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彼が出来ると連絡がなくなる友達....
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- why
- 2009/12/07 14:28
私の友達は彼氏が出来ると急に連絡がなくなります。
もちろん、連絡、会う回数が減るのは分かりますが。
なので最近はうんざりしてます。彼と別れるとまた連絡がきて。
この事を友達に言うべきでしょうか?それとも言わないほうがいいのでしょうか?
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- ビートたけし
- 2009/12/07 (Mon) 14:51
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そういう人、いますよ。
それだけ一途なんでしょうし、別にそれくらいのことでうんざりしません。
私の場合、そういう人には冗談っぽくそういうことを指摘したことがあります。
ただ、why さんが連絡が欲しいとメッセージを残したにも関わらず連絡が来ないようならばその人とは友達として付き合うのを考え直せばいいのではないでしょうか?
- #3
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俺の周りにも一人いるよ、そういう人。
しばらく連絡無いなぁと思っていると、突然連絡が来る。
で、そのときの話の内容は、大体は、
1.男手が必要で困っている
2.男のことで悩んでいる、もしくは別れた
のどっちかです
何回もおんなじ男とくっついたり別れたりで、さすがにまたくっついたって言うのも恥ずかしくて連絡が途絶えるんだか、それとも幸せで、すっかり忘れてるんだか知らないけど、その繰り返しです。
まぁ、うんざりしないことも無いけど、特に害もないし、俺はあんまり気にしてないよ。
- #4
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- porky
- 2009/12/07 (Mon) 15:40
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そういう奴は男にも沢山いますよ。
いつも顔出してた奴が急に来なくなると、大抵女が出来たか、誰かに金を借りて返せない時だった。
友達ってそんな軽いところがあってもいいんじゃない?
- #5
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- LoveM
- 2009/12/07 (Mon) 16:14
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こんにちは、
私の男友達(本当に何にもない友達です)は彼女が出来ると音沙汰が無くなり、別れると電話してきます。
だから、あまり連絡が無いとこっちから電話して
今回は長く続くのねと言ってやります。
その人とはもう、10年ちかくお友達してますけど。
- #6
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- ビーズサンダル
- 2009/12/07 (Mon) 17:37
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私の友達にもそういう人いました・・・
彼氏はもちろんですが、彼氏に限らず自分の都合のいいときだけ連絡してくる人が・・・
しかも、自分の都合だけで私の都合などはおかまいなしみたいなところもあったので、いつも振り回されてるような感じがしてました。
うんざりよりも疲れてしまって、少しずつ距離を置くようにして今は連絡してません。
私は彼氏や彼女が出来れば一途になってしまって連絡がなくなることに対してはどうこう思いませんが、常に自分の都合だけで周りと接するその人とは付き合いきれませんでした。
トピ主さんもそのお友達が普段はトピ主さんのことも考えてくれて、もちつもたれつの関係が築けているならば別ですが、都合のいい人にされてる感じがあるなら今後の付き合いを見直されてはいかがでしょうか??
私は友情も愛情も思いやりが大切だと思います。
- #7
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ごく普通のことだと思います。 ただ、上の人が言うように、振り回されていると感じたら距離をおけばいいと思います。
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