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• みっちゃん
• 2022/07/27 (Wed) 20:56
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Hello.
What do you do when you don't have any instructions or nothing to do? I'm in terrible trouble...

• みっちゃん
• 2022/07/27 (Wed) 22:50
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You don't have to clean the room itself, and you don't have to touch the refrigerator, especially since you share it with your family. \c(On the other hand, if you do too many things, it will be a nuisance. \v063> There are often situations where
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I am sorry, but I asked for your advice and it was not helpful at all.
I don't know if #3 is an experienced care giver, but it may be an occasional care giver who can't use respectful language.

• Saki
• 2022/07/27 (Wed) 23:31
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>Micchan
Some clients say, "Please just sit back, and only ask me when you need me." When I have been taking care of a client for more than 10 hours and have done all I can do, I feel like I am kind of slacking off and I feel uncomfortable and restless. I too would like to hear how others do it. Sometimes there are care givers who surprise me, but no, I don't think you have experience with care givers. Since your job is to deal with people in the real world, it is best to ignore unnecessary responses because it is exhausting to deal with even aggressive people on the internet.

• みっちゃん
• 2022/07/28 (Thu) 19:39
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I am glad that there are people who understand. If the cleaning ≪(cleaning area∩), laundry, etc. is divided into small sections for each day of the week, it is not possible to do other things even if you wanted to.
It may take up other care givers' work, and if the family is told that this will be assigned tomorrow, they cannot force you to do it.
As Saki said, if you work long hours, you will run out of things to do early, which is a real problem.

• クリスマスは休みます
• 2022/07/29 (Fri) 11:58
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I was also asked by a friend of mine at one point to care for an elderly person for a short period of time.
If I was told I didn't have to do anything, I didn't hesitate to sit down and read a book.
If I didn't hate reading, I could put one paperback book in my bag ？.

• みっちゃん
• 2022/07/29 (Fri) 12:32
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Thanks for the advice. Maybe I'm just overly concerned about it. There are times when I just sit and wonder if this is ok. I will try not to be overly reserved.

• みほこりん
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• 2022/07/30 (Sat) 12:28
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Why are the people in the offices of the temp agencies specializing in caregiving so lax?
I had never heard good things about them, but when I registered with several places to try them out first, they really were.
They look good at first, and then they start to talk you into more and more things.
Especially the manager-like person at *****, I don't know how he is doing in this position.
I often hear from dispatched staff about problems and inability of people in the office to do their jobs.
I feel sorry for the dispatched staff, including myself, because I feel they are used in a good way. Crying
I have a lot of mistrust.
It was so bad that I decided to go back to my regular job, but it was a good experience.

If people in the office see this topic, I hope they think about what they are saying and doing and how they are treating the field staff.
Don't be so careless about how you treat your temporary staff because they don't see each other.
You should do your job with a sense of urgency, as if your name might be made public.
There are rumors that that temp agency is no good, that the people in that office are no good, and people are actually leaving.
Even just the salaries are low and there is a shortage of people, so don't you have to use your head to get the right people? I'm sorry, all I can do is complain.

• 三蔵奉仕
• 2022/07/30 (Sat) 13:29
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If you don't have a volunteer spirit, you shouldn't do care work.
It is a tough job to make a decent living unless you are a manager.

• 無名
• 2022/07/30 (Sat) 13:56
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I think that many people who have a bit of a volunteer spirit will be assigned to careers in the first place.
People who don't want to take care of others would not choose a care work.
Of course, there may be exceptions, such as those who have no other job or naively start because it seems easy.

• 根有草のおとっつぁん
• 2022/07/30 (Sat) 14:41
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It doesn't hurt the temp agencies to write here.
It's your self-indulgence.
If you are going to quit anyway, why don't you just complain directly to them?

• メール
• 2022/07/30 (Sat) 16:35
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Nothing I say resonates with the caregiver dispatchers I know.
They don't apologize when you point out their mistakes, well, even if they do apologize, it's only on the surface, and they keep making simple mistakes over and over again, which is a pain in the ass for the people being cared for and the people being dispatched. I've experienced this to my heart's content.

• 看護師
• 2022/07/31 (Sun) 08:10
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When I was working for an agency, I was assigned a simple client for a qualified nurse and a complicated one for a non-qualified nurse. I was cleaning, washing the simple toilets, and keeping things clean, while the qualified person was always chatting with the client, never cleaning, and the range was dirty. It's a wonder I work there even though I have a nursing license.
Maybe she's not an RN and they still won't hire her.

• old
• 2022/07/31 (Sun) 09:50
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RNs would do a better job; LVNs would care.
The worst are CNAs.

• みーな
• 2022/07/31 (Sun) 19:54
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The more qualified and experienced you are, the more brazen and uncooperative you will tend to become.
When multiple people take care of one CLIENT, one care giver will impose his/her own rules on the other care givers by acting like a boss.
When multiple people take care of a client, one care giver takes care of the client for a long time and the other care givers are swamped by that person and don't last long, so they switch places. As others have responded, the temp agency office can be just about amazing. There are definitely quite a few people who feel that the office doesn't do their job well and uses the care givers for good.

• かな
• 2022/08/01 (Mon) 15:16
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How should we deal with elderly people who are unable to eat? They have no desire at all to eat and are having a hard time.
As a postscript, he will only eat a bite or two, even if it is his favorite food, and not because the food I make is not good.
I am very concerned because I cannot even finish something like Ensure.

• Nyantaro
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• 2022/08/01 (Mon) 21:14
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#33
I'm sorry you are worried. I'm sure you've already tried many things,
but I'm sure you'll take the advice of your family and your doctor and try to increase the number of portions, add more colors,
make jellies, purees, and whatever else you can think of that you want to eat.
And, there are many times when it doesn't work, even if you try to use different dishes, eat together, and so on, because you can't force them to go ahead
and it seems that even we become anorexic, you know...

Bad teeth, dentures that don't fit, difficulty swallowing, any chronic illness, likes and dislikes, no longer willing to do so,
If the weight is too low, you can report it to your family or doctor ？
. （ If you are working through an agent, I think you need to report this to the company. ）

I am grateful that there are people like Kana
who take good care of their clients. Please do your best so that your mind and body will not be broken.

• あるある
• 2022/08/01 (Mon) 21:31
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I also had someone who thought he was the boss. I don't know him, but he has all sorts of orders in his notebook. He even controls how the refrigerator is filled.

I also devised this and that to serve those with small appetites. It was more meaningful to think about the client than the internal mess and the disputes among care givers.
But it was depressing, so I quit. The hourly rate was cheap for the work, and there was no compensation or benefits. The manager was very amiable, but a harsh person. The care givers are just used like pawns for good.

• かな
• 2022/08/01 (Mon) 22:03
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Nyantaro

Thanks for the advice.

I tried a lot, but she still wouldn't eat it...
She is very old and lives alone, and her relatives are far away and rarely visit her.
Perhaps due to the environment or her age, she has no desire for food or anything else, and it pains me every time I visit her.

We have reported this to the agent, but he has simply told us that she should be able to eat.
I hear that other care givers are also having a hard time and it breaks my heart.
I am beginning to think that there are other care givers who can take care of her better than I can, and recently I am beginning to think about getting out of this cliant's care.

