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(同性間の)友情とは?
- #1
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- さすらい
- 2013/02/26 09:21
定期的に会っていた同姓の女友達がいるのですが、距離を置く事にしました。先日、私がアメリカに引っ越す為、最後に遊びに行った時、彼女に半年くらい前から付き合っている彼氏がいると、その日の終わりくらいに初めて打ち明けられました。私は、「おめでたい事なのに、なぜ早く教えてくれなかったのか」と尋ねると、「彼氏が出来たくらいの事、わざわざ近況報告する必要もないかなと思った、親にも言っていないし。」と言われました。
彼女とは5年くらいの付き合いです。日帰り旅行にも2人で出かけたり、私は自分の恋愛話を打ち明けたりしていました。2年前は、彼女も細かく恋愛の近況を打ち明けて女子トークで盛り上がったりしていたのに、とてもショックでした。彼女は決して恋愛に興味のないタイプではなく、彼女にとって、彼氏が出来た事は大きなイベントのはずです。
親しくない人であれば、プライベートに立ち入られたくないというのも分かりますが、比較的親しいと思っていた分、ショックです。すべてを打ち明ける必要はないと思いますが、私だけが、一方的に心を許していたのがむなしくなり、フェイスブックでつながっているのもバカバカしくなりました。私が暫く連絡を取っていないと、向こうから連絡してくれるので、私の存在は一応認識してくれているのかなと思いますが。
彼女は今年、アメリカに遊びに行きたいと言っていましたが、以前と同じ気分で接する事は難しいです。皆さんはどう思いますか?
- #2
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- ノーベル賞金持ち成功者
- 2013/02/26 (Tue) 09:44
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あなたのしたいようにすればいいんじゃないの?
以前と同じ気持ちで接せれないのだから、所詮他人の私たちが、無理して今まで通りの付き合い続けるべきと言うのも変な話だし、あなたはここでみんなに、無理しないで距離おいた方がいいよって意見を求めてるんでしょ?
思った通りにしなよ。
だいたい、人間関係の悩みなんて、人に同調求めたいだけで、答えはもう決まってるものでしょ?
したいようにしなよ。
それか、他のリア友に相談と言う名の女子トークすればいいんじゃないの?
みんな、私に「いい事言った」って褒めて。。。
- #3
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どんなに親しくても、プライベートなことって言いたくない人もいますので何ともいえませんね。
友人に彼氏がいたことをいわなかったのが、そんなにショックですか?
むしろ、友人に話すのは、女性は相談事が多いですよね?
なので、私なら別に何とも思いません。
”そうなんだ~!良かったね。おめでと~!” って思いましょう。
その方が気が楽ですよ。
難しく考えすぎのような、、
ま・・・・とぴぬしが友人と性格の違い、価値観の違いでしょうね。
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