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Those who are caring for a parent.

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#1
  • G
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  • 2023/01/28 02:48

Please let me know your opinion.
I lived in the U.S. for 10 years, but my mother asked me to come back to Japan because she was worried about being alone in her old age.
I was single in the U.S. but worked hard.

I was taking care of my mother while working full time back in Japan, but my health started to deteriorate and I realized that I could not continue to work
at the same time, so I quit the company. I was working happily in my new position and was receiving a monthly salary of 250,000 take-home pay.

I looked for a part time job this time, but it is only 100,000 a month since I work 3 times a week.
I am not married so I have to take care of myself in the future and when I was getting 250,000 I was saving 100,000
a month.

I am quitting my job to take care of my parents, so I would like to receive the amount I would receive if I worked 250,000 - 100,000 a month ＝ 150,000 a month from my mother for expenses
but she does not understand. Why do I have to pay
when I don't pay rent and I even pay for her meals ？
? She doesn't think about my life after my mother dies. What will she want me to do
when I'm 60 years old, taking care of her in her current condition?

My mother received an inheritance from my father and has money to spare. But she doesn't want to go into a nursing home.
Is my claim strange ？?

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#17
  • 優先
  • 2023/01/28 (Sat) 21:22
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Mr. G, you are right. You should talk to your mother and ask her to give you the house or 150,000. If your mother doesn't give it some thought, she might ask for half of the money now that her sister has passed away.

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#18
  • 恩返し
  • 2023/01/28 (Sat) 21:30
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How many years, 20 years ？ ？ have you lived on your parents' money ？ before you entered the workforce?

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#19
  • 優先
  • 2023/01/28 (Sat) 23:03
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You talk so highly of yourself, but what are you doing ？
If you can't get a job because of nursing care, you will be lost in a rage if you don't have enough money to finish caring for them. Why do you live ？ welfare ？ parents should think about not bothering their children until the end. You can give them assets if they take care of you.
Mr. G says that his parents gave him a gift before his death, so his mother thinks it's a good idea ？ too.

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#20
  • みーちゃん
  • 2023/01/29 (Sun) 03:17
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> My mother received her inheritance from my father and has plenty of money. But she doesn't want to go into a nursing home.

In the end, I think ↑ is all that matters.
If your mother can afford it, have her go into a nursing home. If she is that dissatisfied, she can refuse care.

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#21
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2023/01/29 (Sun) 07:12
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My mother received her inheritance from my father and has plenty of money, so she should hire a helper.

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