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Unhappy children who inherited only the shortcomings of their parents.
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- カレー
- 2023/08/06 02:18
I wanted to post this because I wanted to ask you all to listen to the hard feelings I have been having for many years.
I would be happy to hear from anyone who has suffered through a similar situation as I have, and how they are trying to overcome it.
I am now in my 40's and worked for many years on both marriage and job hunting to move to LA, but ultimately my wish was not granted and I recently returned home.
I believe that the main reason why my life is not going well despite my best efforts is because
I inherited my mother's bad looks, which is rare in history, and my father's temperamental personality.
Being a woman and having poor looks is a fatal disadvantage.Her mother, who is in her 70s, is not good-looking, but she graduated from a top school and a first-class national university, is very intelligent, intellectually curious, and has a good way of doing everything, and has many friends with a likable personality. After giving birth, she became a housewife, but during her working years, she earned more money than her father. Because of this, she married her father, who is relatively wealthy, well-educated, and relatively good-looking. On the other hand, my father was smart and chose women based on the wavelength of conversation and their personalities, so he did not particularly care about their looks, but he is selfish, short-tempered, and quick-tempered. I am not as well-educated as my mother, and I don't feel the same yearning for a full-time housewife like my mother, and I don't like children either, so I longed for a single life in LA where I could be carefree. Since I was not good enough to get permanent residency on my own and did not have the good looks to get a man to marry me and support my permanent residency, I had to return home.
After returning home, I have found a full-time job, but it is almost a black company and does not seem to last.
I regret that I should have studied for more qualifications when I was young so that I could get a solid job.I am currently working on my studies, which I was not able to do when I was younger, and I am angry at my parents for not communicating the importance of getting a solid job when I was younger. Part of it is that my parents' generation did not place as much importance on women's financial independence, but all of their wishful thinking about me is off.
My appearance is not at a level that can be managed with petite plastic surgery.
Those who are not in my situation will not understand my situation.
I apologize for the length of this article, but I would be happy to hear from anyone who has overcome similar circumstances.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #50
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I will be direct.
You are a refractive, helpless person.If your parents are alive, it is their fault; if they are dead, it is society's fault. There are many people like you in the world. I am one of them. I am a man, but I have a friend who looks like you.
I am a man, but I have a friend who looks like you.Everyone sees her as an animalistic type. Her face is a bulldog face that I wish was a panda. Her body shape is short and fat. I'm sure she did a whole lot of makeup and a whole lot of fashion. In the end, none of it suited her. Now it's plain. It's strange, but I'm popular with both men and women. I'm like a sister to women and charming to men.
She brightens up everyone around her and is not sarcastic.
Because she is such a person, she is also married to a proper man.
If you are only concerned about your appearance, borrow money from your parents and go to Korea
How about plastic surgery ? I think it will change you to a certain extent.
For body shape, go to Lizap.
Have you made any effort ?
What is missing is not your looks, but fixing your ugly personality.
Some people on this forum have given you appropriate advice, but did you reply properly ?
That is what you are missing.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #55
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2023/08/09 (Wed) 14:30
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This place makes you feel like you're back home in Japan.
Leisure near is better than leisure far.
Let's go back to that hometown... Let's go back...
Let's write off the shame of travelThis text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #60
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Mr. Curry
Mother's education Kyoto University graduate
Father's education Waseda University graduate
Curry education Gakushuin graduate
Curry appearance Sae Miyagawa
Specifically, is this what you mean?
If you are fluent in English, highly educated, and still in your 40s, you should be able to find a partner. If you are in your 50s and 60s, this is serious.
You should not aim too high and lower your partner's specifications while you are still in your 40s.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #61
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- 昭和のおとっつぁん
- 2023/08/10 (Thu) 07:12
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Don't look for alas of others
Tell them how they can eliminate trauma in the future.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
- #62
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- Tyo
- 2023/08/10 (Thu) 12:32
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You're the one who started it.This text has been translated by auto-translation. There may be a slight difference between the original text and the translation. (Original Language: 日本語)
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