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同僚が好きです
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- 恋愛で悩mu
- 2006/04/20 19:09
私は20代後半の悩める乙女です。恋愛経験豊富な方、アドバイス下さい!
今勤めている事務所の同僚(白人男性、多分30代半ばで結構イケメン)のことが気になっています。彼はもてそうな感じですし、色々な女性とも付き合った経験があり、まだ結婚してないところもみると、「もしかして遊び人ぽい」かも、という気がしないでもありません。
私は彼のことが気になり、会社のフロアも違いますが、彼は日本関連の仕事もあるということで、きっかけを作って話に行ったりしていますが、ランチ、コーヒーに誘ってみる等の大胆な行動に出る勇気はありません。
仲の良い同僚(ベトナム系女性)に相談しても、「付き合ってる人いるよ」等、彼女も情報が確かでないにも関わらず、そういう否定的なことを言ったりして、あまり応援してくれません。また、事務所内での集まり等があると、他の人が彼に話しかけたりして、入る余地がありません。
やっぱり女性同士って、嫉妬しあったりして、あんまり相談するべきじゃないんでしょうか?ナゼそのベトナム系同僚も否定的なことを言うのでしょうか?こんな風に遠慮等していたら、彼氏は一生出来ません!!!
また、彼の方が、事務所で立場的に上です。やはり、そういう意味でも、お付き合いし始めたりするのは少しいけないのでしょうか?
効果的なアプローチ方法、同僚に隠れて取れる行動、等のサジェスチョンがありましたら、お願いします!
- #3
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仕事先では恋愛しないほうがいいと思うな・・うまくいかなくなってギクシャクもいやでしょ?特に上司だと大変だしアメリカ人はそういうところ結構しっかりしてて、自分でオフィスの女の子とつきあって、後で面倒ごとになるような種はまかないと思うけど・・
どうしても好きなら周りには絶対言わないほうがいいですよ。同僚の彼女もまさかそんなにあっけらかんと職場内の恋愛の悩みを人に言うわけがないと思って、スルーまたは冗談だとおもってるんじゃないですか?
とにかくオフィス内の恋愛は後で厄介ですよ。
とにかく仕事しましょう。
- #6
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彼氏を作るのなら、なるべく会社の外にしたほうがいいと思います。 冷たい言い方ですが、いつかは彼か貴女が転職する時がくるんじゃないかと思います。そのときまで待ったほうがいいと思いますよ。
- #5
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私も職場が同じの恋愛はあまりお勧めできません。しかも彼ももてそうで女性交際関係の頻繁そうな人なら絶対後で苦労しそうなので私ならやめておきます。でも好きという気持ちがすごく強くてどうにか行動しなきゃ納得いかないなら当たって砕けろの精神で告白するのもいいかもしれませんね。
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