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40 ～ Unemployed in his 50s ・ Never married, lives with parents

Daily life
#1
  • かまぼこ
  • mail
  • 2022/11/04 18:00

I am a parent in my 70s.

Fortunately, all three of us are in good health, and we try to be as close to our children as possible so that the atmosphere in our home does not become

awkward.

In the past, I used to give my children a lot of attention about work, etc.

At that time, I had a hard time because my children were upset with me.

If any of you （ unemployed, 40 ～ in your 50s ） living with your parents,

how are you doing,

please write to us! Please write to us.

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#2
  • 疑問
  • 2022/11/04 (Fri) 20:34
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It is good that Mr. Kamaboko is alive and well now, but if he is unemployed and at that age, will he be able to support himself if something happens to him ？
I hope his parents have a large inheritance. 、、、、、

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#3
  • 疑問
  • 2022/11/04 (Fri) 20:35
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So you live on welfare ？?

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#6
  • おっさん
  • 2022/11/04 (Fri) 21:30
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Why didn't they kick him out sooner ？
The parents were the problem, just like they were with Japan's elderly shut-in children
It's too late now. You have to let things be what they will be or give up.

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#8
  • 事件に発展
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 08:05
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Often in the Japanese news, middle-aged children kill their elderly mothers. There is no more unfortunate way to die than to be killed by your own child.

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#8
  • 疑問
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 09:00
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I really think you are right, you must have a very cute child. But it is also the parents' responsibility to point them to independence. But since Mr. Kamaboko designed the house so that you can live on your parents' inheritance without working, you don't have to worry about it.
You are the one who designed it that way.　Your children are probably taking advantage of it.

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#9
  • 疑問
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 09:03
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Kamaboko,
However, we cannot give up on our wish for the child's happiness. I think your child is happy because he is on the rail of hope, a life without working.

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#9
  • ８０５０問題
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 09:27
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In Japan, it's called the 8050 problem.

The problem of parents in their 80s who need care and children in their 50s who are unemployed, shut-ins, and unmarried.
They often say, "Let the pretty children travel," and I think it is right to let them do so.

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#16
  • だから
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 14:16
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↑ I'm not asking how you spend your time.

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#17
  • 急に
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 15:08
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You can't suddenly become independent because you worked today, step by step, and mom says it's all covered. Parents worry about their children no matter how old they are. They are overprotective, and it looks like they have a lot of money to raise.
All hail ！

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#18
  • でも
  • 2022/11/05 (Sat) 16:05
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That's how they eat up all the money they get.

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#20
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/11/06 (Sun) 06:51
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uber eats, doordash

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#21
  • 確かに
  • 2022/11/06 (Sun) 07:34
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Ototto, you're decent sometimes.
Lyft and Uber drivers can do it too. Since there is no one to lean on, kamaboko, all your replies are gone.

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#22
  • 昭和のおとっつぁん
  • 2022/11/06 (Sun) 08:51
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With uber eats and doordash, it's just hello, thank you.
In some cases, it's easier to just leave it at the door and the delivery is complete.

Lyft and Uber drivers have to make small talk
If they are not friendly, they will be rated as bad and not able to do it.

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#23
  • ４０半ば
  • 2022/11/06 (Sun) 08:58
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The 8050 problem has developed into a social issue and seems to be quite serious.

I haven't seen my parents in a while since Corona, but their backs are starting to turn and I'm worried that they are getting to the age where they need care.

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