I was really pleased with the advice and words from Nyantaro. Anyway, I will try my best this week first.

• かな
• 2022/08/01 (Mon) 22:22
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Aaru-san

I understand what you are saying.
I feel similarly and wish I could focus only on CLIANT. If the environment surrounding care givers is not good, they will leave more and more. There always seems to be a shortage of staff, but I always wonder if it is the temp agency's job to figure out why this is happening and what can be done to prevent it from happening.

• 驚き
• 2022/08/02 (Tue) 15:17
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There is a lot going on when it comes to caregivers.
I hope that at least the people in the office don't stress the person being sent. A friend of mine and I were interested in a caregiver position through an agency, but we both stopped sending resumes.

• M.T.
• 2022/08/03 (Wed) 23:12
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We are a caregiver staffing agency, but they are either fighting for care givers or saying bad things about our competition. I think if you don't try to kick them down the road to get care givers and make it a safe environment to work in, they will continue to do so on their own. But maybe you are right about being poked in the wrong places.

• ケアギバー子
• 2022/08/04 (Thu) 19:07
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They don't treat care givers properly, don't pay them well and don't have insurance, even though it seems difficult to match them with days and hours and they can't get a shift easily.
This is going to drive people away and cause a shortage.
Exactly, a negative spiral.

• ケアギバー子
• 2022/08/04 (Thu) 19:38
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My acquaintance said it was because she was tired of working in a regular corporate job and wanted a job where she could take care of someone else.
But in the end, it seems that taking care of people is fun and nice, but there is a lot of stress outside of taking care of them.
I also have the interest and the time, but I lost my motivation.
If you're like me, you have a lot of time on your hands, or maybe a side job? Maybe people who want to, or want to take care of things. I think someone with a strong volunteer spirit would probably be a good fit and would want to choose a caregiver position.

• 職
• 2022/08/04 (Thu) 19:53
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It would be nice if the caregiver has a full time job or some other benet, but it's tough if you're not compensated on an hourly basis. It's all physical labor, like changing diapers. The company will screen clients because qualified people are favored by the company, the long-timers are bossy, and the rest get little or no raises, so you have to favor yourself in that way. In the end, people who are not capable of doing anything else rather than wanting to serve others end up staying long enough to find new recruits and get rid of their exasperation. In fact, I don't think qualified people who want to serve others would work for a Japanese agent.

• にちか
• 2022/08/04 (Thu) 22:31
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Surprisingly, it wasn't physical labor.
As someone wrote earlier, I sat down when there was nothing I could do to help. Changing diapers doesn't take much strength. I liked taking care of them too, but I still didn't like the other messes.

• 職
• 2022/08/05 (Fri) 00:00
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I see ？ there is a difference between those who do nothing and those who do a lot. I was doing laundry, vacuuming, cooking, polishing the microwave, etc. because no one else was doing it. We were a couple. But the person who came later who had a nursing license talked with the husband all the time and made the house dirty, but I think they relied on me because I had a nursing license. The client was the wife, though.
So I stopped working for the same client
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On the other hand, there was a care giver who took care of a client with a bad leg by giving her exercises to prevent her leg from weakening. Since no one is watching, there is not a proper standard. The rest is whether the client likes it or not. But on the other hand, I refused to work with clients who needed diaper changes and men, but they still insisted, saying it was easy. But in the end, it was a lot of work.

• にちか
• 2022/08/05 (Fri) 01:05
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I did laundry, cooking, cleaning, bathing, exercising, and other things as normal.
But I didn't do the family stuff, just the clients, so it wasn't a hard amount to do at all, and I had plenty of time to do it, and I felt like I had a lot of free time.
Changing diapers was easy, and we also accepted male clients. I liked taking care of people who used wheelchairs, etc. more than those who had no physical disabilities, and I was happy to be helpful. I am sure it was a good fit, and maybe it was a good fit for someone like me.

• 山の妖精
• 2022/08/05 (Fri) 17:30
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No matter what profession you are in, even if you are doing the same job, there are those who can handle it well and those who can't, those who choose the job description and those who don't, and those who can move flexibly and those who can't. In the case of dispatched or home-visit caregivers, there is no supervisor, and the work is handled immediately on site, so it is likely that differences in individual abilities will emerge.

• 適任
• 2022/08/05 (Fri) 19:05
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I think people like Nichika are suited for the nursing profession.
Good luck. Agents are reassured to have someone like you ！ too.

• 山の妖精
• 2022/08/05 (Fri) 23:27
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I also feel that people like you, Nichika-san, are suited not only for nursing jobs, but also for jobs that involve taking care of people, such as child care workers. However, please be careful, because I think such people are more likely to be liked and used in a good way by temporary staffing agencies, for better or worse.

• いぬちゃん
• 2022/08/07 (Sun) 00:17
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People who don't know the field do the scheduling and support, which is terrible, terrible... but on the other hand, I feel like it can't be helped because they don't know. But on the other hand, I feel like it can't be helped because they don't know. Care givers are unusually detailed people who are detailed, and those who are split between the two do the bare minimum. I think it's best to keep the detailed people to the time they take care of themselves and not be too detailed about other care givers. Each of us has a different way of thinking and doing things, so it's natural that we don't always get what we want.

I heard one thing I don't like from a care giver today.
In my opinion, it was something that seemed to go both ways.

• Mei子
• 2022/08/07 (Sun) 03:26
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Question.
There is a section of care that includes talking to the patient, but to be honest, it is painful.
I can handle most of the care except for talking to them without any problems.
Since they are not my family or friends, I don't let them go every day, we don't have anything in common, and I don't know what to do ......
I am a caregiver. Am I a disqualified care giver?
Should I quit?

• いぬちゃん
• 2022/08/07 (Sun) 18:22
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It's hard if there is a section in your care called "talking to" and you are starting to have difficulty with that.
I don't think you need to think too much about it.
There are other things that are important and should be prioritized.
You can think of it as
a person to talk to = filling in a gap
and if you don't have anything to talk about, then it's not a problem. If we don't have anything to say, there is a good chance that they don't have anything to say either.

• ちさりん
• 2022/08/07 (Sun) 18:51
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My name is Chisarin, and I am a care giver dispatched by an agent.
I have taken care of many different clients.
Most of them were good clients and kind families.
I am still working with some clients, but after much consideration, I have decided to leave the caregiver profession.
As several people have written, the main reason is that I have accumulated a lot of stress and disagreements outside of caring for them.
Agents, please do better.
I know before I started working there that the pay is low and there is no insurance (or a significant co-pay).
Still, I wanted to be a care giver, so I took the plunge, quit my job, and jumped in, believing in what the agent said.
The salary was almost half of my previous job, and I still became a care giver, but I witnessed the poor quality of the agents many times.
I ended up going back to my former industry, but I really wanted to continue as a care giver.

• サマー
• 2022/08/10 (Wed) 02:40
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It seems that care givers have something to say to each other, too. I think people with kind hearts and a hospitality spirit are suited to be care givers, but such people are more likely to be unreasonable by bureaucrats and weirdly detailed people. It is sad that people who are supposed to be needed are in a difficult working environment.

