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年齢によるイジメ?
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- 論遜
- 2007/01/09 15:45
私は30歳過ぎて去年からコミカレに留学した♂です。中年と言われる世代になって留学した方にお尋ねしたいのですが、若い日本人から年齢、世代を理由にイジメや差別を受けた事はありませんか?また、それに対し、どう対処しましたでしょうか?
- #3
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日本にいた頃、再就職までのつなぎにアルバイトをした事があり、その頃には「オヤジ」という事でよく差別をされましたね。
ただ、トピ主さんはコミカレ学生ですよね?コミカレや4年制の留学生は育ちが良いので、差別は無いと思います。ただ単に「同世代ではないので話がしづらい」だけじゃないですか?具体的にどのような差別やイジメをうけたのでしょうか?
でもあまり男は「ボク、イジメられた」などとは言わないので、レスは期待しない方がいいかも。
自分の場合、バイト先で先輩の語学学校生にいわれのないイジメを受けた事がありますが、「大人の流儀に従うのが嫌なら、ガキの流儀に従ってやるよ」と、その先輩をボコボコにしたことはあります。腕に覚えがあるならそういうやり方も可能ですが、お勧めは出来ません。
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- じょじょ
- 2007/01/09 (Tue) 19:23
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30歳でコミカレ行きましたがイジメや差別などは全然なかったですし、自分より年上の人達(日本人ではありませんが)見ててもそういうのは見かけませんでした。それどころかみんなより社会経験があるからか結構頼られる事が多かったです。(そして頼る人がいないw)
ただホントに日本人だけで集まってる若い人の集団には入りきれなかった部分はありましたね。彼らは情報を共有してるから私らなんかよりウマイ事やってますしね。でもね、それはどちらかというと、こっち(年上側)が遠慮してたり『今時の若いもん』的な偏見持ってた部分も大きかったような気もしますよ。実際何度かパーティにも参加してみましたがみんなイイ子ばっかりだったんですよ。
振り返ってみると、コミカレにいた頃って初めての就職以来の、『自分と違う世界の人達』との人間関係の勉強になったと思います。人種や年齢、考え方が違うだけでなく、仕事という共通の目的も持たないですしね。
それにそれまでは当たり前にいた、友達の大切さも30過ぎて思い知りましたw。
- #4
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- ブギー
- 2007/01/09 (Tue) 20:39
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トピ主さん、
今通っていらっしゃるコミカレで、若い人たちからいじめを受けているのですか?
私が高卒でこっちへ留学したときは、同じ年も年上も関係なく仲良くしていました。どっちかっていえば、年上の友達のほうが多かったかも!?私の周りで、年上だからという理由で差別していた人はいませんでしたよ。
同じレベルからのスタートしているのに、誰が上で誰が下とか幼稚な考えをしている人がいたら、ただ無視すればいいんですよ。無理やり、若い人と仲良くしようとしなくたって、いいんでじゃないですか?だって、あなたは若い人と友達になるためじゃなくて、勉強をしに学校へ通っているんですから。
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