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• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 10:39
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#24 You don't know how a counselor thinks or approaches things until you meet and talk with them, so your answer of "then don't go" is not on target. As was mentioned earlier, it may take many people until you find a counselor that you are comfortable with. I do not need a counselor anymore. Because there was no improvement. The counselor at the hospital didn't meet my personal needs either with pre-prepared questions. I know some people feel more comfortable by just talking, and those people are expensive and really are like lawyers if they don't have insurance, though I think those with insurance should give it a try.

• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 10:44
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Yes, but you would feel favor or trust if you were actually helped by the opinion. I was just answering your question as an individual. That's just the way it is in some cases. Feel free to do the rest.

• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:01
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I was grateful for the generosity, and that's what happened when I talked about and accepted things. It's not that I am not grateful, it's just that the choice that was recommended to me still casts a shadow over my life decades later. Maybe I made the wrong choice, I called there, in a time when I could not even speak English properly in the US. These people are not professionals. This was at a time when I was in an unfortunate situation in the US with no parents and no relatives. But even doctors, lawyers, etc. are professionals and make mistakes, and lawyers include cases where mistakes are made on purpose. I only posted this in the hope that there will be fewer life-changing events, even if they are not perfect, because I believe that there are drugs and surgeries that are wrong and change people's lives.

• 現実は
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:03
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People who always complain and whine. People who blame others for everything. These people are not going to be happy for the rest of their lives. In fact, if you have this kind of negative energy, people around you will leave in droves. Well, you may not even realize it.

• 悩まない性格に改革
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:06
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#30 Japanese descent

I certainly don't like the act of amateurs counseling people easily, but I think it is too harsh an opinion to hold the counselor responsible for your life.

I am sure you had an unpleasant experience in counseling, but it is only advice and the decision is yours to make. Not only counselors, but people and encounters can have a big impact on your life. But you are the one who chooses the people you meet. If your life is not going well, it is because of your own judgments, decisions, and actions. By shifting the blame to others, you are creating more problems.

Failures and unpleasant experiences are never wasted in a long life. It is easy to criticize others. However, I believe that by allowing others to make mistakes and failures, we give ourselves more room to make choices.

• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:07
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Most people who volunteer for free are doing it for themselves, not to help others. In some cases, it is helping others. I think there are many different personal reasons to contribute to society. I think volunteering is necessary. Because being a counselor is not like getting food from a food bank.

• w
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:14
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Cramer W.

• おい
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:17
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＞ Most people who volunteer for free are doing it for themselves, not to help others.

Assumptions, assumptions, delusions.

• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:19
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It's not that it's offensive, it's that you made a mistake by respecting their opinion and going in that direction. You can take your parents' opinion and end up in the wrong life. So, if you don't know right from left in America, listen to the opinions of various people. I am telling you this because I stubbornly followed their opinions and that's how it turned out. I think the person who gave me the advice also did so because he thought it was the right thing to do, without any other intention. It just seemed quite forceful.
Since I think you guys have the best opinion. I thought it would be nice to be around respectful people who are not perfect, who don't bother you one way or the other, and who can be considerate of each other. Well, as with friendships, it is probably easier for people to take advantage of others. You should use free services if you can appreciate them.

• 悩まない性格に改革
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:20
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Most people who volunteer for free are doing it for themselves, not to help others.

You have a point. I used to know someone who counseled people and I actually didn't ask him to start counseling, he counseled me on his own even though we were just making small talk.

As we were talking, I felt that the person was actually mentally ill. People who are afflicted at that time start to deliberately put things on the agenda that they shouldn't be afflicted with, and start to seek this and that.

I am the kind of person who gives up immediately on things that are out of my control, so I could not understand why she was complicating matters so much, but she was very lively as she was searching and talking about this and that for me.

• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:22
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I feel that the moment a person who is volunteering thinks they are doing it for others, they are no longer volunteering. I think it is difficult for counselors.

• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 11:29
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These were some of the comments.
Volunteering helps those who are less fortunate in some way, and through that I feel that there is something self-developing about it. Later, some people do it for the honor. Others like to tell people off or teach them.
These days, the motives are too impure, such as to meet new friends or to observe people in their spare time. Of course, I don't specify such things in the question section, but I write that it is for helping people. Sorry for being cynical, but this is part of the reality.

• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 13:37
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That's about the only volunteer work I do, I give food to food banks and churches. I am not qualified to be a counselor, and I am not saying that I am great because I am qualified. I don't want to be a volunteer counselor for the above reasons.
I'm just writing about my own experience and it's an opinion, the same as that critique of where the food is good, bad, or popular
. People like you who want to talk and respect volunteer counselors should just go. Volunteering is the result of doing it for yourself and contributing to others through the action.
I don't do it just for others. Infectious, you are the asshole. I don't want to deal with you, so please have your fool fool fool battle with someone at that level.

• ウケる
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 13:58
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Apparently there are customers who get upset when they don't like the fortune teller's answers, and apparently the person above is on a par with them.

• 謝罪が必要
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 17:23
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Just because you received counseling a long time ago and were offended by an answer you didn't like, it is wrong to still hold onto it
and dic the counseling at Little Tokyo Service Center, which is still active and free of charge all the time.

• 日系
• 2021/01/27 (Wed) 18:19
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Are they volunteer counselors ？ I volunteer, and if they say things like crappy food, bad volunteer lady feeling, etc., I don't call them stupid or abusive. I think they should fix what is wrong and if it needs to be improved, they should do so. You are off on that a lot, like apologizing for it. Some stores turn complaints into positives, though. I was just giving my opinion. You like to stir things up. Do you all enjoy making claims to that extent ？
If you think it's so good, go ahead and use it. The statement was a little different, and I think it depends on the person, it has changed a lot, compared to back then. If you apologize. I don't deserve to be told that much. It would be terrible if someone like you counseled me.

• もしかしてだけど〜♪
• 2021/01/28 (Thu) 08:38
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The guy at the lockdown who told the restaurant business to give out free lunches to the elderly ？ w

• 反省
• 2021/01/29 (Fri) 08:01
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The fact that so many responses have been erased shows that there are many rotten people in this exchange square who are low-brained and attack others absurdly, make fun of them, and eventually demand apologies through their own opinions.
It is now on the information square of the Japanese-affiliated counseling center. If you need help, just give them a call. They are willing to talk to you about anything. You can also tell them that you are demanding an apology.

You are so low-brow and embarrassing that you use a fortune teller as an analogy for free counseling.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2021/01/29 (Fri) 09:21
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＃ I'm demanding an apology, but you could talk to them. First they will ask you a question about your apology request.

• だから
• 2021/01/29 (Fri) 16:35
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Please go on and on and state the facts of the situation down the road and get heard. #50 Mr.