• ちかみち
• 2022/08/10 (Wed) 22:28
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They only assign me long-distance projects.
I have told them that the distance is this far, but they keep asking.

• 人手不足
• 2022/08/11 (Thu) 15:06
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I guess that's why they are short on staff. I started out with a gentle heart, but quit because I felt depressed by the internal situation, the placement, and the unreasonableness of long-time people. I guess the inner workings of caregivers must be pretty muddy. The bureaucrats are very powerful. it was in the article about the food tester who works at the N store and once blamed someone for a theft.

• ぷんぷん
• 2022/08/11 (Thu) 23:12
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I have been accused by the bureau of being a framer.
She accused me of doing certain things, and I felt bad because even though I told her it wasn't me, she seemed suspicious. In the end, the bureau did it and I just forgot what I had done.
She didn't apologize and I felt very uncomfortable.

• 経験者
• 2022/08/12 (Fri) 18:33
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Let me say a few words. Caregiving is hard work, whether it is work or not. Even caring for a family member tends to make us feel lonely and alone. I think it is very good that you can vent your complaints and worries in a place like this. I think it is good to have a place to vent because you are doing your best to take care of your family members. There was a post, which seems to have been deleted, that said people feel sorry for those who are cared for by complainers. Please do not ever, ever, ever say such things to the people you care for. These people will drive the caregivers away.

• あんた
• 2022/08/12 (Fri) 21:44
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？
It's normal for old people to be bitchy and selfish, they're old people
If you don't understand that and can't let it go and bitch about it, you shouldn't be in care work
You're not cut out to be a caregiver
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I also complain about the temp agencies, but only if it's close by ？ ？ You're the one who signed up for the job ？
You're the one who offered me the job ？ How high up do you think you are ？?

• ちかみち
• 2022/08/13 (Sat) 01:05
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This is why I don't like know-it-alls.
Did you read most of the posts?
No one wrote anything about being selfish or complaining about old people, on the contrary, they wrote that there are many good people.
All I see is complaining about the temp agency and complaining about the bureaucrats.

I say if you don't have a nearby project, don't dump it.
I've told them that I don't expect them to give me a lot of work and that I'll do it if it's close by because I have time.
Why do I have to go so far away when I'm in such a situation?

If you're going to say that, I assume you can make the 2-3 hour drive to work?

• ジャスミン
• 2022/08/13 (Sat) 15:40
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Both the caregiver and the recipient are under stress, and it is difficult to achieve perfection, but I feel that this is inevitable.
I know there are difficulties for the agents who act as bridges, but if there are too many human errors or mindless words, the caregiver bridge will collapse and people will not be able to come and go.
If we can fix that, I think there will be more care givers who will cooperate.
I have been the same way, and I used to change my personal duties to accommodate urgent work requests, but I have stopped doing that. Once the environment improves, I will be willing to accommodate urgent requests, etc. again. In the end, it is the clients and their families who ultimately suffer, so I have a strong desire to be helpful.

• 時給
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 00:25
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I've been advised on the information board that $ 100 for 2 hours is impossible. Is that what an agent gets paid ？ and if it's 12 hours $ how do you calculate 1200 ？ 12 hours $ 1200, 10 days 12000, 30 days $ 36,000 ？
you are writing because you want that job? I guess ？
It may not be that good a job, but it is attractive to those who have no job and no home. I guess that's how I feel about helping out. You work from 7:00 AM to about 7:00 PM. Maybe longer.

• まりりん
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 01:52
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I, too, read both the recruitment and the alert and had my doubts.
I don't think $ 100 is possible in 2 hours for a regular care giver.
As you said, hourly rate, it could be that they wrote those alerts in an attempt to lower the competition. If that recruitment is true, I think the conditions are not bad. I don't have to worry about rent, and I don't have to pay for food. However, there seem to be some pitfalls and risks, so I wouldn't want to take on a private person to private person.

• 時給
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 11:26
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If you take it on between individuals, especially care givers, there would be a risk because if something goes wrong, you would have to rely on common sense and humanity the rest of the way, especially since workers' compensation and compensation issues are not clear when you get injured, etc., and you don't have workers' compensation on your personal side.
Inexperienced people would also be a risk. There are young people who can't do anything. Well, we won't know until we interview them and ask for details. Someone argued against the information board, didn't they? That's right.

• とっさん
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 11:29
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People above must think care givers and housekeepers are the same
2 hours ＄ If you think 100 is impossible, it's because you are at an unqualified level.

• 🏁から
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 11:42
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Why do you say $ 100 for 2 hours?
Then 12 hours X $ 50 equals $ 600.
Miscalculations are a bit unconvincing.

• 時給
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 11:50
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？ ？
The advertiser is not looking for a qualified caregiver, is he? I don't know how qualified they are, but there are no qualified people who have taken a 10 hour course or so.
Is that a dream amount of money ？
All you have to do is register with a place that pays that much.

• カン違いバカ
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 12:08
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#73

This guy is talking big without knowing what care giver means.
CAREGIVER （ CAREGIVER ） simply means a person who takes care of the sick or elderly, and child caregivers and housekeepers are also great care givers. 2 hours ＄ Not all qualified caregivers who take 100 are care givers.

• 凄い！
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 13:27
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$ If it was 50/hr, Caregiver was a Six figure job too.
This guy went to college and lost it.

• まりりん
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 13:48
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It's extremely normal...
The caregiver temp agencies in the BibiNavi job ads have hourly rates of $ 16- $ 17.
Moreover, the information posted on the information board would not have stated that they were qualified.
Tosan, you are misplaced.

• 時給
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 14:14
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Suz,
who are you going to ？
this, housekeeper and caregiver are originally different levels
learn more.

Everyone knows that.

• この投稿者、頭悪いのか？
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 17:57
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There is still
"Beware of cheap care giver recruitment ads" on the information board,

＞ Only trained and qualified care givers can
do that job.

Enough with the bullshit. Anyone who takes care
of people, including the sick, the elderly, and children, is a care giver. Qualified people are
only part of it.

＞ Care givers can work all day long for
the reason that they are on call for ＄ 12 hours ＄ 100 for 2 hours, so they are on call for 12 hours, so 1200 (24hrsx10 hours)

This is another deceptive calculation. ＄ 100, which is a strange way to calculate （ you're not very smart ）,
when I say 12 hours of detention, I mean whether you work during that time or not
so of course there's a waiting period included.
It's a double-charge scam to charge for 24 hours.

• イライラさせるお局が
• 2022/08/14 (Sun) 20:09
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Because there are bureaucrats who are not very smart like Tin and Tosan, the people who work after them quit soon. If you are not smart enough to push your own logic and work far away. There must be a commuting range. Gasoline is expensive now.

• なご
• 2022/08/15 (Mon) 11:27
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When a client passes away, no matter how much it is your job, do you still get emotional?
I have not experienced such a thing yet, but I feel sad when I think about it.

• 1介護者
• 2022/08/15 (Mon) 12:09
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I heard later that he died only once. was only the client's relatives and close acquaintances, and I felt sorry that people around him were more worried about his estate than about his death, because he was told to get out of the house rather than care for him at the end of his life. But it's not the care giver's business to get involved.
I felt very sorry for the young person who became cognitive, although he did not know it. He didn't know how to eat or bathe anymore, and he couldn't talk.

