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Those who are caring for a parent.

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#1
  • G
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  • 2023/01/28 02:48

Please let me know your opinion.
I lived in the U.S. for 10 years, but my mother asked me to come back to Japan because she was worried about being alone in her old age.
I was single in the U.S. but worked hard.

I was taking care of my mother while working full time back in Japan, but my health started to deteriorate and I realized that I could not continue to work
at the same time, so I quit the company. I was working happily in my new position and was receiving a monthly salary of 250,000 take-home pay.

I looked for a part time job this time, but it is only 100,000 a month since I work 3 times a week.
I am not married so I have to take care of myself in the future and when I was getting 250,000 I was saving 100,000
a month.

I am quitting my job to take care of my parents, so I would like to receive the amount I would receive if I worked 250,000 - 100,000 a month ＝ 150,000 a month from my mother for expenses
but she does not understand. Why do I have to pay
when I don't pay rent and I even pay for her meals ？
? She doesn't think about my life after my mother dies. What will she want me to do
when I'm 60 years old, taking care of her in her current condition?

My mother received an inheritance from my father and has money to spare. But she doesn't want to go into a nursing home.
Is my claim strange ？?

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#42
  • 大袈裟
  • 2023/02/02 (Thu) 21:26
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We're all going to die someday.

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#43
  • dobon
  • 2023/02/03 (Fri) 00:30
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Choumon no yo ！

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#44
  • はい？
  • 2023/02/03 (Fri) 01:50
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#43 To each his own. Then don't read it.

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#45
  • 義理
  • 2023/02/03 (Fri) 06:31
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People who write long sentences want to teach and want to be good
In the end, the love between parents and children ends up being about money
How much you get, so you don't care; how much you get, so you care.

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#46
  • まぁまぁ
  • 2023/02/03 (Fri) 12:42
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I'm not trying to be a long-winded person, since I'm spending my time on this. There are good and bad cases for both wanting to tell me and wanting to tell me. It's a good way to kill time if you're not busy, and if you don't like it, just scroll down a bit. I don't think long sentences of slander are a good thing, though.

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