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#1
  • みさき
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  • 2022/12/07 18:45

I wonder if anyone else has the same problem... I thought I would start a topic.

I have been coming to the US for about 20 years.
I did not come here because I wanted to, but because of my partner's situation.
Everyone has different reasons for coming to the U.S., and they may have different reasons, such as study, work, pursuing a dream, etc.
I think it is more like a dream. I didn't come to the U.S. with a positive attitude, and I still suffer from stress and anxiety and think about Japan.
Since I have spent every day in such a negative way, my English has not improved because I keep running away from it, and I continue to have a strange feeling of discomfort, as if I have missed the opportunity to get used to a very normal daily life.

Is there anyone else in my situation?

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#37
  • なんなん
  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 14:29
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The female brain needs empathy more than anything else. They don't expect you to solve their problems like the male brain does.

That's right, Topix.

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#38
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  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 14:30
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My posts have not been uploaded.
My apologies to those who responded.

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#39
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  • 2022/12/09 (Fri) 17:03
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There are a lot of things that a married couple can do.
They play the victim, tell you to get a divorce,
meddle in their problems, and give you all kinds of advice.
And then, when you get back together, they will make you look bad when you give them advice, like that person said that. You can do whatever you want with your life.

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#41
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  • 2022/12/10 (Sat) 13:59
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It's probably because people who are full-time housewives and have a lot of free time complain a lot, and have a lot of time to think about things. It's also the same with getting together in the neighborhood and gossiping about people. There are a lot of those in Japan too.
If you can't afford to have a hobby, work and be independent, and use the money for your hobby. It doesn't matter if you are in the Japanese-American society or the American society. Do something you love to do that you can devote yourself to ！.

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#42
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  • 2022/12/10 (Sat) 14:19
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I married a U.S. military man who came to Japan, and when my husband moved, I had no choice but to move to Guam, Hawaii, and San Diego
That's the pattern, isn't it?

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