• なご
• 2022/08/15 (Mon) 12:52
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I still have a lot to think about, even if it is just work.
I am grateful for the opportunity to have been able to take care of you and be involved with you, even if only for a short period of time in the latter half of your life.

• Jin
• 2022/08/15 (Mon) 22:11
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Temp jobs in the caregiving field are really tough.
The jobs are listed as being available in various locations, but that is over-hyped.
It's a true "you can't swing what you don't have up your sleeve," and it's difficult to match caregivers and care receivers. Because of this, many caregivers compromise on something to take care of their loved ones. I am a care giver around here, and it is not uncommon for people to travel to distant locations, and some visit more than one location in a day.
Clients and their families want to be cared for but also want to save money, often making sudden changes or not continuing services for long periods of time.
We also have clients who pass away (= care givers lose their jobs) because of their age.
Also, some temp agencies offer health insurance, but this is quite a pitfall.
Let's say that you are offered insurance on the condition that you work 40 hours per week.
You may be thinking, "Oh, good, I get 40 hours of work." You might think, "Good, I can get 40 hours of work.
But it also means, "You have to work 40 hours a week, no matter how far away you are, no matter what time of day, no matter how bad the conditions are." It can also mean.
Impressively, I think the latter is more common.
Again, "you can't swing a sleeve without sleeves".
Even if they let you buy insurance, the amount you have to pay is very large.
When I think about it in various ways, I feel a strong negative spiral. It really is a difficult job.

• k
• 2022/08/16 (Tue) 10:47
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We were blessed with a good care giver in the end.

My father-in-law was a Rocco sculptor. My father-in-law was a Rocco sculptor and was rejected by a care village that had many Rocco artists. ） However, we changed 3 care givers due to incompatibility. The last care giver was a photographer and had an artistic side, so he understood my father-in-law's ideas and brought him to our home （ It was an hour drive each way, so we visited his home once a week ） We all had lunch together. Then my father-in-law's dementia progressed and he was placed in 24 hour care.......moved to another care center where he passed away a year later. We had a life celebration event for my father-in-law, and of course he invited his care giver to come ！ Even after my father-in-law passed away, the care giver man still stops by whenever he comes to our area.　We are very thankful for my father-in-law's care giver. What made us happier was that the care giver man told us that he had such wonderful memories of his time with my father-in-law ！.

• 汗
• 2022/08/16 (Tue) 11:52
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#98
I am a care giver around here and it is not uncommon for people to travel to far away places, some visiting 2 or more places in a day. I wonder if it would be worth it with a minimum of 4 hours and not spending more than an hour in a distant location and not paying for gasoline for more than 2 hours round trip. There are jobs in the suburbs, if not daily. It depends on where you live. You can't swing a sleeve you don't have, you spend it on basic money. 、、、、、、

• なりこ
• 2022/08/16 (Tue) 11:55
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K
I'm glad to hear that you found a good care giver. That was a real pleasure.
The relationship between the client, family and care giver must have been amazing. I have also met many different clients and families, and I feel that human connections are important and appreciated. Most of the time it was by chance that I was able to take care of them, but I would like to thank for that chance. It was nice to hear from you, K. Thank you for sharing.

• おたまじゃくし
• 2022/08/17 (Wed) 17:47
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Mr. K
what is a loco ？

• ねこ
• 2022/08/17 (Wed) 22:03
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#104
> There are jobs in the suburbs, if not daily. It depends on where you live.

So isn't that the reality and that there are many downsides?

• ちかみち
• 2022/08/18 (Thu) 00:22
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#120 is right, that's what it comes down to.

• チポトレ
• 2022/08/18 (Thu) 16:25
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Wondering why you are so concerned about being a caregiver.
Because I can't do anything else ？.

• ちかみち
• 2022/08/18 (Thu) 17:34
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#122
why don't you read the whole thing from the beginning?
I guess some of you are into caregiving jobs and some of you aren't?
Since this topic is about caregiving jobs, it's only natural that it's all about caregiving.

• 本当に失礼
• 2022/08/18 (Thu) 17:43
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There are those who look down on the work of caregivers.
Chipotle, even if you get old, never ask for help from others, never bother anyone for the rest of your life, live alone and pass away alone.

• 汗
• 2022/08/19 (Fri) 09:17
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#120&121
I don't think you got the point, even though you read it properly.
I got a comment saying to work far away or not to choose a job, and since there are many people who go far away, I just wrote that there are jobs in the suburbs too.
It is up to each individual to decide whether they want to go far away or stay in the suburbs. People shouldn't say anything about it. There are many jobs in the Torrance and Gardena area.

• 汗
• 2022/08/19 (Fri) 09:19
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So isn't that the reality, that there are many downsides?
Whether you take it as a negative or a positive is up to you, and there were some good stories in the book about clients and care givers who actually have a good relationship.

• チポトレ
• 2022/08/19 (Fri) 09:56
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123&124

You don't have to change your name every time. LOL

I just wanted to say that if you're going to complain about goofy agents and how you're treated, there are other jobs out there. I think I'm great. I have an image of thinly paid and physically demanding.

I really hope that you will never need help from others when you get old, never bother anyone for the rest of your life, and live alone and pass away on your own, if you can. If you can. LOL.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/08/19 (Fri) 10:44
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Chipotle has agreed to pay $ 2 million to 13,000 workers as they were found violating laws involving employee sick time and scheduling

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/chipotle-agrees-pay-nyc-workers-175400294.html?fr=sycsrp_catchall

• 汗
• 2022/08/19 (Fri) 12:38
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Chipotle,
you are rude, and so is Cat ？

I wonder why you care about the nursing profession.
Because you can't do anything else ？

because you can't do anything else.

• 汗
• 2022/08/19 (Fri) 12:40
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It's not easy to care for people who say that. It doesn't make for a good story. Typical of a client who is only in it for the money and is a jerk.

• 汗
• 2022/08/19 (Fri) 12:45
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I don't want to ！

• ありがとう
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 12:25
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Thank you for all you do for caregivers. Some of the posts seem to be heartless, but please don't let it bother you, as it is a great light for families of caregivers like mine who need care.
I have been using a temporary staffing agency because there are many problems between individuals. I am somewhat aware of the difficult relationship I have with the temp agency.
This week was the last day of the care giver that my mom (and I, of course) loved so much. I had the impression that this care giver was taken away from us because of the way the office schedule was set up, and I was really disappointed.
At the end, the care giver told us that she would like to come back someday, and if her schedule allows, she would be happy to sub for us.
I can't write your name for personal information, but thank you so much.

• マイナス人格
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 12:35
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It's not uncommon for people to choose a job because it's rewarding.
I don't think it's pretty at all.
If you think that satisfaction is the best ！ thing you can do, because in a way you could say you're being selfish. You can't do it by volunteering, so you're getting paid for the work you choose to do.
That's the same with any job, and most people do.
Even in a job of your own choosing, there will be some stress and problems.
That's why we keep and quit our jobs.

