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83. About AGA(2kview/2res) Problem / Need advice 2022/11/08 14:54
84. immigration checkpoint(4kview/19res) Problem / Need advice 2022/11/08 09:51
85. sowing grass(1kview/3res) Problem / Need advice 2022/10/31 20:29
86. I am looking for a place that will issue a negativ...(11kview/8res) Problem / Need advice 2022/10/21 02:02
87. I want to move into an elementary school in May fo...(1kview/0res) Problem / Need advice 2022/10/20 16:10
88. Japanese care company response(24kview/48res) Problem / Need advice 2022/10/17 20:26
89. Sex Education for Children(1kview/8res) Problem / Need advice 2022/10/07 10:30
90. information bulletin board(9kview/40res) Problem / Need advice 2022/09/13 16:16
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Car and scooter accidents

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#1
  • djsldjsbdslfb
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  • 2022/11/24 06:06

About two weeks ago I was riding my scooter and was hit by a jeep ( car ) coming out of a parking lot.
I stopped because I knew jeep wanted to get out of the parking lot. After stopping for about five seconds, I thought, oh, jeep can see me, so I started moving again. Then the car started moving at the same time and before I knew it I was being jumped and thrown onto the driveway.
My nails were peeled and I was only whipped, but no serious injuries. I hired a lawyer, but I only consulted with one lawyer, so I don't know what the fee is. I would appreciate it if you could tell me if you have had a similar experience or know more about it.

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divorce

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#1
  • May
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  • 2022/10/18 02:12

Have you all thought about divorce?
What was the reason?
Have you actually divorced?
Do you want to get married again?

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#51
  • I know why
  • 2022/11/09 (Wed) 23:09
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#47 = IQ110-120

#50 = IQ80-90

IQ difference is too great for #50 to understand what #47 is saying.

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#52
  • IQ博士
  • 2022/11/10 (Thu) 06:53
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IQ isn't a good measure.
The person with 120 IQ would probably get their ego boosted a little bit.

Are you a cool mom ?
I wrote this ?
by myself ?

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#55
  • クールマム
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  • 2022/11/11 (Fri) 11:11
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Dr. IQ
I don't understand your question.
I wrote this ? myself ? which post are you referring to ?
I wrote the post as cool mom.

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#56
  • 私は応援したい
  • 2022/11/12 (Sat) 22:09
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Coolmom, you seem feisty, but I think you have the energy needed to fight through the divorce. I hope she gets the sanction she needs. She's raising two teenagers and I'm glad she has a strong mom because they are very impressionable.

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#57
  • クールマム
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  • 2022/11/15 (Tue) 09:23
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#56Thank you for your message of I want to support you.
I'm glad to hear that you are making supportive comments like that, when many people go out of their way to post critical comments just because they can't see your face. I'm not a strong-willed person, but I am used to sending out messages to an unspecified number of people, and I know that a certain number of people will harass me with snide comments and shit-lips, and I know that premise, which is why I can state my opinion without hesitation. It certainly takes a lot of energy to get divorced. I will not lose, I will fight and do my best to make sure my children grow up healthy under these circumstances. Thank you !

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About AGA

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#1
  • hiro
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  • 2022/11/08 05:37

I am in my 20's and recently my forehead is getting wider... I would like to try some effective medication if there is any. Thank you in advance.

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#2
  • おっさん
  • 2022/11/08 (Tue) 13:51
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Nobel Prize for a medicine that will surely cure cancer and baldness.

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immigration checkpoint

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#1
  • 帰国
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  • 2022/11/06 14:16

I have a question regarding the Japanese immigration office.
My husband is a foreign national and we are going to Japan together. Is it possible for me, a Japanese citizen, to stand in line with him in the foreigner-only lane? One reason is that I will have to wait for him if I leave early, and the other reason is that this is the first time for me to purchase a JR Pass, and I need to get a stamp or sticker for a short stay at the port of entry. I don't know how to get it in the Japanese-only lane.
Can someone please tell me how to get it in the Japanese-only lane?

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#13

> Is the permanent resident holder(\ who has been here for more than 10 years) checked with a green card ?

When I returned to Japan in September, I presented my green card. But the Midori-no-madoguchi agent went to the back with my passport, so I am not sure if he checked my return stamp at that time.

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#14
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/11/07 (Mon) 16:54
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Since I am going to Japan to use it myself,
can't I just look it up on the internet
and be satisfied with it, rather than leaving it to others to ask about rail passes, etc. on their own?

If a travel agency sells rail passes, you can ask them for more information.

