ends meet, so he puts his wife to work in the nightlife.

He married her because he was told that he would make her happy, which was a big mistake.

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