• 意味不明
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 12:48
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Minus personality,
what you're trying to say ？
if you think rewarding is the best ！ because in a way it's selfish.

• 意味不明
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 12:50
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It's a blessing to be able to do what you love. Even if it is a care giver serving others.

• 公誠社
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 13:24
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Caregivers.
Is satisfaction the main reason you do your job ？?

• パー子
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 14:59
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I am a caregiver. Yes, I would roughly say that mine is in the challenging category. I chose this job after boldly leaving my previous company, even though I thought that caregivers are not paid well. So far I don't regret it, and I don't want to do any other job. However, people around me say that it is a waste to do this job at such a young age.

• 🌿
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 16:06
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139

You'll get a bad back.
You're young now, so it's fine, but as you get older, it'll start to get to you, and it may interfere with your daily life.

I changed my job to one that offered more money, more positions, and more satisfaction.

• パー子
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 16:39
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In fact, I had held a position with a title, a few times. I just felt mentally tired or empty or whatever you want to call it.... I feel that it is not too back-breaking, and physically it is something that even people who are quite old can work with.
I hear that the nursing care field in Japan is harsh, but I have the impression that the situation here is different.

If you ask me if it is extremely rewarding, it is difficult to answer. It's hard to answer that question, but I vaguely feel that it's nice to be able to help people who are about to end their lives.
Of course, there are many things that are not considered clean (like taking care of the younger ones), but I don't mind it at all because of my experience in early childhood education.

I can't deny that the salary is low, so I'm even willing to work longer hours or do double work if that is difficult.
Maybe I am unusual. I'm not sure.

• Y
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 18:26
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I had a hard time with a neck injury when a client slipped out of bed and I had to pull her up with the mat. I guess there is a trick to it, but I don't have a strong back to begin with. It still requires a lot of physical strength. I also hit my head when I was pushed.
On the other hand, there was a client who was very easy to work with and we just watched TV together and cooked lunch. We changed care givers one after another to keep the conversation going.
It was a calling for Perko, and good for her if she was satisfied ！.

• パー子
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 18:47
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Y, that was a tough time for you. Safety is the best, so it's best not to overdo it. I have taken care of 10-20 clients and I don't think I had any hardships.
Maybe I have been lucky with my clients.
There were people who didn't want to move at all, people in wheelchairs all the time, people who couldn't find the meaning of life anymore, and many others.
What is it... I felt like I was watching a theater of their lives, and it made me think about how I want to be when I get older, how I want to be a role model, and how I want to age myself.
I also feel like I want to take care of someone while I still can, because there may come a time when I will have to take care of someone else.

• パー子
• 2022/08/20 (Sat) 18:55
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I think that there is also the possibility of getting bored and having fewer conversations.
I have been practicing my own rules to avoid such things as much as possible, and I think it is working well so far.

• @ホーム
• 2022/08/21 (Sun) 07:15
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It was a late night shift.
I'll be home in a few minutes.
Nothing special, but I wanted to write.
Thanks to all the care givers.

• @ホーム
• 2022/08/21 (Sun) 09:40
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> Can I take a nap or something on the late night shift?
It depends on the client's condition and the family's wishes.
In any case, I am awake most of the time.

> Also, what is the hourly rate ？
It depends on the agency and the service.
I can say without a doubt, the hourly rate is not high.

• @ホーム
• 2022/08/21 (Sun) 22:17
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As an addition, some people provide beds for care givers.

• ジャスミン
• 2022/08/22 (Mon) 18:58
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I also have an early morning shift at night ～ and although I have a bed ready and it looks like I can sleep, I almost never do.
This is because they go to the bathroom three times during the night and I am afraid they will fall there.
I want them to call out to me, but many of them don't.
I am right next to you, so please don't hesitate to call out to me.

• Sekm
• 2022/08/22 (Mon) 19:00
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I think I'd like to go to the bathroom alone, but I guess even people who need care have that feeling ？.

• ジャスミン
• 2022/08/22 (Mon) 20:45
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It depends on the family's wishes and the condition of the individual. If there is a request for assistance with toileting, we will do our best to do so. Even if the person thinks he/she is fine, it is often not the case. Especially during the night, the risk of falling due to drowsiness or tangled legs is high and it is really dangerous. For those who are concerned about privacy, we sometimes leave the bathroom and wait by the door when they are doing their business. This client usually has a limp and has fallen several times.

• たい
• 2022/08/22 (Mon) 21:25
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The #150 is not an experienced care giver, is it? I thought it was an opinion that someone who doesn't know the field might have. Care givers know best how it feels to go to the bathroom alone. There are a lot of clients who are reserved, don't want to be bothered to ask for help, and feel that they can handle it.

• わかめ
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 09:50
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#150
Caregivers are there for their clients and have experience. It's not something that a third party who doesn't know any better would simply say to those who work hard to care for them, "You want to go to the bathroom by yourself ！, don't you?
We do this because it is necessary, including caregiving and toileting care. I don't follow clients who can go alone into the bathroom, but I do care for many of my elderly clients.
That is the caregiver. It is the able-bodied person who can be left alone because they would probably prefer to go alone.

• ジャスミン
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 12:35
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If you have no experience in caregiving, you may be tempted to say something like #150.
However, I think #153 and #154 were surprised because what #150 responded to is something that everyone knows and needs to say. Care givers look at the details mental, physical, and many other things.

• Sekm
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 14:12
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149
I just wrote 150 because I wanted you to feel free to speak to me 😅

I hope you can give some advice to Jasmine.

• Sekm
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 14:14
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155

I agree with you 😅
You must be going through a lot.

• まなぶー
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 16:25
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Huh?
Maybe you thought #150 meant "please don't hesitate to speak to me = someone should write a response"?
I think you meant for the client to feel free to speak to me.
Rereading #158, if I'm not mistaken? I thought.
I would be surprised at your reading comprehension if you are mistaken, but even if you are not mistaken, as others have written, I still think ? I'd be surprised if I was mistaken.

• ゆり
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 19:37
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I know it is quite common to be introduced to a new client, and when the service begins, to find that the client is a bit difficult or not a good match for you. In such cases, I would like to hear from those of you who are caregivers, whether you would be patient and continue with the client, or whether you would give it a try. I have the option of refusing.

I don't think we should choose our clients, but
of course, if the company takes care of Caregiver's mental health,
we can do our best in many ways.
Please let us know what you think.

• Nina
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 20:17
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Yuri
I think you should think of yourself first and foremost, in my opinion. As you know, there is compatibility and we have quite a few difficult clients.
It is important to try your best, but I think you should set some rules for yourself while looking at the situation a little, and if you stray from those rules, it is okay to decline. I hate myself for giving this kind of advice, because I am the one who tries too hard and cannot say no. Recently, I have gradually gained the courage to say no, and with some backsliding, I turned down one client the other week.

I don't feel like the company is taking care of the care givers and on the contrary I am saddened by the stress I feel from the company.
That said, I think it would be better for yourself if you don't take it too hard.

• ゆり
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 20:53
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Nina

Thank you for your input. If I continue to care for the client with a bad feeling, I think it will be a nuisance to the client. I'll see how it goes and if it's too much, then I'll have no choice.