If you are a foreigner, you can enter and leave Japan,
even if you have a Green Card, your passport is in Japan, so you can leave and return.

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#17

I temporarily returned to Japan in October with a rail pass exchange ticket, but I had no idea about the stamp.
At Haneda station, there was a part where people were divided into those who needed a stamp and those who did not, but I went through the one who did not and exchanged it for a rail pass at Shinagawa station two days later without any problem.
It may be that the check for the stamp was accidentally left out, but why don't you check with the traveler or JR?
By the way, ( it was empty at that time ) in early October, so it wouldn't have made much difference in time if you got in line to get stamps.

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#18
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/11/08 (Tue) 07:00
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Once you arrive in Japan and get off the plane, you will be fine in Japanese. If your husband can't speak Japanese, you just need an interpreter and you'll be fine.

If you are worrying about this kind of thing, you will just think you can't do anything yourself.

https://japanrailpass.net/about_jrp.html

Things are a little different in Corona, so ask at a travel agency that handles rail passes.

I'm glad I'm an American because this is such a hassle.

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#20
  • 青丘
  • 2022/11/08 (Tue) 09:51
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I go out first in the Japanese-only lane, secure my luggage coming out, and wait for my family to come out of the foreigner lane. JR pass should be fine with a regular entry stamp. Enjoy Japan, it's been a while.

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sowing grass

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#1
  • 119
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  • 2022/10/31 09:46

I'm thinking of planting western grass seed, but if I just plant it in my garden, will it grow to some extent ? or is it not that sweet ? and how dense should the seed be sown ? when would be a good time to plant ??

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#2
  • 世間知らず
  • 2022/10/31 (Mon) 11:41
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The lack of water is preventing people from watering their yards, and every house is thinking of removing their lawns.

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#4

Thank you very much for your helpful advice.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank you.
Thanks !

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I am looking for a place that will issue a negative certificate for me to go to Japan.

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#1
  • AIKA
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  • 2022/09/28 20:35

South Bay ( Torrance, Gardena area )

LAX area


Please let me know if there is any place that can issue a negative certificate.

Please let me know if there is a place that can issue a negative certificate using the testing method specified by the Japanese government.

I would appreciate a place that charges as little as possible.

Thank you very much.

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#4
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  • 2022/09/29 (Thu) 09:17
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You didn't answer the question, old man.

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#4
  • AIKA
  • 2022/09/29 (Thu) 09:27
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I know that's what I'm talking about.

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#6
  • マイクのマイク
  • 2022/10/20 (Thu) 14:06
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I entered Japan on October 16. I have not been vaccinated. It is a US passport.
I showed my insurance card at Palos Verdes Medical Group in Palos Verdes and it was free.
There are a lot of Japanese people there, so when I saw the government form, they said, "Travel to Japan, OK!

I downloaded the government form from the Ministry of Health, Labor and Welfare website, printed it out and brought it with me. That's all.
https://www.mhlw.go.jp/content/000799426.pdf

Procedure
Drop the PDF from the MHLW page and print it out.
Make an appointment for the test on the PVMG web.

Bring your insurance card, ID, and government form on the day of the appointment.
The location is 550 Deep Valley Dr #319, Rolling Hills Estates, CA 90274
Parking at the mall, 4th floor ( Outdoor parking on the roof ) White tent.

There you will take out the ID government form, fill out the checklist, and have a brief Q&A session with the doctor remotely to do a nasal exam.
You will remain in the car. Brief question. I'm in good health ? I'm vaccinated ?.

test results are in 2-3 hours. Not many PCR tests are done anymore and it was empty, so it didn't take 2 hours.
I'm going to leave for now. I can test in the morning and pick up in the afternoon.

I get a call for pickup and go to the rooftop parking on the 4th floor again.
There you will have easy access to the PVMG office. It is just on the same floor.
You will need to wear a mask to enter the office.
Pick up a piece of paper with the doctor's signed test results and a rubber stamped government form.
Naturally, you don't have to pay because you have an insurance card, it's free.
Then register those two cards in My SOS and you will be blue and ready to go.
It might be a little useful to do Visit Japan as well.

At LAX, show the My SOS screen and the form and they will let you on the plane.
It is natural to wear a mask. The young American who was told to wear a mask got cranky and didn't wear one the whole time.
I wear a mask the whole time I am on the plane. On a different note, ANA had an entertainment set list that was not interesting at all.

