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Left my 15 year old daughter with the first man （ i.e. my ） roommate for a month back home

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#1
  • 初老男
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  • 2024/04/08 13:33

My （ male ） roommate （ female ） told me that she is planning to leave her 15 year old daughter alone and go home for a month.
However, I would like to refuse because she is a girl of her age and I will be gone for the weekend and she will be left alone, but is it 'legal' for a mother to leave her daughter under 16 years old alone for a month in an apartment where another man lives? ？
Please help me with this matter.

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#2
  • 0ではないと
  • 2024/04/08 (Mon) 14:49
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Call Social Service in your local area.
The mother can be charged with abuse or neglect for leaving a minor with a stranger.

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#3
  • 合法
  • 2024/04/08 (Mon) 15:12
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You mean you're living with the child at this point
mother ＋ if you have a contract with the child and （ even if you don't leave a written contract, it's the same as having a contract ） if you pay rent and he lives there, you can't kick him out
whatever happens to the child is not your responsibility So I think you should just ignore it.

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#4
  • ん？
  • 2024/04/08 (Mon) 20:01
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↑ No, as an adult, if you know about it and leave it alone, you are guilty of a crime ？.

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#5
  • 怒
  • 2024/04/08 (Mon) 21:34
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You should firmly refuse to do that.
You don't know what kind of false accusations you will be falsely accused of later. You should pay for food at the house of a classmate who is good friends with the girl and ask her to stay there.

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#6
  • 怒
  • 2024/04/08 (Mon) 21:42
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If the mother complains that she is paying half the rent or whatever, then the tope should pay the full amount for that month.

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#7
  • 怒
  • 2024/04/08 (Mon) 21:57
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If the mother asks the school if they say udderly ？.

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#8
  • 通りすがり　　　　　　　.
  • 2024/04/08 (Mon) 22:25
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You're strangers ？ You're roommates, you don't even have to talk to each other. What's the charge if you don't have custody ？ Name the charge.

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#9
  • 言いがかり
  • 2024/04/09 (Tue) 10:29
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I'm sure they'll call it sexual harassment later.

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#13

I am a mother of a teenager.

Leaving your child alone for a month, if not a few days, ！ this could be considered abandonment.
Even if he is a very solid child, he is still a child.
How would the child spend a month alone, including shopping and money management ？

The mother should either return home with the child or, if she must return alone, hire a care giver for the month.

I still think it is better to ask an expert about legal matters.

*Childhelp （ It is a specialized agency for child abuse ）
https://www.childhelphotline.org/

English hotline （ Call or text ） ： 800-422-4453


*Japanese American Helpline （ You can speak in Japanese ） ： 213-473-1633


Keep children safe and healthy We wish you a safe and healthy life every day.

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#14
  • ククレカレー
  • 2024/04/09 (Tue) 13:54
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It is best for Topi to say no.
Don't stand on hindsight,
Don't come close to danger.

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#17
  • 世間知らず　　　　.
  • 2024/04/09 (Tue) 15:46
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13 Parents who can't separate their children from their children is a social problem in Japan today. Let's learn a little from Americans
or rather ＃ don't tell 1, tell your mother.

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#18
  • ククレカレー
  • 2024/04/11 (Thu) 01:14
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Topi, where did you go ？?

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#19
  • キモい
  • 2024/04/12 (Fri) 22:13
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First and foremost, it's creepy that a first generation guy is living paycheck to paycheck with roommates. I don't care that it's a fishing topic, but it's creepy in so many ways.

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#20
  • 昔話
  • 2024/04/14 (Sun) 21:49
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#19
I'm better than some first generation guy who sleeps in a crappy car and is homeless because he doesn't want to pay for room and board even though he makes $ 5.000 a month.

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#21
  • 昔話
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 02:37
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Better than the first guy who earns $ 5.000 a month but doesn't want to pay for a room and is living homeless in a crappy car.

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#24
  • 昔話
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 12:57
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No, I am a single person and can at least rent a room.
Also, that first old man has other cash income. He doesn't shower, he is dingy, smelly, and annoying to be around.

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#26
  • 昔話
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 13:30
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$ If you have 5000, you are a single person and can room rent.

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#29
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん　　　　　　　.
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 14:10
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Now even 1bd1bath costs $ 2000 or more. $ 5000 is a bit tight.

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#31
  • 昔話
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 15:15
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Do you know what room rent is ？
$700-800

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#29
  • 孤独のおとっつぁん
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 15:43
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Room Rent. LOL

That's only up to students.

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#33
  • 昔話
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 16:22
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Is there some law that says room renters must be students ？
I don't care how old you are if you don't want to pay decent rent.

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#35
  • 昔話
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 17:02
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Is there a law that says you have to be a student? ？
I don't care how old you are if you don't want to spend money.

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#36
  • ウマシカハンター
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 17:46
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I think you made a mistake in sharing a room.

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#39
  • 昔話
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 20:18
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That guy stinks and is a pain in the ass to be around. He lives in his car and doesn't shower. He keeps food in the fridge at work for months.

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#40
  • 昔話
  • 2024/04/15 (Mon) 20:22
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If I don't get around to it...

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#50
  • 怒
  • 2024/04/20 (Sat) 01:29
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Topi where are you ？ ？

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#52

The age of 15 is MINOR, so for a mother to leave her child abroad for a month would qualify as neglect or abuse. I think you should have a proper discussion with the mother. She is a mother with no common sense. It is not possible.

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