Thank you very much.

• まいか
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 21:15
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I am currently taking care of 4 clients.
I don't know what you mean, but I'm kind of tired.
I'm sorry.

• 下り坂
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 23:33
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Caregiving can be tiring. Mentally, too. Maybe it's because the pay is so low, and because you are serving the individual needs of others, or maybe it's because it's a simple job, but it's tiring. Maybe it's because I care for sick people ？
Working at a company during the day is much easier,
Those who work at night and stay up without sleep, that's great.
I'm sorry you're having a hard time. Please get enough sleep.

• 介護
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 23:36
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I think it's quite a nuisance to live a long life for nothing
.

• ５５６
• 2022/08/23 (Tue) 23:42
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If you studied at a college, of course the salary is good, but if you are at the lowest level, the salary is not so bad ？

In the end, the salary is not so high. If people are complaining about low pay or hard work, why don't they just get a different job?

• まいか
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 00:36
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I think my body clock is confused because I am taking care of her with a combination of day and night shifts. Even though I am stressed and have a lot of difficulties, I still want to take care of them. Caregiver, please don't say sad things like annoyance. I am just a care giver, but I care about each and every client.
I don't know your age, but when the time comes for someone to take care of you, please don't think of me as a nuisance.

However, I too have a desire to pass away suddenly.
In case that doesn't happen, when the time comes for me to be taken care of by someone else, I try to make it easier for them to take care of me. I think about things like, "What if I don't?

• ピンキリ
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 10:32
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The richest people in Beverly Hills
live with a professional nurse who is also their driver and
accompanies them everywhere they go for the day.

• どこでも
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 10:51
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I guess a good person can get any number of jobs.
A chef friend of mine was discovered by a celebrity and became his personal chef.

• うける
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 15:18
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>Celebrities have spotted me and made me their exclusive chef

No, no, no, I hear it's a good rate but hard work ？ lol
I like being self-employed where I can set my own schedule.

• 別に良くない
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 15:58
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Many people are self-employed and cannot set their own schedules freely.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 16:21
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It seems that Madonna also had a dedicated Japanese chef.


https://reminder.top/429756418/

• 基本的にここの人は貧乏
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 17:26
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The idea of envying a rich exclusive chef is poor
After all, he's a slave ？.

• せりな
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 17:55
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Tomorrow I will start taking care of a new client.
I am nervous on the first day every time, but I hope it goes well.

• みっちゃん
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 18:34
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I tend to be nervous on the first day too.
I am going to take care of you now, Serina-san, but please go tomorrow and relax as much as possible.

• テノール
• 2022/08/24 (Wed) 18:57
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I work night shifts most of the time, tenor.
There is stress, but there is stress in any job ！ In the midst of all this, to those of you who have chosen to work in nursing care, let's do it without overworking ourselves as colleagues.

• テノール
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 06:50
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Good morning.
I've just finished my night shift and I'm about to go home ！
Have a safe trip, care givers who are working today ！.

• ゆかり
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 07:50
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I think that caregiver companies tend to give preference to Caregivers who work for their convenience.
What do you think?

It seems unfair.

• さち
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 08:35
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Tenor is male ？

How old are you all ？?

• テノール
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 10:32
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Yukari
Probably quite a few care givers feel that way.
I am one of them.
However, it can also be taken as "convenient = works well", so the company would probably give priority to such people.
I still have to take care of clients who are a bit distant and difficult to find, because their wishes are often not met.

Sachi
I am female and in my 40s.

I would like to ask your age too.

• 日本人
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 13:22
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Why do I have to worry about my age every time ？?

• 難しい。
• 2022/08/25 (Thu) 17:00
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I quit because they didn't send me as much as I wanted. 50s.

• テノール
• 2022/08/26 (Fri) 11:15
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Not everything is as I would like it to be, but it keeps me busy every day. It is irregular and I am worried about how long I can keep it up. I'm working the night shift again today, so I'm going to eat, take a bath, and get some sleep before heading out.

• 怒子
• 2022/08/26 (Fri) 16:10
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The company did it again. The response was very poor, but they must not realize what they have done. I have decided to quit.

• テノール
• 2022/08/26 (Fri) 22:55
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Angry Child
I don't know what happened to you, but I'm sorry you had to go through so much. I too have had many experiences that did not add up, but somehow I continue to work.

• にちか
• 2022/08/27 (Sat) 21:15
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For the first time in a while, I can relax this weekend.

• いいな
• 2022/08/28 (Sun) 03:41
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It warms my heart to read that the caregivers here are saying to each other,
"Have a good day" or "Let's take it easy".
"I hope it goes well" or "relax and go ahead" or 。。。。
I am not a caregiver, but it made my heart warm.
I find myself saying in my heart, I see, good luck with your posts before the night shift.



Some of the posts are insane, but...ignore them.

• テノール
• 2022/08/28 (Sun) 05:30
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Nice one
posts like yours are a relief to each and every one of us care givers.
Even if only a very few care givers are writing, many care givers must be reading this topic from somewhere.
It is a very lonely job, so I am very grateful and happy and reassured when people support me.
Thank you.

• 性格
• 2022/08/28 (Sun) 08:12
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Anyone can do the job, but not everyone is suited for it
Most people work for a living, so I don't expect it to be better than nothing.

• ピカチュウ
• 2022/08/30 (Tue) 12:15
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Many of the clients are good people. I am amazed at how many people are dissatisfied with the company. I am as well, but I am still patient today.

• 疑問
• 2022/08/30 (Tue) 16:14
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Is it illegal to point a needle and draw blood from a client for a diabetes check at the direction of the company?
Is it acceptable for an ordinary care giver, especially one who has no nursing license, to do this?

• 疑問
• 2022/08/30 (Tue) 19:15
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I would really like to know, so someone please tell me.

• 気になる
• 2022/08/30 (Tue) 21:50
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But it's not a small thing.
It's a concern. But in the US, family members give injections to cancer patients, so maybe it's okay. I do it for them because they can't do it themselves and I'm their caregiver.

• 場違いですが失礼します
• 2022/08/30 (Tue) 22:08
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No, it's small,
because he's an immigrant ？ and he's too scared of every little thing.

• 疑問
• 2022/08/30 (Tue) 23:28
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It may be a small thing to you, but if you don't know, you don't have to write it down. I'm asking because I don't want it to be the responsibility of the caregiver if something goes wrong.
Is it small? Is it funny? Is it strange to consider the risk of being sued?
Caregivers are not even allowed to put medicine directly into their mouths, and I and most people around me abide by this rule.

• 疑問
• 2022/08/30 (Tue) 23:40
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> I'm taking blood from my father who has dementia ？

It's usually different when a family member does it than when someone else does it.
What is it, reporting someone cutting hair in their home or what?
It has nothing to do with the topic at all and makes no sense.
Think before you write offensively.

If you write like #228, no one will be offended and it's fine.

• スムーズに
• 2022/08/31 (Wed) 15:10
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It would be easier to read this site if you didn't write "you are too stupid" or "there are too many weak-minded people here". It's not smart if you don't understand that writing a good opinion makes people feel bad ？ ？ ？
If you want to give advice or opinions to people who look down on you, please write something that people who are dumber than you can think, "I see ～".