When you arrive at Narita, you can connect to the airport Wi-Fi ( The staff will even connect you quickly ) Things pass smoothly when you present your My SOS blue screen.
At immigration, there is no one at the Japanese passport gate anymore. Only the foreigner gate had about 50 people.
Seems like more than half of the whole group was connecting to Southeast Asia.
Passing through immigration was about 2-30 minutes, and customs was over 2-3 minutes after presenting Visit Japann because there was no line.
Both immigration and customs in Japan are friendly and courteous.
But when I left the gate, there was no TV Tokyo crew there.

The travel agency's website says it costs several hundred dollars for inspection, but if you can move around by yourself and have an insurance card, how about this way?

In Japan, everyone wears masks even outdoors. My friend says to be careful, because if you don't wear a mask, you will be treated as a stranger.
He said that even when eating a meal, you must not take off your mask until just before you put the food in your mouth, and then you must put it back on and munch it down.
He told me to think of it as a game. I don't know if this is true or not since I am new to Japan.
At least I often see people drinking through a straw with a mask on, or pumping the sanitizer repeatedly when entering a store.

Japan is a very considerate country. Everyone is polite. Even if you are driving alone or outdoors and there is no one nearby, people wear masks to prevent infection. I even feel nostalgia for the things that the U.S. did right after the pandemic and are still done in Japan. I will try not to be a stranger.

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#7
  • 青丘
  • 2022/10/20 (Thu) 17:13
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Mike's Mike,

very clear procedure.
Do Americans have MySOS ?
I thought that if you were vaccinated, you could enter the country normally, like before corona.

I am relieved to hear that there is no congestion.

I will return in December.

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#9

Excuse me for the sidebar.
I was able to get a free exam at Palos Verdes Medical Group this past July with my Kaiser insurance.
My friend was also able to get a free exam with Kaiser's insurance, so I don't think any insurance company will have a problem.
As Mike's Mike wrote, I received the results about 2 hours after the test. Many of my Japanese friends around me also use this service.

I had a friend visiting from Japan last week, but he had been vaccinated 3 times and returned home without PCR test.
He said that the entry and exit at Narita was very smooth.
Both Americans and Japanese are required to register for My SOS when entering Japan.
If you have not registered, you will be asked to register at the airport when you enter Japan.
It takes about 15 minutes to register, so it is recommended to complete it before leaving the US.

I hope this was helpful.

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I want to move into an elementary school in May for an assignment … please tell me !

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#1
  • YanayanaPenguin
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  • 2022/10/20 16:10

I would like to be able to transfer in May, even though it is the end of the school year, in order to let them get used to the environment as much as possible, but as far as I can tell from the school's website, it seems like I can't accept the application because it is past the application period, or I can … I don't really understand. Should most schools apply for the new school year?

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Japanese care company response

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  • 呼子
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  • 2022/10/15 00:59

It has been almost a year since I requested services for my mother, who lives alone, from a Japanese caregiver company called H Service.
I am no longer convinced that the cost of the service is worth the several thousand dollars per month that the office charges (frequent subs ) and the care giver's work (my mother says he is always looking at his cell phone, is late, etc.).
I am thinking of looking for a private care giver instead of going through a company, but I would appreciate your advice on the advantages and disadvantages of getting services from a company or from a private care giver.

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#34
  • 呼子
  • 2022/10/16 (Sun) 19:52
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#23Innerperson, I think you are right.

#26 caregiver,
#27 insider,
I agree with what you both said. You are right.
My mother's care giver is constantly complaining about the office. Was she lied to by the office? Was she cheated?
The client's mother hears, "Oh, well, that's tough."
I wish care givers would vent their dissatisfaction with the company to each other.

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#35
  • 介護
  • 2022/10/16 (Sun) 19:54
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I don't know anything about the outdated employment system of Japanese companies, but it is typical of Japanese companies to work long hours with nothing to do. It's inefficient. I guess I don't have any other choice because I can't speak English.

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#36
  • 内情屋
  • 2022/10/16 (Sun) 19:55
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I'm not talking to you because you're talking away again.
I said in a previous response that you shouldn't talk about it to that extent because you " don't know, but " you said it yourself.
I'm repeating something similar, but the details of care are decided by the family and the company, so it's normal for things to differ from person to person.
"What are you doing for long hours too? " does that mean you can ask that to other full time company employees as well as care givers?

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#38
  • 知り合い?
  • 2022/10/16 (Sun) 20:05
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I think he's talking about himself from the point of desperation.

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#39
  • 2022/10/16 (Sun) 20:10
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Complaining about the company to the client, complaining about the family to the care giver...
It's kind of sad, isn't it?
I'll tell you more... I'd like to tell you a little more... Care givers have almost no contact with each other, and the company knows this, so even if there is a problem, they often leave it alone because they think it won't become a problem.
Even if you try to think of the client first, the company does not have such a system, so it is true that many people have to deal with problems alone. I know this is off topic, but I hope it happens because finding a good match will make everyone happy.

