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It's so sad that he doesn't have any friends ？.

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#1
  • ぼっち
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  • 2023/11/14 22:52

What is a friend ？ I'm here ？.

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#7
  • 悟り
  • 2023/11/17 (Fri) 08:51
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As I get older, I realize that people who don't have many friends or acquaintances are small in size. As I get older, I realize how many people cut themselves off from others because of profit-loss considerations or differences in values. People who don't have many friends are often jealous, overly profit-motivated, and self-centered. The person blames the other person for everything, but the person with few friends has strong habits, wants to judge and take advantage of the other person, and gives advice from above. If he/she is more comfortable with that, it's fine. I wouldn't want to get too close to him.

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#8
  • Ms ミドル
  • 2023/11/17 (Fri) 09:08
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Not all people like to be in a group with others.
Some people find stress relief by having time to themselves, others find it refreshing to get together with others, and there are all kinds of people because we are all human.

It is tempting to compare yourself with those around you, but I think it is better to follow the way you feel comfortable in life.

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#9
  • ぼっち
  • 2023/11/17 (Fri) 12:54
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I see. So that's how they see you if you don't have many friends. I don't think it's wrong to say that you are peculiar, but I think that since you don't have any friends to begin with, you don't have anyone to give advice to.

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#9
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2023/11/17 (Fri) 13:15
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I don't think that people who don't have many friends and acquaintances mean that they are small vessels.

I feel safer with fewer friends and acquaintances because I can cherish them and keep them for a long time.

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#11
  • Ms.middle
  • 2023/11/17 (Fri) 14:45
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People like 7 are the ones I don't want to hang out with because of their quirks. Some people like to crowd, some don't. You should live your life the way you are comfortable living.
First of all, take care of your family, and friends and acquaintances will come in time if you have a chance to meet them.

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