• 場違い
• 2022/08/31 (Wed) 16:42
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If you don't ask here and reply, no one knows or is interested.
If you need accurate information, it would be quicker to ask an agent. If you ask, please post your advice.

• 疑問
• 2022/09/01 (Thu) 06:15
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Agents are not to be relied upon.
They will lie or even ignore you when it is inconvenient to secure a care giver. If you read the responses of various people so far, you will get some idea of what I mean.

• 場違い
• 2022/09/01 (Thu) 19:01
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Agents will not ignore a case if it is a matter of litigation in the I'll do some googling to find out.

• nantoka
• 2022/09/01 (Thu) 21:04
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#225 To Mr. Doubt
Caregivers are not supposed to stick "needles" in clients' bodies, I think the company has to get permission from the family since it is a company directive.
In the company I used to work for, we were not allowed to cut toenails, we were not allowed to take blood pressure, and
for those who needed their blood sugar checked, we provided all the equipment, and the client did the needle sticking, and we assisted them with that. This was before, so it may be different. If you are a caregiver who is a LVN or higher, you should have no problem drawing blood.
When it comes to the medical level of caregiving work, how far you are allowed to go ？ is a gray area that varies from company to company,
I can understand your anxiety, thank you for your time.

• 疑問
• 2022/09/01 (Thu) 23:30
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NONTOKA Yes, that's right.
I am in charge of several clients, one of whom points the needle himself to measure his blood sugar.
The other one I found out the first time I had to stick the needle in when I went to the site on the first day.
(The agent informed me that I was not informed of anything. )
I was in the mood to be there and had to do it, and eventually, to this day.
I don't understand why it's not OK to put medicine directly into the mouth, not OK to clip nails, but OK to stick needles in them? I don't understand why this is so.
If it's okay to stick needles in, then it's a bit of a trick, and I was told nothing but, "This one's easy to take care of." The only thing I was told was that I was in disbelief.
In the end, I found out later that it was not only about the needles, but also that this client was a difficult person and that the care givers were interchangeable.

• ター坊
• 2022/09/04 (Sun) 21:19
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This is a big problem.

• マミ
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 08:34
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Agents don't give me too much inhomation when I have a difficult client. Families are good, they say the work is easy to do,
and when they actually start, problems arise.

Even though I have been a caregiver for many years, difficult clients are sometimes impossible.

• It’s a job.
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 10:59
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It's exhausting because you put too much emotion into it

That's the benefit of non-family members taking care of them

So sometimes people who are too enthusiastic are also a nuisance to the family.

• きょう
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 12:40
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#248
That, you all usually know. Emotional balance, taking care of yourself to the point of not disturbing your family, are the basics. There are really a lot of people who go out of their way to write about it, just to show off and say they are smart, even though it's normal.

• めいっこ
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 13:45
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I don't want to write anything too negative, but it is true that there are many people who give very basic advice to care givers, even though they are not care givers. But it could be someone who is a natural or someone who is giving advice with the best of intentions. I've been reading the topic itself for a long time and have just kept quiet, but some of the responses are helpful.
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Question for the care givers. Suppose an agent comes in with a case for a very difficult client. How should you be told?

1. I know it's hard, but please do.
(Tell them how hard it is, but still ask for their help)

2. the client and their family are good people.
(I don't tell them how hard it is, but they still ask me to do the work)》

The question is not about which is right and which is wrong, but which you prefer. 1. seems to be more common, but 2. seems to be able to start without preconceived ideas, so surprisingly, some people choose 2. I asked this question in the hope that some of the respondents would choose 2. I asked this question because I thought it would be easier to start without any preconceptions.

• It’s a job.
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:10
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> That, you all usually know.
Emotional balance, taking care of yourself to the point of not disturbing your family, are the basics.
There are really a lot of people who go out of their way to write about it, just to show off and say they are smart, even though it's normal.


Omgomgomg
an exchange square where you can't even say what you want to say
you are free to post what you want lol

this person is too sick and paranoid

ah scary

• It’s a job
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:27
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I don't want to ask such a person to take care of my family. w
Actually, I often hear that men are better caregivers. They say they are kinder. I hear that women are more troublesome because they get emotional and the conversation gets complicated. It seems that men are the ones who can separate it from work after all. I can understand it from the posts here.

• うちの祖母
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:30
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My grandmother, who is a bit of a blur, said that the nurses were always irritated and afraid of every little thing, but the nurses (male nurses) were always kind to her. My mother had them change the nurse in charge of her.

• クライアントにも
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:37
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> That, you all usually know.
Emotional balance, taking care of yourself to the extent that you don't bother your family, those are the basics. There are really a lot of people who go out of their way to write about it, just to show off and say they are smart, even though it's normal.

When a client says something you don't like
I know that
and I'm sure you argue every single time
Caregiving and parenting are 10 different things for 10 different people
It seems that people with hard heads are not suited for this because they get neurotic from the stress

• 更年期
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:40
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Young women are kind.

• 介護者の掲示板
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:47
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#255 I agree with
. I thought it was a tough job at first. Certainly too emotional. When you are given an opinion, you say this opinion is good or this is bad. Are caregivers judges ？
To be clear, there are many people who have no other skills or nothing else they can do. So they complain a lot.
Isn't that a little low?

• 介護者の掲示板
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 14:50
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Male caregivers don't squeak and squeal like this. The nurse who gave the client a bath also washed the client by pouring hot water on him very roughly. I don't want to be cared for by such people.

• It’s a job
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 15:13
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Every job is hard
I just think you are overreacting to people's opinions
I was just giving my client's opinion that I don't want someone who is emotional when I ask for care...
The client has the right to choose.
I'm sure it's exhausting for the client to have such a personality, not just the caregiver
I just don't have to deal with it.

• うちの祖母
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 15:19
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Oh, my blurry grandmother also said it was a woman who was violent and had a great attitude. I thought it was quite something to be a blur and still remember. I almost cried because I felt sorry for my grandmother. Now she seems to be at peace and doesn't complain because she is a man. Thank God.

• 義姉
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 15:46
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Our sister-in-law is a caregiver for our mother-in-law.

She complained sometimes that my husband and I don't help her.
My mother-in-law and I are close, probably because we are about as far apart in age as my grandmother.
I don't mind helping her, but my sister-in-law gives me detailed instructions on how to do it, which is inefficient and frustrating to be honest. My husband wants to eat my food and sometimes asks me to go to his house, but my sister-in-law's jealousy is so obvious that I don't feel comfortable going there.

My sister-in-law is my own mother, but she often treats me badly.
Sometimes I feel sorry for her.
She should depend on others to be able to afford it, but her jealousy doesn't seem to allow it.

I guess caring has a lot to do with the emotions of the person doing it.
I don't care if I win or lose. This one just wants to see my mother-in-law's happy face.

• ＞＜
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 16:34
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I don't want to do this anymore
I'm leaving before I need nursing care

• なんだか
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 16:47
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I don't think it matters what the throwaway HN is, or that this HN was somewhere else.
Because even the person who writes so doesn't use the same HN all the time. I don't either. Isn't that how it is in the internet forum? I think it is wrong to storm as an adult.

