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Nikkei Kindergarten

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#1
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  • 2021/07/23 13:02

We are senior moms and dads and look forward to your kind-hearted comments.

My daughter started summer school at Nikkei this summer.
She is 3 years old and this is her first time in kindergarten and she is very naughty, so on the first day she had to leave the classroom.
She looked very stressed about it and the teacher nailed me and told me to be sure to tell her at home. I know it was hard, but it was said in the same way as the first and second days. \I know she is tired and I know she is bothering my daughter 😞
but I am depressed because I wonder if this teacher will be okay and I am worried about sending my daughter there in the future.
I don't think she is a bad teacher, but when I go to pick her up, all she says is negative things again, that she is bothering my daughter, and that she is trying her best to teach her things at home, but it's not going well.
My father speaks English at home, so I usually do my best to teach her Japanese, but she still seems to have more difficulty communicating with me than with other children who speak only one language.

The teacher seems mature and very kind, but she says, "It was like this, so let's work together to get used to it while getting support at home again!" I am worried because it is not a positive feeling like that.
I felt so much annoyance that I couldn't stop crying after returning home. I'm worried about my daughter, who is just a rambunctious little thing, going to kindergarten, and I'm skeptical about leaving it in the hands of the teachers.
I heard that this kindergarten has had many problems, but my friends' children go there, and it didn't seem so bad when we visited, so it's even worse.
I know this sounds like I'm still a newbie, but have any of you had this experience?

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#21

It is the fault of the childcare provider that the child leaves the classroom. That's no excuse for a child being active or anything like that. For 3 year olds, depending on the number of children, there will be one or two assistant teachers in addition to the homeroom teacher. I was not paying attention to the whole classroom. I was not paying attention to the whole classroom.
How can you say with such bravado that your child is doing this to you … and that you are in over your head?
Even when it comes to lunchboxes, it is the first time for a child to live in a group, and nursery school teachers know that sometimes children mess with other children's lunchboxes, but it is their job to handle it and provide guidance.
And if the child has only been going to the school for a short period of time, it is even worse.
It's not the child's fault. It's just that the childcare workers who don't have a good grasp of the child and can't handle the child are inexperienced.
Childcare workers are supposed to watch the children, deal with the parents, and cooperate with the parents …. It's no good if they have an attitude.

One way is to see how it goes until they get used to it, or talk to the director.

Children are a handful. It's rare to find a child who is good from the beginning, who can do everything and listen to you.
They learn and grow with the help of various people.

I am really sorry for your loss.

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#23
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  • 2021/07/23 (Fri) 23:48
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#19 3 year old


You're not the only one in that class. The other kids are fine and this is the result
I bet the other preschoolers don't want to leave the classroom ？ I bet this kid doesn't listen to what you say ？ I bet he doesn't listen. That's why the teachers can't handle it
I'm sure the parents themselves can think of something.

＃ There are a lot of monsters who agree with 1!

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#24
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  • 2021/07/24 (Sat) 01:16
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↑
shut up if you've never raised a child ！ lol

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#27
  • 子持ちママ
  • 2021/07/24 (Sat) 09:43
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In some places, they put children in the closet when they cry, or pinch the soles of their feet when they take off their shoes or socks
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#28
  • 天才と障害は紙一重
  • 2021/07/24 (Sat) 09:52
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I remember a long time ago, there was a parent who was upset that the clerk had to kick out a kid who started running around in a bookstore
He said it was normal for kids to run around whether in a restaurant or a bookstore
I guess the parents are the problem, not the kids.

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