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Sex Education for Children

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  • Ira
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  • 2022/10/06 21:16

I have a son who is currently in 6th grade.
He started middle school in September.

We thought he is still a child, but we found a history of him searching adult videos on his I Pad.
However, I am sure that he was still not sure about it, and he was also searching if he needed to do something to make a baby.
We have not restricted adult content on I Pad until now, but is it necessary to do so ?
At 12 years old, he will learn a lot of things, and I wonder if it would be wrong to restrict him ・ ・ ・.
I think he had a few days of sex education class at the end of 5th grade, but he probably doesn't understand it at all yet.
In middle school, I have the feeling that he heard about and investigated various things from friends and older children, but do I need to take any action from my parents?

I have restricted adult content on my PAD for now, but I'm not sure if I should really leave it open for viewing ・ ・ ・
He's my son, so I'd rather leave some things to his father rather than his mother saying this and that ! ?
Is there anything the mother can do now?
I would appreciate your advice.

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#3
  • まつみ
  • 2022/10/06 (Thu) 23:05
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Like #2, there are many people who write unnecessary things.
It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman, someone's writing may be useful to someone else. As you said yourself, if it is a boy, I think it is possible to leave it to his father to some extent.
I think that the father can be the contact person to tell him what you and your wife have discussed, since he may have his own ideas.

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#4
  • いも
  • 2022/10/06 (Thu) 23:36
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I didn't think it was a man, though. Because this guy obviously doesn't know what adult videos are like.
If he knew, he would never show them to his children. They wouldn't be serious people if they watched those things from childhood. That's not education. Please make sure they can't see it.

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#8
  • サチ
  • 2022/10/07 (Fri) 10:17
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It's a path that everyone goes down, but the way information comes in nowadays is different from the way it did in the past, and parents have a hard time dealing with it. No matter how much you restrict what, children who want to know will look it up, and even children who are not interested will get it from their surroundings.
I think adult content should be restricted. Some of it is extreme, so that wrong sexual concepts are not created. 。。。。 But when they go to stay at a friend's house, if the house there doesn't have restrictions, they can all watch it together, so if that is a concern, talk to the parents of the house you are staying at ( and see if they have restrictions on adult sites there ). You could talk with your husband and come to a conclusion as to how far you should go ?

It is very normal for a middle schooler to have an interest in sex and be growing into a healthy boy. In my personal opinion, I don't think parents need to do anything ( other than limit adult content ). It's not something a mother should say, and in my opinion it doesn't need to come from the father either. That's how our family was raised.

However, recent research says here and there that sex education for children should be done before they are sexually awakened. And how to deal with this, in the case of middle school students who are already interested in sex, you can find a lot of information on the Internet by googling "middle school students, sex education," etc. You can find a lot of information about what parents should never do, and about children's problems at 、、、、.

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#9
  • Ira
  • 2022/10/07 (Fri) 10:30
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Thank you very much for your kind reply.
When I saw it on my I Pad, I was quite upset and wrote about it, but afterwards I googled it and was relieved to find out that it is a normal thing for junior high school students to grow up with.
I have put restrictions on adult contents !

The amount of information is completely different from my junior high school days, and I will try to have enough information for parents to be able to answer questions from their children in a normal way, rather than just letting it slide.
Thank you very much !

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information bulletin board

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#1
  • 情報掲示版
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  • 2022/09/08 13:57

Please everyone give me some advice.

I recently found "moving to another state" on an information board
and contacted him.
He invited me to meet him once, even though we did not communicate in detail.
Is this a normal case in the U.S. ?
or is this a new type of dating ??

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#24
  • 暑い9月
  • 2022/09/10 (Sat) 15:11
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You are more embarrassing.
Count a sock or two.

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#28
  • 今は涼しい9月
  • 2022/09/11 (Sun) 07:37
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# 27 Hot September

Show proof.

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#36
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/09/12 (Mon) 13:12
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# It says you want to travel to the US once or twice before you die.

Now before you leave and after you leave and before you die, you'd rather think about one , or two trips abroad to the US
than think about a permanent return trip.

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#38
  • バカ昭和
  • 2022/09/12 (Mon) 18:43
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Thinking about the D/L ahead is another way to prepare for returning home.

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#39
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/09/13 (Tue) 07:04
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38
Thinking about D/L is part of the preparation for returning home. So did you clear the jury call issue ??

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