My grandmother. I'm sorry to hear that. But there is a certain chemistry, and maybe she wanted a man to take care of her. He might have been safe because of his strength. My grandmother was fine with helpers who looked like they were in their 40s, but if they looked like they were in their 50s or older, she would have sent them home immediately at the door. I felt really bad.

Sister-in-law. I hear these things sometimes. Like being jealous of someone who is good at taking care of you. My sister-in-law feels like she's putting her own neck on the line. But maybe she was frustrated because she was her own mother. I wonder if I would feel the same way if I were in her shoes.

• なんだか
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 16:48
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I want to get rid of them before I need care too.

• ときつかさ
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 22:20
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A friend of mine who works in a nursing home office told me about a male caregiver who showed up at a client's home dressed in an odd outfit, ate his dinner, and even had a second helping of food. A male caregiver showed up at a client's home in a strange outfit, ate his meal, and even had a second helping of food. Although it did not sound like a complaint, he was told that he would prefer another caregiver if possible. Maybe he didn't understand common sense, but it is a matter of opinion, regardless of gender.

• ときつかさ
• 2022/09/05 (Mon) 22:30
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I've always thought that I don't want to live too long because of the hassle of this and that, but I wonder if it's possible to be afraid of death at hand.

• 無常
• 2022/09/06 (Tue) 06:22
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I believe that the feeling of fear is natural because we cannot decide whether a person lives or dies by ourselves.
Some people cannot die even if they commit suicide.

• ときつかさ
• 2022/09/06 (Tue) 08:08
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It's painful when you get seriously ill, need help from others, have to pay for medical care, and you're in pain too. On the other hand, suicide also takes a lot of courage.

• 精神を病む
• 2022/09/06 (Tue) 13:59
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It must be such a living hell that you are not afraid to die.
No wonder ordinary people don't understand.

• ときつかさ
• 2022/09/07 (Wed) 03:33
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I guess you don't know until you are in that situation. If that happens, I would at least like to pass away before I become a burden to those around me.

• 我が家の事情
• 2022/09/07 (Wed) 09:26
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My grandmother had always been a person who could do anything, but she was always pointing out people's faults, and she always criticized her daughters and they did not get along well with each other. After my grandfather passed away, no one wanted to live with her, so she got angry and said that no one would take care of her. She wasted the inheritance left by my grandfather and tried not to leave it to her daughters, which caused them to feel antagonistic toward her and estranged from her.
It has been almost two years since he collapsed from coronary disease and was found by a caregiver in the hospital, where he survived. She was treated like a prisoner, tied to a bed or wheelchair by a cord, in a hospital ward where she could see no one and was cared for by nurses she did not know.

The hospital is only covered by insurance for up to two years, and after that she is supposed to be moved to an assisted living facility, but because she wasted her inheritance, she can't afford it, and what she can't pay with her pension she has to pay from her grandmother's savings, and she doesn't know how long she has left. Since they don't know how long she will live, the family may have to bear the burden. I returned to Japan last month and visited my grandmother, but she didn't really understand me and when the nurse told her I was her grandson, she said she wanted to go home and watch TV over tea. I almost cried when I saw my grandmother, who had lost weight and was just talking about her needs like a child. My mother and aunt's long-standing hatred for my grandmother did not seem to change even a millimeter even after seeing her like that.

I have heard many stories about my mother and aunts, so I did not even talk to them about their behavior, but it was very complicated for me because I had seen my grandmother, who was always mean-spoken but really cared about her daughters, but I told her many times in the past, but it did not affect her at all. I told them many times over the years, but it never seemed to resonate with them. In the end, I think it was the wasteful use of my inheritance that ultimately drove my daughters away from me the most.

Incidentally, my grandmother used my grandfather's inheritance and insurance money to downsize the magnificent two-story house where the family of five lived to a one-story house and remodel the entrance and bathrooms for the elderly over the objections of those around her. So, he spent a lot of money, the value of the house went down, and there seems to be almost no inheritance left. I think it was a rebellion against his daughters who wouldn't live with him, but only a kind grandfather could live with such a moralistic person for so many years. Maybe that's why he died of cancer so early.

I don't know what the right thing to do is, but I have nothing but gratitude for my parents and if one of them eventually dies first, I will discuss it with my siblings and take care of them here if necessary. My mother was very kind and even when my father was having an affair, she sacrificed herself and raised us without a single complaint because she felt sorry for a single mother and child. I don't want to talk to her about it, but I don't think it's fair that she hates my grandmother so much.

• 安楽死
• 2022/09/07 (Wed) 20:31
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In the U.S., you can do it in some states

When you get old and need someone to take care of your excrement, you can let him go

Quality of life

• 選択
• 2022/09/08 (Thu) 08:37
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Death with dignity, not overtreatment.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/09/08 (Thu) 11:53
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This is the only thing that others cannot decide.
Only relatives can make decisions.

• 安楽死
• 2022/09/08 (Thu) 12:01
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You can decide for yourself
If others decide for you, it's murder.

• てか
• 2022/09/08 (Thu) 12:08
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I thought California banned euthanasia.

• 昭和のおとっつぁん
• 2022/09/08 (Thu) 16:39
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I can make my own decisions, then I have a good head on my shoulders
Why should I have to have someone else take care of my excrement too?

• 生命
• 2022/09/08 (Thu) 16:41
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It would be nice if we could determine our own lifespan.
But then, who wants to go hundreds or thousands of years? I don't find immortality or anything like that very appealing.

• 安楽死
• 2022/09/08 (Thu) 18:08
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Oregon can.

• はよう
• 2022/09/08 (Thu) 18:20
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California can euthanize you if you have 60 days left.
But, 60 days is not so long...
He should be allowed to pass away sooner, or he will suffer longer, depending on his illness.

• べろ
• 2022/09/09 (Fri) 12:06
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Really, 60 days left means.

• はよう
• 2022/09/09 (Fri) 12:29
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Sorry, I made a mistake, it was 6 months, not 60 days.
Still not enough, （ ： ＿ ； ）

• 安楽死
• 2022/09/09 (Fri) 13:56
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What's left ？

The remainder of life ？

• べろ
• 2022/09/09 (Fri) 16:58
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I understood it to be life expectancy, no?
Six months sounds better, but still.

• 団塊
• 2022/09/09 (Fri) 18:46
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＞ It was 6 months, not 60 days. That's still not enough, （ ： ＿ ； ）

I understand that euthanasia is OK if you are given a life expectancy, but that is good news. I don't want to suffer for no reason.

I guess Hayo-san is asking for permission for euthanasia from, say, a year before 6 months ？
I guess you can't declare life expectancy so early.

• てっけつ
• 2022/09/14 (Wed) 18:21
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Another false recruitment?

• どーしようもなく
• 2022/09/16 (Fri) 06:20
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You don't have enough people here and there.

• はよう
• 2022/09/16 (Fri) 10:25
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290, 291
Yes

292 Mr. Boomer
There are many diseases.
Anyway, I want them euthanized. Yes, yes, yes, yes.

• 日本は少子高齢化
• 2022/09/16 (Fri) 16:46
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Record number of people over 100 years old